i do not say thank you often enough

[JC]

i do not say thank you to my wife often enough. She is wonderful in life, not just dressing. She and I have been maried for many years. i told her about dressing almost 2 years ago. She never has been negative.

She started by helping when asked. She sid that she did not shop for me as she did not know what i wanted. She would wlak through stores with me. At this time, was too embarassed to look too close.

Over time, i have learned, if I know what i want, she will get it for me.

Now, i have learned to be very relaxed while shopping. I can now go through racks at thrift stores to find some great buys.

I know thast she must ask - why, etc???????

But she is always there and puts up with me.

She surprised me as we had planned to go to the tropics. I let my leg hair grow. After about 2 weeks, teh subject of my stuble came up. I said that i was growing it to not embarrass her around the friends and family that were also going. She said to shave and she would take care of them just as she did her sister after my ears were pierced.

know why i love her and need to say thank you more often. have you said thanks to your SO lately?

jc

[SexyLatexSamantha]

That is great. I totally understand your situation. My G/F found out about my other side on our first date. I just had to know how she felt about my dressing right away. I had feelings for her right from the start. If she didn't like it, there would have been no second date. But, she was so surprised and wanted to know more. We grew so close in a matter of minutes. It is a great feeling when your significant other accepts and supports you. I say thanks all the time. Thank you for this thread. It really is important for others to realize this too.

[Angie G]

Thank you for this post. for I have also not thanked my wife in some time witch I will do now. Thank again JC.:hugs:
Angie

[Christina Horton]

That was a sweet story. You had better hold on to her ,or she will have all the single girls coming to your town to see her. She is wonderfull,and you have a lot t thank her for. Have you been out En-Fem together . You need to do that , Shopping En-Fem is so much better that way, and I am sure it's better with your SO.I am so happy for the tew of you. Give her a big hug and kiss from all us girls whom are not so lucky. HUGGS :hugs::canada:

[Stephanie Scott]

JC,

Wonderful reminder. One of the downsides or dangers of CDing is that we can tend to become somewhat more self-centered and narcissistic. It is when CDing can turn from a moral neutral or God-honoring thing into a sinful thing.

I have been similarly blessed by God to have a wife who loves me despite the fact that she ended up with a guy who has this feminine side. She has worked very hard to be supportive, despite the fact that she would not have chosen this.

If you happen to read this, honey, THANK YOU!! And even if you don't, I'll thank you elsewhere! :love:

[Ze xx]

While it's great to read on here that we are appreciated, :D I hope you manage to tell your accepting SO's to their faces too.

My SO grabbed me in a bearhug and said thankyou the other day and I went around grinning for ages. A little thing, but it means so much :hugs: