OK Cupid and smoking

[Nikki A.]

I'm on OK Cupid and start IMing w another member there. She's pretty honest w/me and in the conversations I tell her I'm a CD. Well we talk a little longer & I have to go. That nite I emailed her and filled in the usual ?s. Next day I catch her online again so we continue. I asked if she was ok w/it. She then tells me that the CDing isn't that much an issue w/ her as my being a smoker (tobacco). Oh yes & that I'm a widower.
So am I to assume that I can say that I'm a CD but I'm a closet smoker. Is this world screwed up or what. I gave today a rest and I'll try again in a day or so.

[Angie G]

Well CD'ing is better them smoking CD'ing smells better.:hugs:
Angie

[Jess_cd32]

After about 4 hours w/ out a cig I'm not sure about that Angie lol, but yea guess your right, cd's do smell better than cigs (unless you've run out of them for a full day):heehee:

[WholeLottaJozi]

It could always be worse... my ex was perfectly okay with me CD'ing, but, once I was diagnosed with lymphoma, she hit the road!:eek:

[Miss Tessa]

Hahahahahahahahaha! That's prettie funny hunny....Closet smoker.

I heard of closet other type of addicts but not cigs unless they are under 18.


However, I'd be careful who you tell you CD.It's not like being TS where most if not everyone knows after your transition.

[Tina B.]

Yes CD'ing is better than smoking, as a non smoker, I would never date a woman that smokes, but I would let her wear my pants, if she would let me wear her dress!
Tina
As a smoker, you just need to find another smoker.

[Deborah Jane]

Have you noticed the porn sites these days (research purposes only, since you ask) have more and more "smoking" photos? It seems they're starting to outweigh the cross-dressing ones.

This is serious! Our image as the real exotic thing to do is under threat!

Katie B

Ahh, but what about a pic of one of us smoking :battingeyelashes:
That would really be exotic [well, maybe not, i,ve got several pics like that myself :heehee:]

[Celeste]

Smoking for me was a killer on OK cupid also,so I quit. Then wouldn't you know almost all of the matches I came up with were smokers.I wasn't about to start up again after the hell it was quitting.I wont deal with those sites anymore.I don't like people shopping though my personal life ,even if it is only on the net.

[Nikki A.]

I am pretty careful and this lady is a bit of a distance. Besides ya want to be honest.

[Maria2222]

After about 4 hours w/ out a cig I'm not sure about that Angie lol, but yea guess your right, cd's do smell better than cigs (unless you've run out of them for a full day):heehee:

Run out of CD's or cigs?

[Niya W]

I thought a smokin CD was some thing else :)