talking to SO again

[tealannette]

we discussed my cd'ing about 5 years ago. She demanded I quit and promise never to do it again. Wellll we all know how that goes. So I'm going to try again. Wish me luck.

[Alice B]

Wishing you tons of luck. Let us know how it goes.

[DonnaT]

Best of luck.

At least you tried, for her sake, now maybe she can try a little tolerance for your sake?

[tealannette]

Thanks girls will do

[Joanne f]

I wish you luck







joanne :fairy2:

[Ze xx]

The very best of luck to you :hugs:

Love Ze xx

[Angie G]

Luck hun. :hugs:
Angie

[Jess_cd32]

we discussed my cd'ing about 5 years ago. She demanded I quit and promise never to do it again. Wellll we all know how that goes. So I'm going to try again. Wish me luck.

Yes I know how that goes, my first attempt wasn't pleasant either, never even got to any discussion, but it should again soon now.
Good luck,some of our GG's are tough nuts to crack.

[PamelaTX]

Good luck!

[jennifer ann]

Good luck I hope it goes well. I am in the same position as you, I am going to try and have another talk with my SO in the next couple of weeks.

[Sandra]

Can I suggest that you have as much info to hand as possible, take it slow with her and ask her not to but in until you have said what you want to, (I find if I'm trying to tell someone some thing and they keep butting in I lose my train of thought.)

If she wants to talk and ask questions then be as honest with her as you can, also listen to her concerns and worries, maybe instead of her suggesting some ground rules you do it.

Good luck.

[Patty]

Good luck!!

[tealannette]

Thanks girls, but the weekend didn't go so well. She sure is one tough nut.lol But I'm not giving up. I love being who I am. And I care deeply for all of you.I'll be in touch

[Emma England]

Why should anyone make demands of you?

[melissacd]

we discussed my cd'ing about 5 years ago. She demanded I quit and promise never to do it again.

I know that this also happened in my case but it never ceases to amaze me both when I remember this happening to me and when I hear about this happening to others. I realize now that no one has the right to demand that someone else change for their benefit, others need to learn to accept us as we are or move on.

[Satrana]

we discussed my cd'ing about 5 years ago. She demanded I quit and promise never to do it again.

Wow! that is a big sacrifice on your part, 5 years is a long time to set aside your needs for her non-acceptance. I hope that she recognizes the sacrifice you made but somehow I doubt it. More likely she will be angry that you are raising the subject again after she thought she had lain it to rest.

Best of luck, I think you will need it. :hugs:

[Katy Dee]

As an understanding SO my heart goes out to you. I wish you luck. Whatever happens don't lose sight of who you are and what you want. All you crossdressers have found your true selves. That is a lot to be said about you. Many of us are never sure what we want or who we really are. Stick with it Kid!
Katy Dee