Rayna
05-29-2005, 02:07 PM
So I feel like i'm in a bit of a bind here...
I've come to the conclusion that my wife's best friend is going to wind up learning about my other half, and i'm not sure which is the best way for it to happen....
here's the situation (a combination of issues). For one, i've realized that it's wrong for me to tell my wife that she can't tell anyone about Rayna. There's got to be an outlet for her to speak to about it.
To make matters worse, i've felt this compulsion to tell someone about it myself as well.. i tried telling one of my online girl friends about it, and she just kind of brushed it off as no big deal, and I felt a bit let down.
Now to combine this all together, we're in a bit of a bind where her friend (a guy) may need to come live with us for a short period of time due to his housing situation... and quite frankly i'm not going to stop dressing because someone else is in the house.
First off, do i allow for him to find out about Rayna.... then moreover, do i allow my wife to tell him, or do i tell him... or, alternatively, do i just let him come across Rayna sometime.
I'm not concerned about getting my a** kicked or anything, he's a really mellow guy and very accepting of people's differences....
I just dont know what the right way to do this is. I have to pick up my wife from his house tonight and I'm half tempted to show up wearing a skirt
I've come to the conclusion that my wife's best friend is going to wind up learning about my other half, and i'm not sure which is the best way for it to happen....
here's the situation (a combination of issues). For one, i've realized that it's wrong for me to tell my wife that she can't tell anyone about Rayna. There's got to be an outlet for her to speak to about it.
To make matters worse, i've felt this compulsion to tell someone about it myself as well.. i tried telling one of my online girl friends about it, and she just kind of brushed it off as no big deal, and I felt a bit let down.
Now to combine this all together, we're in a bit of a bind where her friend (a guy) may need to come live with us for a short period of time due to his housing situation... and quite frankly i'm not going to stop dressing because someone else is in the house.
First off, do i allow for him to find out about Rayna.... then moreover, do i allow my wife to tell him, or do i tell him... or, alternatively, do i just let him come across Rayna sometime.
I'm not concerned about getting my a** kicked or anything, he's a really mellow guy and very accepting of people's differences....
I just dont know what the right way to do this is. I have to pick up my wife from his house tonight and I'm half tempted to show up wearing a skirt