Classic Responses?

[Rachel M]

So, I was pondering the thought of being discovered on this website. Many have suggested the person calling you out about this site might have some explaining to do him/her self. Has anyone been discovered/called out about there secret on this site? The boy vs. girl thread really puts many of you out there. So what's a classic response you might have use(d). "Now you know, so how many pairs of heels do you own?" "how often do you dress?" Sure some of you are out that you could careless who knew, but some of use like to keep it low key to even hush-hush. How would you go about convincing them to keep it that way?

Rachel

[cindym5_04]

First, let me say you're beautiful!

Second, I'll answer this. I just joined the other day and just posted a pic for the first time on here today. If someone discovers me on here (i have pics on other sites online), I'm simply just going to ask what they were doing on here. I'm not posting my male pic in the "boy v girl" thread, because I do feel that I need to keep it somewhat on the down-low. Remember, to see the pics, they have to join. If they join, then they have a reason that they are. Most people that I know that may come on here either wouldn't recognize me in girl mode, only know me in girl mode, or if they did see and recognize me, they wouldn't say anything because they may think that it'd be embarrassing for them.

A guy at work somehow discovered a photo I had on a site that required a password (like this one). He also felt that at work I was competition for him- he thought he was a big stud and wanted all the women here (I don't mess around in the workplace myself). He started calling up the attractive girls here that I knew and started showing them my pics. Keep in mind, he never said anything to me about it, so I found out from one of the girls. What the girls told me was he called them in his office, pulled up the website, logged in a password and pulled up the pics. Their reaction was generally "WOW! He looks great!" and "So what if he dresses like that...the question is how did you find it and why do you have passwords to get on there?"

[Karren H]

Well after being discovered for real.. Not on this site... Anything clasic or humorous goes right out the window... And all I could say was. "I like to crossdress"!! Hahaha

My wife didn't think it was classic either!!

[DinaMature]

If anyone spotted me here, I'd be all over finding what their connection to the sight.

I posted my avatar. Anyone close to me will know who it is. I'll take that chance. I'm comfortable here.

[Deborah Jane]

If anyone i knew spotted me on here i,d ask em straight....
Does my bum look big in my pics? :battingeyelashes:

[Joanne f]

Once you have been spotted or outed there is no way that you can stop them telling anyone whatever they might say to you , it`s this best friend thing , they will tell their best friend in confidence and you can guess the rest :D
Just smile and say Yes to everything then they don't know if you are joking or telling the truth.



joanne

[avril findlay]

"So that's why you're always wearing skirts!"

[sall]

It woulld'nt be so terrible gettin found out via this site. I'd just ask why they were on here and ask are you an admirer or a dresser?

[tanya1976]

I would probably ask why they were visiting the site, but I wouldn't try and deny or explain anything. Too much effort at this point.

[Celeste]

I would say something like"cool site isn't it" or if you saw that you'd probably really be blown away at some of the other things I get into.

[Lilith Moon]

I recently fixed a PC for an older relative and stumbled across a load of rather poorly concealed files related to crossdressing and other...er interests. Given the family background, he is the last person I would have imagined to have such interests...like many of us, I guess :) Naturally, I've not told him that I found his files. It is quite possible that he has snooped around in here but I've had no indication from him that he has recognized me. There's some interesting family issues here...maybe I should start a separate thread on this.

[CharlotteW]

:doh: "Oh no! I've been found out!:o err, wait a minute, :eek: so have you :D . So when did you join the CrossDressers forum? :) "

[geri-tg.]

I think I would just say welcome to crossdressers .com. And ask how long have you been visiting this site. I feel very safe here.:eek:

[Annie D]

I think the chances being found out on this site are so minimal when compared to all the other ways we could be outed. The chances of being spotted while shopping or enjoying a meal at a restaurant or going to the movies are so much greater. I think that our chances of being discovered when out at those places are so so very small anyway.

