Does your SO like anything about your femme side?

[carnut62]

In doing research to bring the crossdressing topic up to my wife I was wondering if there were things your SOs like about your feminine side? It doesn't have to be dressing related or even when you are dressed.

For example maybe you like shopping more than the guy next door and she enjoys that. Or you buy your SO gifts that other guys wouldn't have the nerve to purchase. Or that you maintain your appearance in drab mode and don't have the 50 long weird eyebrow hairs. Or sharing clothes, etc.

Just looking for positives about having a femme side.

Hugs,
Tabitha.

[Ruth]

Whilst I was repressing my CD self I was moody, closed-in, not very good company a lot of the time. Since Ruth came out, we are both much brighter and nicer to know. I am also able to express my feelings much more easily and my wife says she finds me much more affectionate than I was.
We can also have conversations about clothes, hairstyles etc. which she finds very enjoyable. I was always prepared to go clothes shopping with her but now she enjoys it more since she knows she can ask for a feminine viewpoint. (She is still not keen on going shopping for clothes for Ruth however.)

[Annaliese]

Going to movies that would be considered chic ficks. Doing the cooking, cleaning up around the house. Talking to her and lising. Shoping (no) I like to shop more than she does.

Annaliese

[Christie ann]

Not really.
She does not like my feminine nature being to overt nor any conversation about what I would like to wear. However, she does like my cleaning and housekeeping and readiness to watch chic flicks and never give her a hard time about buying any clothes.

A girly husband is not her thing.

[Karen Francis]

NO, she hates every bit of it

[Di]

Although I like/ love both sides :D What I like about Shers girl side
Shopping we have fun for sure doing that:battingeyelashes:
Girl Spa days or nights:daydreaming:
Going out as two g/fs
Dancing ...Sher loves to dance...guy side...nope
Our own private slumber parties.
I have a girlfriend as well as a boyfriend
Double our wardrobe :thumbsup:
Sher has just the slip or bra for that new dress I might have bought and I can borrow it AND VISE VERSA:D
Sher is a lot easier to buy gifts for.
When Sher buys buys me clothes, she knows the correct size
Will not complain if I wear curlers to bed
Lets me try new do's on her hair
Never complains about leaving the delicate undies out to dry.
Satin and velvet are more snuggly :o
I can borrow Shers jewlery and vise versa:)
Understands why I go through so many pairs of stockings.
Does not expect me to get ready for a night on the town in 15 minutes
I can ask her how a outfit looks and get a truthfull answer
When she says "Hon, you look nice." I know She really means it.
Its like having a live in cosmetologist.:D.
Dress her up in a French Maid's Uniform and ohhh la la
Accepting me as I am and I totally do her as well.

Its fun and brings a closeness thats hard to explain and since you said you are researching to be able to tell her.........please stress to her you are the same person she has always known...............nothing has changed....you love her.................you were afraid to tell her ( I think this will be the thing that will upset her most after she gets her head around it...the secret) answer all her questions honestly and have info for her books ect...this site....when and if she wants them. Be prepared best wishes:hugs:

[Toni_Lynn]

Debbie likes everything about my femme side, and she accepts it as the totality of the me that is me. From dressing and the (fun!) sexual side of it, to the fact that she says that I am more sensitive and caring in general and not all macho, she likes the girl within me, and that makes me feel very loved.

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

[Marissa Mae]

No, she doesn't like anything about it. She only makes an effort to tolerate it, not to accept it. Whenever I try to broach the subject, she tries to change it as quickly as possible, or she just gives me smart-ass answers/ doesn't take me serious. It's frustrating :( I want to involve her NOT just for my benefit, but because I want her to know what is going on, that I have nothing to hide (it's called being honest, I think?). I know that it is "weird" for her, and I just wish there was something that could help us compromise.

[KathrynTX]

My SO loves that I shave my legs and armpits. She also appreciates the fact that I share my feelings and emotions more easily, and that I'm not afraid to cry.

[beau]

she likes where the toilet seat is kept :devil:

[Cathytg]

My wife is very happy with my fem side. She loves the sensitivity I have for her problems and issues and joys. She loves the way I appreciate her taste in clothing and how we always a have great time shopping together. She loves how I can share my own joys and trials of femininity.

In short, being TG has been a very powerful positive force in our lives.

[jill s]

Nada, Zero, Zilch

[charlie]

Nothing! My SO does not want anything fem as it applies to me. Must be macho, macho, macho....and don't talk to me about that CD stuff either!

