someone said ,we want to get caught

[DeniseNJ]

Well for me when fall is in the air , I tend to start preping for Denise. To the girls with supporting wifes :thumbsup: but some of us have to wait till the days get shorter and we are not wearing shorts and flip flops all the time . Well I told a story about getting a pedicure and a somewhat color put on , it's been bright and sunny here in NJ and I have been tanning up . Well it seems the darker my feet got the more the polish stood out. I was going everywhere with my toes exposed in sandles , Well the other day this guy comes over to help me fix my computer. I know him but not all that well , he is young like 21 . I didn't care how feminine my feet looked cause I was getting so used to walking around like this that I was like so what. Well I kept seeing him looking down at my feet but he didn't say anything to me. I knew he was checking out the pedicure with the pearl polish on that realy shined colors when the light hit it. I said Yea ,I had a pedicure in AC last week and the chineese girl said I would looked good with this polish on. I am such a lier :bonk: Well the wife isn't a big fan but she didn't say to much and let Denise enjoy her pedicure. The kid looks at me and says your a HOMO laughing, and adds your feet do look good. My response was Hey I like this kind of stuff , we are all different . He doesn't elaborate further, We talk about turbos , blowers and innercoolers and off he goes. A few years ago I would have died if somebody I know say my toes polished. It doesn't scare me that much anymore.. It's not like I'm walking in WAWA to get a cup of coffee with 4" t strap heels in my girl jeans, sport some double D's I am daring but not crazy!!! Now that's a bit extreme.. alltho I would love to:heehee: Does anyone else seem not to care what other people think as much anymore??? There is one thing that is constant in the universe and that is CHANGE do ya feel me girls!!!:hugs:

PS: as not to anger the wife, I took the polish off before she told me to do it . It felt so good her not yelling at me (Take that
SH!T off you toes you look queer)

[joann426]

yes i feel the same way you do i really dont care if any body sees what i wear on my body

[CD Susan]

I keep my finger nails well manicured and long. They are always covered in glossy clear polish and are very noticible. I do not care what other people think, I live my life the way that I enjoy and would never consider letting the views of others prevent me from doing this.

[ArleneRaquel]

I am enfemme 24/7, you would be surprised how many don't notice that I am really a he. Maybe its because I am getting so much better with my makeup, alone with the fact that I have lost weight.:love:

[marny]

It's a shame that last thought was on your mind. being cd doesn't make you gay. I have been painting my toes for 5 years.not gay! Had two funny looks in that time. Have seen at least ten men with painted toes in the meantime. Also had some very knowing looks from women who could tell I am one of them! :D

[Petra1]

It's not like I'm walking in WAWA to get a cup of coffee with 4" t strap heels in my girl jeans, sport some double D's I am daring but not crazy!!!

That's my fantasy!!

[Annie D]

It depends on where I am or where I am going. There are safe places that I frequent where the people there are mostly women and I may be dressed as Annie but can most assuredly be recognized as male (no wig, no make up except lipstick) and I am pretty well accepted and talked to. When I go to the mall or out to a restaurant, I try to pass the best that I can.

I will add, however, that last week I put on a pair of jean shorts, flip-flops (pink painted toenails), underdressed, feminine t-shirt, quarter sized hoops, light pink shaded lipstick, and a baseball cap and shopped at a local Walmart. I kept to myself but the check out lady was accepting and cordial.

I think that we all reach a time that we are prepared for the consequences of our actions and if we can minimize the embarrassment to those around us, then maybe we are ready to be "caught".

[Angie G]

My toes are polished almost all the time bot my wife is the only one who sees it. just not ready for that. I do show my shaved legs all summer and as long as I can wear shorts.:hugs:
Angie

[RitaCD]

Sometimes I wonder if I want to get caught. Three weeks ago I had my first pedicure. What a wonderful experience. I chatted with the GG in the chair next to me until the nail technician pulled out the hot pink polish. The girl's chin about hit her chest. She just looked and me and smiled.

Last week I was driving home en drab but wearing ladies sandals and I passed a DSW shoe store. I went in and tried on several pairs of heels. There were several women in the store but they were too busy looking at shoes to notice me. One lady commented on my pedicure and told me she liked my nail color.

