A problem I have not encountered before

[Amiad]

Family is gone (see other post)....getting ready for bed. Forms, bra, cami and was thinking about what the wife wears to bed on her "bottom" and became confused. She wears my boxers to bed....so as a crossdresser should I wear thongs (her normal daily wear) to bed or should I "truly" crosssdress and wear my OWN underwear to bed??????:eek::):o:D!

[DawnRodgers]

Truly a conundrum. Dressing as a woman who wears boys thngs. My choice is woman all the way. Panties of any type, as long as they are panties. Do prefer sexy, silky thongs though. Definitelt girly.

[Jessicaparkson]

I'm with dawn :)

[trannie T]

If she wears your daytime underwear to bed, then you should wear hers, especially when you are in the same bed.

[Deborah Jane]

A confusing situation to be in indeed!!
As a crossdresser you ought to be wearing feminine panties or a thong in bed, but..... As your wife wears your boxers in bed you ought to be wearing them with your forms, bra and cami.
But if you wear boxers in bed, surely that will mean you aren,t really a crossdresser!!

Solution.... Wear boy shorts :D

That way you can retain your position as a crossdresser and you will still technically be wearing clothing which could be associated as being male [if only by the name]

[CD Susan]

Husband and wife crossdressers.....how cool!!!!

[Roberta Marie]

Wear what you are comfortable wearing. I'm not comfortable sleeping with anything under my nightgown, so that's what I wear, nothing!

Grace,
Bobbi

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

Wear what ever you like as long as your wife does not object. As for me I wear nighties with matching panties all the time. My wife has matching sets like mine and we sometimes match up.

[Nicole Erin]

Don't wear an ass-floss thong! :heehee:
Those things are hideous.

WEar what you want really.

[unclejoann]

You're not trying to be your wife, so wear girlie bottoms.

[Sarah...]

Hee hee! How strange is the notion of a crossdressing crossdresser? That might mean I've been crossdressing in drab for the last 40 years!!!

That would explain a few things...

Sarah...

[Karren H]

Give her all your boxers and take all her panties... Problem solved....

[Jannette H]

Give her all your boxers and take all her panties... Problem solved....:

WOW! That was easy:thumbsup:

[Ruth]

What unclejoann said. You're not trying to be your wife (are you?) so why be bothered about what she wears in bed. Above all, CDing is about dressing to please yourself.
BTW, I go along with those who opt for a simple nightgown with nothing underneath. After all, you're going to be asleep, so lots of elaborate underwear is kind of wasted in this situation.

[serinalynn]

I wear only a nylon tricot nightgown to bed and nothing else. It eliminates having to worry about what she wears.

Just wear what you are comfortable in

[loveslingerie in oc]

I love wearing lovely panties under my night gowns ... it just makes me feel so feminine and waking up in a bundle of silky lingerie is a perfect way to start the day. Nothing like pretty panties sliding against a long silky nighty to put a smile on your face before dozing off for sexy dreams. Frances

[susan fuller]

Wear what feels good to you. But if you want to wear a night gown then don't wear panties at all. And if you must wear panties do so but not male boxers.

[KellyCD]

I noticed something interesting while thinking about your situation.

Your wife wears thongs everyday to work (OMG:daydreaming:) and one would assume she is comfortable wearing thongs. But, for bed people usually wear something comfortable...so she chooses boxers?!?

Personally I cannot stand to wear boxers...so I'll usually wear a thong or maybe boyshorts.

Think about what you can wear all day with complete comfort. Something that's so comfortable you'll forget your wearing it, for me that's a thong but for you it may be different. Anyways that's what you should wear.

[Mollyanne]

SOME OF THE GIRLS DO NOT WEAR ANYTHING UNDER THERE NIGHTGOWN INCLUDING ME, ACTUALLY THAT IS THE WAY TO GO!!!!!

:love: Mollyanne