[SherriePall]

Di -- How can I beat that list for you and Sher? I will say that my wife calls me her fashionista. She asks if this top will go with this bottom or whatever. I tell I don't know anything about fashion, but she says that I do. So, I play along and add my two cents.

[darla_g]

My wife actually said she thinks i do a nice job on makeup. She must like it, she sent me for more foundation (she uses Clinique from the dept store) and asked me to pick out some lipstick and eyeshadow for her

[DemonicDaughter]

Like Di, there isn't a thing about Kayla (DD's Girl) I don't love. But if you really want to get down to it... sure the clothes, borrowing, closes, spa nights, sharing, etc is nice...

But what I love the most is seeing the person I love truly happy. What isn't there to love about that?

[Di]

Like Di, there isn't a thing about Kayla (DD's Girl) I don't love. But if you really want to get down to it... sure the clothes, borrowing, closes, spa nights, sharing, etc is nice...

But what I love the most is seeing the person I love truly happy. What isn't there to love about that?

Yes being happy...nothing better well said DD:thumbsup::thumbsup:

[Vivian_Anne_1]

I can only dream that my wife would be accepting of my femme side.

[carnut62]

she likes where the toilet seat is kept :devil:

I know that is true!!

[goofus]

That's too bad that so many say the SO doesn't like the femme side at all :(

[Samantha43]

My wife love the fact that I am good with makeup. She loves it when I give her a makeover. She says it is very relaxing and she likes the way she looks when we are finished.

[KatieZ]

Advantages of Having a Crossdressing Husband


Advantages of Having a Crossdressing Husband
1. You can have your own private slumber parties.
2. If he wears a skirt it's easy access.
3. He always envies you because he would rather be wearing what your wearing.
4. You can have a girlfriend as well as a boyfriend who doesn't mind waiting while you take your time shopping.
5. You can double your wardrobe if he's the same size as you!
6. You never have to worry about cheating on you with another woman. He IS the other woman!!
7. You always have a girlfriend to go shopping and have lunch with!!
8. He'll NEVER object to being a clothes dummy and wearing a dress while you hem it.
9. While shopping, you can test a new shades of nail polish on him and he doesn't complain or ask to see a matching lipstick.
10. He'll rarely have scratchy five o'clock shadow.
11. He'll never ask you to have a thresome with another woman as long as he can wear the lingerie.
12. He will be sympathetic about your excess body hair.
13. He won't tear your lingerie when removing it from you.
14. He won't mind waiting on you or your girlfriends, and he won't forget to curtsey.
15. If you need a slip for that new dress you bought, he happens to have the perfect one, and lets you borrow it.
16. You can switch off wearing high heels on a long shopping spree.
17. A man in a dress makes a good cook.
18. He loves to smell perfume and will give you an honest opinion.
19. You can test a new shade of lipstick on him.
20. If you purchase something for the home, it will never be too feminine.
21. At least the toilet seat will be down.
22. He is a lot easier to buy gifts for.
23. He knows just the right way to make love, takes his time and knows just what makes you tick!
24. He will understand much better that the best thing a girl can have when she feels down is new clothes.
25. If he buys you clothes, you know he sizes them right.
26. You can take him to the hair salon with you and he will sit quietly while you both get your hair done, and he will never complain. In fact he'll thank you.
27. The only time he will ever care if you wear curlers to bed is if he has to wear the oversize rollers.
28.He understands why you don't care for spending 8 hours a day in pantyhose and high heels.
29. Never complains about leaving the delicate underwear out to dry.
30. You have a girlfriend that doesn't get PMS.
31. He will not only shop with you but will pay the bill as well!
32. He knows how to handle the delicates when he does the laundry.
33. Satin and velvet are more snuggly than denim and wool.
34. He understand the need for quality cosmetics.
35. You have more excuses to go shopping, and he will even carry the bags.
36. You can borrow his jewlry, clothes and makeup.
37. He understands why you go through so many pairs of stockings.
38. He no longer expects you to get ready for a night on the town in 15 minutes or less.
39. The world needs more feminist in lipstick.
40. You can take the Cosmo quizzes together.
41. You can ask him how na outfit looks and get an intelligent response.
42. His new friends don't spend all day watching football.
43. He knows to walk slow when your wearing heels.
44. If he says, "Hon, you look nice." you know he really means it.
45. He can spot makeup smudges better than any other guy.
46. He's like having a live in cosmetologist.
47. He loves to go shopping with you and watch you try on clothes.
48. He knows how to treat a lady with care and respect.
49. He's a friend that will stick arround, and won't flake out on you or stab you in the back.
50. He loves to dress up and have long chat sessions.
51. You can have a threesome without adding another partner.
52. If you've been bi-curious you can experiment a little.
53. You know one of you will have a tissue with you when you need it.
54. Dress him up in a French Maid's Uniform and you have a house cleaner for the day.

