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markie v
09-29-2008, 12:21 AM
OK here is my situation.

I am a normal Male that always felt Female and feel I should have been born Female. I like doing Female things and I like how Women are treated and I want that treatment too but I keep doing Male things to suppress the feelings.

I have done all of the Male things in life to make myself fit in but the Women inside is still there.

I really am not attracted to Men except for a few I have seen here and there, I am totally attracted to Women. I am also attracted to Transsexual MTF because they are Women in my eyes.

I love wearing Lingerie but I am not into Womens Clothes like dresses and skirts and Girly things.

I feel like I am a Butch Lesbian trapped in a Male body, does this make sense to anybody or do I have some weird issues?

Anybody else feel like this?

I feel it is logical to feel this way cause we all know there are people born Gay and lesbian and live their lives like this.

markie v
09-29-2008, 10:35 AM
35 visits and no reply?

Sandra
09-29-2008, 10:46 AM
Maybe none of those 35 could offer anything.

I'm sure someone will come along and reply in time.

Sharon
09-29-2008, 12:37 PM
I am sometimes just at a loss for words. :)

carolinoakland
09-29-2008, 01:13 PM
I've always known that I'm a lesbian trapped in a male body. And I have as well tried to cover up my female nature. Now that I'm starting the transition process the things that made me seem ' wrong ' as a male are now good things. And I feel right. The more I am female the more I feel like me, not like I'm having to look over my shoulder to see if anyone's noticed that I am walking with more of a hip swing than is normal for a male. I don't care anymore. I'm female, and it gets easier to breath now. Carol

Chari
09-29-2008, 01:50 PM
Always be comfortable in who you are, no matter what image you present - girl, guy, or someone in between. It is sad that most societies have set rules and barriers that classifies everyone and then decides who is suppose to wear what rather than accepting the individual for being just that - an individual! Some of us are fortunate to correct the errors of nature, while others remain living in the closet.

Sarah...
09-29-2008, 02:08 PM
35 visits and no reply?

Only just seen the post. Have you tried to ditch the labels, including "man" and "woman" and just go with how you feel? You can always put the labels back later if you really need them. Once you've got in touch with how you feel then you can be yourself, whoever that might be.

Also, find someone to talk to one to one, in person. The responses here can be absolutely brilliant, total clarity, but you still need the feedback you can only get from talking in person.

I hope this helps in some small way.

Sarah...