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

I think some of us really do want to get caught and others prefer to stay hidden. I for one am the "get caught type" but I know it would be really hard on my wife so hopefully for that I will never be "caught". I wear nail polish on my toe nails all the time but do not let them be seen by anyone other than my wife or when I am shopping en-femme away from home area. I have at least 50 pair of heels, mostly sandal or open toed and I just love to show off my toes. Favorite color is hot pink!!1

[gennee]

I wear sandals during the summer so everyone sees my painted toenails. I have gotten compliments from women. I have shocked :eek: some of my friends when I reveal who I am. I haven't gotten a pedicure yet but I have that on my agenda.

Gennee

:)

[helenr]

Interesting comments. I believe this yearning to be caught-and accepted-is rooted in all of us. Naturally, if the crossdressing lead to censure, marital strife, etc this would be a different matter. I have a dream of sorts that sometimes I use to fall asleep-that a girlfriend from years ago (I am 61 so it is many years ago!) would have learned I wear nylon briefs, this would have been acceptable and appreciated, and we would have lived happily ever after. Unfortunately, this never happened and while my wife 'tolerates', she hardly encourages or appreciates this personal 'enrichment' in my personality. Alas, common story, I am sure. thanks, helenr

[Laura_Stephens]

I think some CD's would like to be caught. It takes an enormous amount of effort that is very tiring to keep everyting secret. If caught, the effort associated with staying in the closet goes away along with the stress and anxiety.

[marny]

Thanks katie B. Have been cosidering shaving the arms. The hair style is getting more femme. The arms are tommorrow! thanks hon!

[Carol123]

Only by a nice gentleman

[Carly D.]

In the right situation I want to get caught.. I'm not sure what that is right now.. I keep thinking of the right scenerio to be caught but still can't say what that would be..

[abundantly_me]

I found this thread very interesting, because although my SO would probably deny it, I think he actually likes going out to see the reaction of other people.

I think that reaction whether good or non at all, in a way spurs him on. It's a challenge and a thrill.

well that's my :2c: but it would be interesting to do a poll on this.

[tricia_uktv]

I now dress all weekend. I know what to wear if I want to be caught and what to wear if I don't. When I am good I am very, very good. When I am bad I am horrid. But its all fun!

[Jenna Lynne]

Think about it logically - the only CDs that you recognise in the street are the ones who miss some detail, like hairy arms. But how about the ones who shave their arms? People don't notice them. So for every CD who "wants" to be caught there is an unknown number, maybe thousands, who don't.[/FONT]
Right. Reminds me of a classic line. The first guy scoffs, "I've never seen a good toupee." And the second guy replies, "That's right -- you've never seen a good toupee!"

***Jenna Lynne***

[Nicole Erin]

If people know then there is nothing to worry about hiding.

[DeniseNJ]

Yes interesting responses, For me I believe it's the thrill of people seeing you and seeing their looks . Going to Starbucks with the girly jeans , patti sandles and polished toes was thrilling, Having the pedicure done in AC and the whole weekend showing off my toes in a pearl polish on was a rush too. Walking into the beauty store in shorts and girly sandles and a bright color polish on was so erotic for me. The comment of keeping it behind closed doors is so hard and stressful is very true. BUT when I dress completely, and I am no pro at going out in public as Denise, I want to look as convincing as possible that's why I am here , for all the stories from success to failure are great reads , we all learn from them!!!

PS: I feel much more comfortable when a girl see's me like this , it as if they relate to my feelings more and understand. I have been pushing it lately. OH packed my girly jeans for my trip, I really want to pack my girly sandles but the wife might not like me wearing the same shoes as her..

[susan fuller]

Sometimes I think that it would take a lot of worry off my mind if everyone knew. I went to a beauty colege with my wife and we both got a pedicure. When the girl put red polish on my toes some of the trainees started laughing and had their friends come and look. My wife talked to the teachers about not trying to embarrass a client and she talked to the girls about being professional. I wore sandals in and out of the place. The teachers were real nice and said they would put that on the training for the girls.

