View Full Version : It gets better everytime
Kris Vasquez
11-04-2008, 12:52 AM
And a lot has to do with this Forum. It's scary to think about what the future holds for us. I thought I had it figured out.
Bethany_Anne_Fae
11-04-2008, 01:19 AM
I agree. This forum has been a wealth of information and support. Everytime I don my garb and go out into thr world I feel as though I were becoming more whole as a person.
Its a great feeling
Zara
Kris Vasquez
11-04-2008, 01:29 AM
I only see in black & white when I'm in male mode as opposed to colours when I'm Christina.
Ballerina
11-04-2008, 01:35 AM
haha, I know the feeling. I am getting more and more courageous each day and am excited and rushy all the same mostly because of these forums! Of course, the fear just add to the rush, haha
StaceyJane
11-04-2008, 07:15 AM
I keep wanting to push the envelope a little farther everyday. Hard to when your in the closet so I guess I would have to come out.
Stacey :)
Paige.
11-04-2008, 08:15 AM
My experience with CD's is limited but once you have accepted CD'ing it does get better every time.
Being on these forums, reading posts and communicating has definitely made a difference in understanding myself and my fears.
i was only an admirer when i came here look at me now :eek: :liar:
tamarav
11-04-2008, 08:40 AM
It seems as though we build on the experience of our peers and use them as our hidden support mechanism. I know that I rely heavily on the feedback and the support of the wonderful people here for me to continue to advance.
This site has given me the challenge to move myself into a more accepting position and to understand the complexity of what being a CD really is. Since we are all very similar in nature, there must be some sort of common thing that brings us all to the same conclusion. We all love femininity for some extreme reason and our expression is what shows.
Now I just go with it and have a wonderful time rather than worry constantly about what others think.
Your sis,
Tami
Karren H
11-04-2008, 08:46 AM
Yeah!! So easy a cavewoman can do it......
Actually the longer you do it the more difficult it becomes............... Choosing what to wear... Shoes... Jewelry... Makeup... Shopping.... Trying to be a woman is more than a full time job.. And not for the lazy or faint of heart. (Or thin of pocketbook)!! Lol
Easy was being the guy....
Paula Siemen
11-04-2008, 08:48 AM
Oh yes...practice makes perfect. I've developed so much confidence in my femeine mode that its beginning to just feel very natural to be out shopping as Paula. I sometimes get so confident that I think..."So what if I run into someone I know and they make me? Would that really be so bad?" But then, reality comes to mind I become more covert in my actions of what I'm doing and where. Damn! It would be just so much easier if I didn't have to worry about it and I could be the woman I want to be, when and where I want.
The CURSE of being a cross dresser I guess; since we don't really experience the "Curse" as females.
Paula
Chrissy8888
11-07-2008, 07:07 AM
I really think that the internet in general has helped me become more comfortable with who I am. Being able to read and share stories about who I am is awesome. I also think for many of us this site allows us to live a life that we cannot live in day to day life aka the real world.
cindyscute
11-07-2008, 08:34 AM
This forum is answering quite a few questions I have. It seems to help me enjoy my crossdressing in a new light. So I would say it's getting better everytime.
victoriamwilliams1
11-07-2008, 08:51 AM
Actually the longer you do it the more difficult it becomes............... Choosing what to wear... Shoes... Jewelry... Makeup... Shopping.... Trying to be a woman is more than a full time job.. And not for the lazy or faint of heart. (Or thin of pocketbook)!! Lol
Easy was being the guy....
I am starting to develop this problem so I changed my hair so I can wear the same outfits again:) Now I need a winter coat and I had planned on not going out as much during the winter months, but just in case:)
Oh yes...practice makes perfect. I've developed so much confidence in my femeine mode that its beginning to just feel very natural to be out shopping as Paula. I sometimes get so confident that I think..."So what if I run into someone I know and they make me? Would that really be so bad?" But then, reality comes to mind I become more covert in my actions of what I'm doing and where. Damn! It would be just so much easier if I didn't have to worry about it and I could be the woman I want to be, when and where I want.
The CURSE of being a cross dresser I guess; since we don't really experience the "Curse" as females.
Paula
I too feel very natural in a skirt and heels as I would in a suit and tie. I now shop for my femself dressed and the other day the ladies at rite aid where asking about my height and I told them. Tall women do exist we us height as a stop and I hope being tall and sharing other tall girls will get out.
nikki47
11-07-2008, 09:07 AM
For me too,this is a wonderful place to be.To know if you need help is a real bonus,i also find to be able to talk about crossdressing to others is so inspiring.I've come on in leaps and bounds since i joined here.Thanks to you all,for just being here.
:hugs: Nikki
il.dso
11-07-2008, 09:14 AM
Yes, this forum is wonderful, indeed.
So many thoughtful posts and topics.
Great support and wisdom.
I am grateful.
sometimes_miss
11-07-2008, 12:31 PM
Me too. I haven't been to an internet site specific to us for a while; the last few places had every post end with a giggle, tee hee, or some other little girl exclamation. Everyone here seems quite bright, kind, informative, oh, I can go on and on. But life will be easier just being able to come here at the end of an awful day. To everyone, thank you for being here.
Celeste
11-07-2008, 02:04 PM
A lot of it really does have to do with this site,with many of the people on it being serious about who they are and willing to offer their help and advice,making it truly invaluable.
Most I have met here have been thoughtful and considerate of others feelings and emotions.Of coarse its the mods,staff and structure of the site that provides the foundation for that.
Christina Horton
11-07-2008, 02:23 PM
I really think that the internet in general has helped me become more comfortable with who I am. Being able to read and share stories about who I am is awesome. I also think for many of us this site allows us to live a life that we cannot live in day to day life aka the real world.
I have been comeing to this site off and on for over a year,I have found that I want to go out much more then If did not find this site.
I too feel very natural in a skirt and heels as I would in a suit and tie.
Unlike you I feel very unnatural In a Male suit. Thats why I (so far) never want to wear paints when CDing it. Maybe leather paints but thats it. When I dress it's very Fem.:hugs::canada:
lauraabdl
11-07-2008, 03:34 PM
haha, I know the feeling. I am getting more and more courageous each day and am excited and rushy all the same mostly because of these forums! Of course, the fear just add to the rush, haha
This form is so enlighting and informative for so many reasons I just love the girls here.
Laura
CD Susan
11-08-2008, 03:41 PM
Joining this website and participating in the forum disscussions literaly changed my life six months ago. I went from being buried deep in the closet for 40 years to comfortably going out while dressed. I feel like I have accomplished very much in only six months and I owe this to all of the great members of this site. Thank you everyone for helping me find the real person that I am. I could never have achieved this wthout the help, support, and guidance from all of you. Thanks again for opening up a whole new world to me that I am thrilled to be a part of.
Jess_cd32
11-08-2008, 03:53 PM
............ And not for the lazy or faint of heart. (Or thin of pocketbook)!! Lol
Yea the part in parenthecies is the reason for my signature:heehee:
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