credit for this list goes to Christie...
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=41043&highlight=advantages

[Rachel Morley]

I was wondering if there were things your SOs like about your feminine side?
My feminine side (in a general sense) is what she likes best! She says she could never be with a "regular guy" ever again. You see, my wife Marla doesn't really like guys much, she prefers a partner who is "more like a girl" (her words not mine) especially when it comes to personality and compatibility.

Our TG group the River City Gems (http://www.rivercitygems.org/) did some outreach at a college recently (it was a human sexuality class) ... and my wife was on the panel. During the Q&A session someone asked her: "What's it like being married to a crossdresser?".

She said (and I remember every single word): "I like it that my husband is in touch with his feminine side, I like it that he understands some of the things of what it is like to be a woman, I like it that he completely understands why it takes so long for me to get ready to go out, I love it that he understands that how I can look in the mirror one day and feel confident and cute and that the very next day feel the opposite, he knows this because he feels this same way about himself when he dresses as a woman, there are many good things about being married to a crossdresser. Unfortunately there are a couple of bad things too (at this point I was worried about what Marla might say) she said: "The secrecy is the worst part. Having to hide this part of our lives from Rachel's family and not being able to be open about it as if it was "normal". Our neighbors have never been told but I do think that they do know unless they think there is another woman living in our house with us as they see two women going out on the weekends. The other thing is not being able to be affectionate with each other in public when Rachel is in girl mode. I still know that it's my husband when he is dressed .... but he's just looking different and to me kinda cute, but I can't hold his hand in public or kiss him if we go out as "two girls". We have to pick our moments, that's why we like going to LGBT venues because it's normal for for "girls" to hold hands or kiss."

I know this is unusual, but this is how it is in our marriage. The other thing that my wife tells me all the time that there is nothing wrong with a guy wanting to "feel" pretty. She also likes it that I am "quieter and softer" when I dress. If, like me, you have a gentler personality anyway, but that it tends to come out even more when you dress, then that's good too.

So what I'm saying is, when I dress, it puts me in a different mind-set. A mind-set that influences certain personality traits in me and (in my mind at least) makes me feel better about myself whilst nurturing behavior that both me and my wife think suits me, and it also makes me feel pretty, happy and contented.

[Tracii G]

My SO is OK with it he doesn't understand the need to do it but is very accepting.He get comments from the people he works with when I have to pick him up from work every now and then.They think he has a girlfreind.
He does enjoy the fact I'm not too macho and a little girly.
I can still whip him arm wresteling.

[Sandra]

I'm the same as Di and DD. :D

There really isn't anything I don't like.

[Tasha McIntyre]

My wife ain't exactly ecstatic about the feminine side of my wardrobe, but she openly appreciates my easy going nature, a factor she attributes to my femme crossdressing side. So unlike a lot of the rock ape knuckle dragging neanderthals out there!

[Ze xx]

Since coming clean, my SO is a lot more relaxed and more the man that I met than the frustrated person hiding a secret. Now that he is relaxed and happy, that's the best for me :)

Other bonuses include my shoe pool being doubled :D

[ReineD]

It is hard to attribute some qualities strictly to her feminine side as I feel they are present all the time: her sweet nature, her sensitivity, her understanding of me as a woman. And the cuddling! I love all the cuddling. But, we do most of that in guy mode.

She positively glows when she is dressed! She has gorgeous long, blonde, curly hair.

Some things that are strictly her: I enjoy her fashion sense. I value her opinion about what works with what. It is fun spending time in her closet putting outfits together. Just like spending time with a girlfriend. It is much more fun to go shopping with her than with him. Oh, and we went to see a chick flick together once, at her suggestion! And we're talking about doing a power lunch (wearing suits) together. If I forget something, I can always borrow one of hers. She knows how to undo jewelry clasps. I do not feel embarrassed about asking her to paint my nails. And I love her taste in the gifts she chooses for me. I cannot imagine ever wanting to return one. I'm sure there is more that I can't think of right now.