[Karren H]

I never wanted to get causht for sure!!!! lol

[sfwarbonnet]

I just got caught (underdressed wearing panties, bra, & boobs) three times this week. My wife came home unexpectedly on Monday but didn't seem to notice (or care) that I was wearing a bra and panties with my nightshirt. Yesterday, my wife was again at work and went directly to a trading card show, so I wore her bra all day with my panties, pantyhose, and slip. However, that evening, my son again dropped over, this time with a friend who is also a policeman. Although they are trained to be observant, neither of then seemed to notice the bra or nylons. Today I am again wearing her bra (wirh boobs) and panties, pantyhose and a slip. We are going shopping later for support tights for me. I will, of course, be wearing a short top, women's slacks and the panties, pantyhose, and slip that she (reluctantly) got for me.

[Paragraph added on 10/6] It's not being "caught" any more, as it's now natural for me to wear panties, pantyhose, slip, and bra. (Gotta remember to remove the "boobs" if someone drops in unexpectedly. or the doorbell rings, so I don't really get "caught".) I wore suntans with light colored women's plain front pull-on pants and shorts this summer and was comfortable doing it in public. However, with the onset of cooler weather, I have put the summer pants and shorts away with the short sleeve tops and I'm afraid the suntans will be apparent with darker pants. I am so attired now, and my wife and I are going shopping later to get me more tank-top slips and pantyhose. Perhaps I should get opaque support tights, but they would probably be more expensive than everyday support Leggs which I like because if they get run I am not discarding expensive stockings!

[sfwarbonnet]

I wore a dress, panties, pantyhose, and a slip again last night, and I am wearing a bra too now. The more "natural" this becomes, the further I want to go, and the more likely I am to get "caught".

[sometimes_miss]

I think most of us just want someone, anyone to accept us, getting caught and accepted becomes a wish because many of us don't have the courage to risk telling someone outright. We'd love having someone accept us when they find us en femme. Unfortunately, it usually won't work out that way. Hasn't for me, anyway. So I no longer put myself at risk by tempting fate, I try to be very careful.

[Sam-antha]

Caught ? Certainly not in Public, as for Private, my mind boggles.

~Samm

[Miss Tessa]

I cannot believe you let somebody insult you in your own home.

If somebody called me something like a homo (I'm bi yet it is a rude assumption and that's my point) then I would have gotten violent right then and there.

I am latina and NOBODY comes into my house and insults me. I don't know what's wrong with you white people but that just shocks me.

[sometimes_miss]

Well, nothing's wrong with us. Some of us, well we just develop a thick skin over the years. I grew up being routinely taunted throughout each day by other kids because of a deformity on my face. Compare that to the occasional insult, no big deal.

[sfwarbonnet]

It is now natural for me to wear panties, pantygose, and a slip everyday (& if my wife is at work, I wear a stuffed bra too). In the evening i remove my pull-on pants and shirt, and put on a dress. The change is becomming earlier though, increasing the risk that I will get "caught" by someone dropping in...

[cindym5_04]

I get pedicures randomly and sometimes different colors put on. I've done that for years and really don't care what other people think. Usually I'll let either my wife or the girl at the shop pick out what color to put on. They generally don't suggest anything too outlandish. I have had pretty much all colors on my toes before though- from pink to a dark silver chrome.

One of my ex-girlfriends wanted our toes to match before, so we went for a pedicure. She ended up having this really light green put on my toes with little white flowers. I didn't care for it because it's not really my style, but I was like "whatever".

The women customers at the places that I've been have thought that it was cool that I get them done. I've actually had ladies try to pick me up before over the years. I've never gone and had it done while I've been "dressed" though. I do fantasize about that, though- getting my toes done and getting nail extensions done while I'm "Cindy".

[tanyalynn51]

although I never dress in outer clothes when I go out normally, I have taken short walks to the dumpster at my apartment complex in the middle of the night. I think I can say that I do kind of wish I would be caught by an understanding person.

[CD Susan]

I recently went to see my podiatrist for an ongoing foot problem I have. My toenails were painted a bright red and the doctor and two of his staff that saw my feet did not say one word about the red toenails. I recently got my ears pierced and wear whatever kind of earrings I want when I am out. My fingernails are long with glossy clear polish on them all the time and I pluck and shape my eye brows too. I do not care anymore what other people think and this has liberated me from trying to hide who I am. It is a great feeling.