Worried over nothing...

[Natalia]

For years my wife has told me that she drew the line at wigs...

Well some months back I bought a couple (as you can see in my avatar pic.

Yesterday we had our first 'put the kids on the school bus and start the day with Pina Colada's - breakfast of champions' day of the school year. Once we were on our second, I nervously told her that I had bought them worried that she would be furious.

She said, "Oh yeah, I saw those in your bag when I was getting a bra...you want to wear one today?"

Completely nonchalant...non issue...months of worry and then nada. Sheesh.

God I love this woman...:hugs:

Today she is insisting on taking me shopping. She also agreed that it would be fun to drive around with me dressed since with a wig it would'nt be apparant that it was a guy dressed up...EEK! I'm going to wait on that until a reainy day to obscure the windows a bit - I'm actually a bit of a coward....

[Ze xx]

Aw, :)

[2b.Lauren]

I envy many of the people that have been able to share their passion for dressing with their SO's. It is funny that your concern with wigs and that you were so very worried that she would be furious since that is what she indicated, but instead she was not only aware, but supportive and then great with it. It makes me wonder if I have allowed this fear to be bigger than it ever really would be, and maybe I am limiting myself through my fear to share. We all are aware of how some of our fears can be so unrealistic. Not sure I am ready to take that chance but it allows me to think about it anyway.

Lauren

[Karren H]

That cool!! My wife would have said something simular...

"Yeah I saw it in your bag.... And btw I burnt it in the fire place along with all your other fem things... Ohh and your sleeping outside with the dog tonight".......

Sigh........

[ggtracy]

I think by "setting boundaries", it is simply a way for us GG's to feel like we have regained a little control over our own lives. even if its done it private, Crossdressing is an issue that affects the SO too. feeling like we have some control in how things progress typically makes things easier to handle.

many times, in my own life and what I have seen online, is as the SO's comfort level rises, the boundaries initially set become more fluid or disappear completely.

[Natalia]

You are one of the most together gals on the board...I'm sorry to hear that.

[PamelaTX]

Good for you, Natalia! I hope my wife and I can reach the same level of understanding.

[Eileen]

Natalia I hope your wife continues to be supportive and the two of you can enjoy Sister time together. Go for a drive on a nice sunny day. You will be fine and go for a walk. You will feel so energized by the sun.

Eileen

[marieanne]

Gives hope for the up coming season. Maybe with holloween coming up I can get my first wig. this year.

[docrobbysherry]

It sounds like your wife really cares for u, and ABOUT u!:hugs:

[pinkeverything]

I can only dream about being in your position.

[Angie G]

That's sweet that lady need some flowers Natiala. :hugs:
Angie

[Jess_cd32]

That cool!! My wife would have said something simular...

"Yeah I saw it in your bag.... And btw I burnt it in the fire place along with all your other fem things... Ohh and your sleeping outside with the dog tonight".......

Sigh........

Sounds like my gf, hope they never meet and conspire,lol

[donnalee]

That cool!! My wife would have said something simular...

"Yeah I saw it in your bag.... And btw I burnt it in the fire place along with all your other fem things... Ohh and your sleeping outside with the dog tonight".......

Sigh........

:eek:She makes your dog sleep outside?:sad:

[KimberlyS]

Boundaries in a relationship can change drastically over time just like many other things in relationships. For both the good and bad. Talking about them is the only way you will know where they are currently at.

[Dita_B]

Wow you're one lucky girl Natalia!

My wife would not go to the extent Karren's wife would go, like burning things, but I am sure she would love to do it... She hates everything that has to do with Dita with a passion and leaves no occasion unused to rub that in...

So, enjoy, and know that you are privileged among us, at least for what I am concerned.

:love:Dita.

[Jenniferpl]

You go girl.

[Jaclyn NM]

I just hpoe that some day my wife gets to that point. But, hey, I can't complain, because she does accept my crossdressing, and I can dress at home, we just haven'y gotten that far yet. Some day.

[Mary Morgan]

You go girl. Congrats, and give her a big hug!

[Dragster]

Dita,
I don't think Karren's wife really burnt everything, Karren just has her tongue in her cheek....as usual! Tell us it wasn't true Karren!

Tony