I feel a degree of complicity or a unique bond when we are together in public dressed (once we get past the stress) that I have not felt with anyone before.

What a nice topic for a thread. Thank you!
:hugs:

[Ze xx]

I've been having a bit more of a think about this. He's actually bringing out my feminine side more. I know this is daft but when he first showed me his stash I couldn't believe that he had some nicer underwear than I have. So I just had to go an get some more lacy stuff :D I tried on one of his skirts to show him why I don't wear that particular style, I have large calves and this skirt is a knee length flared skirt and I always said that style would look awful on me. Well, he proved me wrong as it actually looked really nice. Shame it was too small for me!

[tamarav]

Since I told my wife well before our marriage 25 years ago she simply looks at Tami as an extension of the male she married. She also has a live in hair stylist, maid, makeup artist (who supplies all her MAC cosmetics) cook and girl friend.

Her only down side is that she is larger than me now and and wishes she could get into some of my clothes...

[tommi]

Laundry wench, cook and stylist she always takes me shopping to give her advice .
Then when we get home she will be upset with the way I was touching all the different clothes.
Sorry but part of what drives my dressing is the feel of the fabrics.

[Angie G]

She like that I will not rush her when shopping. I do some girly chores. And to talk about dressing We did this just the other day at my Company Clam bake.:hugs:
Angie

[Valerie]

I was taken aback when my SO first told me she actually preferred Valerie to my all male version, which she found arrogant, aggressive, and impatient. There is no doubt that we are much closer now and I greatly enjoy it when she consults with me about her outfits and accessories. Life is much more fun!

Valerie

[Sandra]

I was taken aback when my SO first told me she actually preferred Valerie to my all male version, which she found arrogant, aggressive, and impatient.
Valerie

I can relate to this, Nigella's male said was similar now she's more gentle and much more easy going.

[PhillyGuy2Girl]

My wife loves that I can express my feminine side,but she loves me more as the man I am. I'm happy to be just a CDer and can have the best of both worlds.I guess you can say I'm having my cake and eating it too.

Felicity :)

[Ze xx]

My wife loves that I can express my feminine side,but she loves me more as the man I am.

Felicity :)

I think that sums me up too x

[justtheskirtfornow]

She is totally supportive of my femme side and loves to look for clothes that would look good on me. She just found me a great pair of heels and she is totally wonderful. She knows that this is part of the person she fell in love with. She is into the sexual side of the CD thing and life is good. She likes to do our makeup together and then watch a good chick flick while all dressed up. Sometimes she wants me to be a man and thats ok with me, we like it all both ways, with me as a man and dressed up in femme.
Steve...Steph

[fluffy_kingston]

I am very lucky. I've been dressing with my wife for years. We both love it and can't imagine it any other way.

[Sarah's lover]

I love Sarah's softer more caring persona. I love the amount of cuddling and unleashed passion, I always felt it was under the surface but now she is openly loving all the time.

I love that we talk so much more now. We kiss passionately now. Things Sarah couldn't do when trying not to have Sarah thoughts!!!

We love going for coffee and clothes shopping, chick flicks with Sarah and the list goes on.

I love her soft legs....

Mmmm bed time :D

[Marjory]

My first wife loved it for about 7 years. She liked everything I did that was considered "womanly" at the time (1968-1975) I also built our house and crewed formula cars and did a stint as a rocket scientist( not as smart as everyone thinks) but she turned over night. Came home and she was gone said she didn't like my XDing anymore. It was very sudden, never did figure it out. I've remained in the closet since then.

[Tina B.]

This morning my wife was not sure about the outfit she was putting to gather for the day, it was nice having a live in fashion consultant. She also likes having someone that will watch fashion oriented shows on TV with her.
She also likes borrowing Jewelry from me. But most of all she likes that I clean house, cook and do laundry, it frees up a lot of time for her to do things she would rather be doing.
Tina B.

[Corsetted Nikki]

My wife says my butt looks fantastic when I'm dressed! She says the garters create a particularly alluring effect.

[Bev06 GG]

Hi Tabitha,
I have copied an old post I did ages ago about the advantages and disadvantages of having a CD as a partner and below you can read what I put. I think though it is mainly accepting SO's who would see anything at all remotely advantageous about it. I think anyone who wasn't quite sure about her feelings toward it would automatically switch off to the advantages.


