Just doesn't do anything any more

[suzi_cd]

I used to find dressing en-femme or being made to dress that way was enjoyable in many ways.

Now I find it does nothing for me - when Mistress tells me to dress in any specific way or another its like a chore.

I used to look forward to coming home from work so I could slip into stockings, bra etc...now its down there with having to vacuum or do the laundry.

Any suggestions?

Suzi

[Sigrid]

Don't do it if you don't feel like it. If it becomes a chore, whats the point? Let your mistress know you need a break. If not I'm afraid you'll wind up hating getting dressed and resenting her if she continues to force you.

In a little while, I'm sure the urge will come rushing back.

~Sigrid

[Rachel Morley]

Hi Suzi,

I find this thread interesting because once I used to be very excited and thrilled to be coming home to get into dresses or have it suggested that I get dressed by my wife but, (and I can hardly believe I am saying this) I sometimes actually don't want to dress!!

Now, I know that allot of people will say that this is normal and that I perhaps shouldn't make a big deal about it, but I sure do hope that its only something that happens rarely. If I do have an occasion that I feel like this (and I didn't mention it) but my wife kind of insists that I "wear something sweet", when I actually do get dressed, I lose that feeling that I didn't want to get dressed because my wife tends to get extra loving toward me. I think this is because my behavior changes. I tend to become more quieter and gentler when I am dressed and she likes this.

So anyway, to answer your question...what should you do? Well, maybe there is such a thing as "too much of a good thing" and perhaps you could ask your Mistress if you might be allowed to please her in some other way. Maybe you could talk to her about how you feel?

I would like to ask you a question. How does it make you feel now that it has become a chore? Do you miss any nice feelings you might of had? Is this about you or about pleasing your Mistress?

I think that you should't worry too much about it, it's probably just a phase.

Best wishes
Angel

[suzi_cd]

I dont really get anything special from it at all at the moment. I still dress for my Mistress because it pleases her, which does make me feel good but if she made me dress in t-shirt and shorts because it pleased her then I'd probably feel the same.

Suzi

xx

[ronna]

Suzi-
Does your mistress ever help you dress? Or with your makeup?
Or does she just command you to do it?
I would think if she could help you feel pretty rather than like some kind of slave/toy, you would enjoy it more. I know I would!

[suzi_cd]

No she helps and encourages me - its not me just being her toy to be dressed up.

[Tristen Cox]

Sounds like it has become a chore rather than something to look forward to. Maybe you just need a break to refresh that spark.

[Julie York]

Get a new Mistress. You can sack them you know.

[AbbyLee]

For me, I stopped for awhile, wow, did I realize how much I missed my 'girly' times. That might work hun. For me chatting with other girls while dressed also helped.

Hugs,

AbbyLee

[azure]

Yeah sack her sorry ass,dominate your way out of this honey, you gotta push that envelope......nah down right fracture it!!! tell her to get her boney ass down your garden path n take her thigh high boots n all : ) LOL!!!!!

[Sweet Jeanette]

Find a new Mistress, unless your addicted to her,and it. In that case, if you are, than you are hopelessly going down the tubes! -----Your choice!

[suzi_cd]

But the Mistress/me relationship is fine - I enjoy being hers, its the dressing en-femme which is just not working any more.

Well I thought about this last night and this morning I'm going to talk to her and suggest that suzi the ****ty maid takes a bit of a vacation and hopefully she can come back refreshed and more eagre to please.

Suzi

xx