Andrea85
10-20-2008, 07:43 PM
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Well, I really don't know how to put my thoughts into words right now, so if I seem to be jumping back and forth, I apologize. Anyway, I'll try to start from the beggining. I always wanted to be a girl ever since I was little. Well, I ended up suppressing the urges for a while when I was younger, and they went away. Then when I lived with an ex gf, the urges came back, and when she was at work and I was home, I would try on her things. After we split up, I just supressed it again. I still had the urge that time. It was stronger than the first time I felt that way. After that, I met a friend that coaxed me back into crossdressing again. It felt great to do it again. When she left I couldn't anymore, but Not being able to made me want to feel more femme that time. After a while, I got up the courage to buy my first bit of femme clothes myself. It was nerveracking but worth it. I kinda dressed from time to time when my parents were gone away for the weekend or at work. I wanted to dress more. And then I met my fiance. I didn't think she would be with me if she knew, so I kinda went into denial about it all for a while. After we'd been together for a while, I started getting clothes and dressing every once and a while. Anyway, lets jump forward a bit. She found out and we're still together. Ive stopped a couple time since we've been together and every time, my urge to dress has gotten stronger. Also, I've actually begun to want to transition. Since she and I moved to my parents to pay off debt and for me to save up money to become a CNA, I've not been able to dress as much. And I've had the urges to transition even more than I ever thought. Does anyone know why I'm like this, or thinking the way I am? I'm so stressed that I don't know what to do. If I transition completely, I seriously doubt she would stay with me. But if I don't transition, I don't know if I can be happy with myself. Does anyone have any advice? I need something right about now...
Well, I really don't know how to put my thoughts into words right now, so if I seem to be jumping back and forth, I apologize. Anyway, I'll try to start from the beggining. I always wanted to be a girl ever since I was little. Well, I ended up suppressing the urges for a while when I was younger, and they went away. Then when I lived with an ex gf, the urges came back, and when she was at work and I was home, I would try on her things. After we split up, I just supressed it again. I still had the urge that time. It was stronger than the first time I felt that way. After that, I met a friend that coaxed me back into crossdressing again. It felt great to do it again. When she left I couldn't anymore, but Not being able to made me want to feel more femme that time. After a while, I got up the courage to buy my first bit of femme clothes myself. It was nerveracking but worth it. I kinda dressed from time to time when my parents were gone away for the weekend or at work. I wanted to dress more. And then I met my fiance. I didn't think she would be with me if she knew, so I kinda went into denial about it all for a while. After we'd been together for a while, I started getting clothes and dressing every once and a while. Anyway, lets jump forward a bit. She found out and we're still together. Ive stopped a couple time since we've been together and every time, my urge to dress has gotten stronger. Also, I've actually begun to want to transition. Since she and I moved to my parents to pay off debt and for me to save up money to become a CNA, I've not been able to dress as much. And I've had the urges to transition even more than I ever thought. Does anyone know why I'm like this, or thinking the way I am? I'm so stressed that I don't know what to do. If I transition completely, I seriously doubt she would stay with me. But if I don't transition, I don't know if I can be happy with myself. Does anyone have any advice? I need something right about now...