=Advantages

He loves to go shopping with you and doesn't mind how long you take in the shoe shops or boutiques.
You dont have to hide your latest new pair of shoes and lie when he finds them telling him that youve had them for ages
When you ask him if your bum looks big in this dress he's a tad kinder with the answer because he knows how hurtful criticism can be.
He has developed his dress sense to a standard that you can ask him for an honest opinion about what suits you and looks good
You can borrow his mascara when you have inadvertantly run out and are due to walk out the door at any moment
If you dont have the right coloured lippy for a particular outfit the chances are he does
He doesn't mind how many hand bags you have stashed in the wardrobe
You can borrow his clothes and sucessfully mix and match that new skirt you just bought
He always has two matching earings that you can borrow because you only have odd ones

The Disadvantages

He takes as long as me in the bathroom
He always wants to wear his nice black top when you want to wear it
He takes ages to get ready and makes you late
He can never decide which outfit to wear.

Told you it was fun. So now its your turn.
Take care
Bev

[Laurie A]

my wife really seems to enjoy our love making sessions when i am dressed. it makes me wonder if she has some bi tendencies that she gets to act on with me as a surrogate. in any case i am thrilled to oblige!

[KandisTX]

you name it, she likes it :) My wife just loves ME regardless of what I am wearing.

Kandis:love::rose2:

[Lilith Moon]

Mine has said several times that I just seem like a nicer person when I'm dressed. I don't regard myself as having two personas...it is always the same me but I guess I'm just more relaxed and at peace with the world and myself.

[suchacutie]

There are the little things: We now share facial-care products. We both get facials at the same place. She asks Tina's opinion since now she can get both a male and female opinion on any issue (Tina really tries to have a feminine perspective). As many others have said, Tina watches chick flicks where he doesn't.

But most importantly, Tina understands so much more than he ever thought of understanding. I can relate to my wife on a whole other level, understanding many of her day-to-day issues. That also means I can help her in ways I couldn't before. I really think that physically and mentally walking on the feminine side has brought us so very much closer, and has made her even more comfortable with our closeness and love.

best of luck!
tina

[karynspanties]

My wife likes the femme side. She likes my taste in clothes that I buy her, the fact that I do not have a problem cleaning house or helping with the laundry. We know men that WILL NOT help out around the house. She knows that the femme side is what makes me....me. Plus, it was my birthday yesterday and she bought me 3 new chemises and 6 new pairs of panties!!!:D

[allisonrn06]

My wife seems to like all of it now that she's accepted it. There have been times that I haven't thought of dressing that she's actually suggested/encouraged me to. And I've really come to enjoy our time shopping together. In general, I think it's opened up a whole new, wonderful dimension to our relationship, which was very good to begin with!!

[KimberlyS]

Tabitha, interesting topic. In the process of working through CDing issues awhile back my wife said that she married me for many of my feminine personality features. She just did not think of them as feminine at the time. Other than that she likes that femme time can make me more calm and less stressed. Otherwise she basically tolerates my CDing and wishes I did not need to wear feminine clothes or get out enfemme.

[rachellegsep]

Yes. She just had her gel fill ins done and had no nail polish. I said I have the perfect colour and gave her some a light dusty pink of mine to use, she loves the colour and kept on looking at her hands every so often.

[Karren H]

No.......

[susie evans]

my wife had a hard time with it for years but now it's just part of life we enjoy

:hugs: susie

[Bethany38]

My wife luvs it she shay's just about everything everyone else has said. life is good.:):):):):):daydreaming::daydreaming::daydream ing:

[charlie]

My wife will not recognize anything to do with my feminine side or my dressing. In her mind it does not exist. She wishes it to stay that way.

[LindaMarie]

My wife hates it and wishes I would stop. She thinks it's "creepy" - you can imagine how that makes me feel.

[Kiva]

Does your SO like anything about your femme side?

She had better. My femme side is a big part of what makes me...... me!

Kiva

[Jess_cd32]

My wife hates it and wishes I would stop. She thinks it's "creepy" - you can imagine how that makes me feel.

Ummm, yep know just how you feel, my SO hates it as well.
I dressed up on a boring winter day years ago and walked out and she turned a great feeling into a total nightmare.

I jokingly now call her a tight a** uptight biatch, lmao, even she chuckles on that one.
We hurl insults back and forth alot at eachother and most of the time its just kidding around and I laugh like hell at some of the stuff she says, but I really didn't appreciate her response that day, and to me it drove a wedge in between us that day and I still feel some resentment.

[Jennifer Cox]

Absolutely - NOTHING :sad:

But these days the feelings mutual! :Angry3:

[Marjory]

I sure my wife loves my feminine side... she just doesn't know how far it goes. She likes me to go shopping with her she likes the way I clean and cook do dishes. I'm a good listener and can usually offer advice, but I'm sure things would go south if she found out I crossdressed.

Marjory

[Nicole Erin]

My wife is pretty much indifferent about my dressing. We just don't talk about it much. There are bad days but what does she like? She has never really said but I know...

Mainly she borrows my clothes or makeup a lot.
I don't bitch when she spends a lot of money on makeup.

So yeah, having more clothes and makeup to use.

[gennee]

While my wife accepts my dressing, she's isn't overly thrilled about it. We can share skirts, blouses, blazers, camis and sweaters. So far we haven't come to blows over the same article of clothing :D.

Gennee

[Chris Corbett]

She likes that I shave my under arms and, surprisingly, she likes the feel of my nightie when we make love.

Chris

[lisa_vin]

My wife is "grudgingly tolerant" and that is only after seeing a therapist for several months to discuss my "problem" and how to deal with it. She comes from an old school strict catholic upbringing where men are men, women are women and nothing in between is "normal" or acceptable. She knows I cd but as long as their isn't any VISIBLE physical evidence of it and I don't talk about it, it's tolerated. Until the therapist came into the picture, divorce seemed imminent and obvious! She does disappointingly understand though that my personality, demeanor, likes and dislikes all come from having this strong feminine side and they are all part of what attracted her to me in the first place.

Lisa:)

[vikki2020]

I fall into the "she hates it " category.Doesn't want to see it, hear it,or talk about it.I can certainly relate to a lot of the other posts here.The main problem, I believe, is that she doesn't want to learn anything on the subject,and bases her opinion on mis-information. But we're trying!

[Sophia de la luz]

She feels safer. Which is very good because it means she relaxes. She had a dream the other night about having a bunch of her girlfriends over and one was trying on an outfit. Her friend was concerned I would see her changing. Then I walked by and I was all decked out in women's clothe. No one really took any notice, but the friend felt more comfortable, like maybe it wouldn't really matter. Then I headed into the kitchen and my wife's father was there. His marriage ended, in part, because of his relationship to crossdressing and the dynamic with his wife. In the dream, he's like "What this?"... very surprised.
She likes soft kisses.

[gretchenD]

My wife Nikki says I am her best shopping buddy and knows she can come to me for advice.

[Dalece]

NO, Long story but some of the older girls here on the forum know why.

[Diane CHILDS]

We have know each other for 18 years, she has know about my dressing for 17 years and we have been married for 16 years.

In the early days she was very accepting bought me clothes etc but by the time I had collected more dresses than her she had turned against it and didn't want to see me dressed anymore.

Recently her attitude has softened especially since I shed 3 stone in weight. There is now only one dress size between us and many of my dresses fit her, especially the bias cut ones.

In the past few months she has raided my wardrobe three times to borrow evening dresses for social functions, she has always nicked my stockings, nail polish and other make up sometimes mysteriously disappears from my box and finds it's way to hers.

She also frequently asks my advice on fashions and other girls things.

BUT if you asked her if there was anything she liked about my femme side I'm sure she would say no! She would go onto say that it's part of me, she's unable to change it, so she accepts it and sometimes uses it for her own advantage rather than pointlessly fight it against it..... but likes it? :eek: .... if only! :daydreaming:

Still I'm luckier than some and do have a couple of good female friends who do like my femme side

Love Di x

[glynnis]

My wife loves my feminine side and encourages me always.

[Jo_so]

I love this.
Just had addition....
CD Husband dropped the back of an earring into the bathroom basin...
Who needs a plumber!!

[unclejoann]

she likes where the toilet seat is kept :devil:

You mean she leaves it up?

[2B Natasha]

What other words are there for HATES IT, can't stand it, can you say Dicorce! I don't really know why. I think she has this fairy tale fantasy view of the world. Yo know the one where men are men and women are women. Thats all so black and white.
What I don't understand is that I do the cooking. I do the shopping. I get up in the middle of the night with the child. I bath, read and put him to bed. I sew on buttons when they fall off and love to watch " What not to wear " with her. I also can do all those " Male " things. Fix the toilet, repair the house etc etc etc.
If the list of GG stereotypical ideals are left to me and that is OK, why are the heels not OK?