I come and go from my house quite openly and I know that someday one of my neighbors will spot me, if they haven't already, and I will just admit the truth. I think that in the back of our mind that we all know that if we go out in public that we will be found out sooner or later. What we don't know is how we are going to react and what we are going to say. I guess in my case that I will reflect the way that I am questioned and by whom in my response.

I hope that when I am confronted, I am Annie because I am so much more relaxed and content with myself that I will react like a lady.

[Carly D.]

I think if anyone in my family were to find this site and figure out that I am who I am (brother, uncle, or whatever) that they would garner the response of "I know I am but what are you?".. simply put I am a cross dresser and you are a... peeper?? voyer?? creep?? transgendered person wanting to deflect your secret atrocities by exposing mine?? truth be told if I were found here and called out on it I think the person would have the gull to think it through before blabbing it to the entire family on a holiday dinner or special occasion.. I am in the closet, except for here.. I feel safer here and talking to (posting) my views and feelings.. I saw an entry here that asked do I accept myself as a cross dresser.. and I answered no.. and the reason is that I am, as I have said, in the closet.. and with that knowledge I feel like I am somewhat asshamed of being a crossdresser.. more for the reason that I can't explain why I dress this way.. I wish I could give a reasonable explanation as to why I do dress the way that I do.. it escapes me.. everytime I think I've got the reason it seems to not be enough.. I like how I feel when wearing certain items of clothing.. simple enough... but it seems like I need to go deeper than that to feel like I've explained it in full detail.. and that's where the thought gets lost..

[NewDresser]

I almost kind of wish I would be caught here by someone I know. I would have someone outside of the internet to talk to about dressing then.

[Jennifer Brooks]

I always wonder (I use to worry) about getting found out but if someone outside of CDing saw my photos from here or my other links I'd be very curious as to why they were looking at me or Crossdressers in general. There's a couple guys at work that I could see looking at gals on sites like this but they would be to scarred of getting called out at work if they pointed the finger themselves. But things happen and I take that risk everyday by posting my pics and being a member of this site. Oh well. "ROCK ON!" :tongueout

[AmandaM]

The government knows all about you now anyway so just admit it!

[docrobbysherry]

"Ok, I'll come clean! I have an evil twin sister that has been out to get me since we were kids! She used to blame me for everything she did wrong back then. Now, she often uses my name. Impersonates me when she's up to no good, and tries every scam u can imagine, while pretending to be me!
So, what's the latest thing u say she's done?
NO WAY!":eek:

[Joanne f]

"Ok, I'll come clean! I have an evil twin sister that has been out to get me since we were kids! She used to blame me for everything she did wrong back then. Now, she often uses my name. Impersonates me when she's up to no good, and tries every scam u can imagine, while pretending to be me!
So, what's the latest thing u say she's done?
NO WAY!":eek:


Um wonder if i can get away with that one :D

[Sammy777]

Rachel M

You forgot the most classic line of all, as far as another "guy" finding you out .............

I guess it takes one to know one, lol

[Terrihoney]

I have an interesting twist on this. My internet hookup is by wireless to my neighbor's cable system. Yes, they know!, I don't have cable, so we have this arrangement.
The other day, the computer geek son (38 years old and lives at home with mom) mentioned a site I was on. The movie,'Cinderella Man' was on TV and I looked up some boxing stats for the main character. He is also a boxing fan. Good movie, by the way.
I was reminded that since I log on the internet through his system, he knows all sites I go to:eek:. Well too late now, he has never said anything about my browsing or frequent visits to sites such as this for nearly 8 years now.
I can't say 'why were you there?', all internet visits are listed like a phone bill. So, I guess I've been 'out' for many years and didn't know it.
His mother is my landlady and my very special girlfriend! She doesn't know, I think. Oh well, sometimes the less said might be better. I'm not ready to be open with the GF, not a good thing, I'm very sure.

Hugs All, Terri

[trannie T]

1. The chance of getting identified by posting on this site is very low.
2. If I were to be identified by posting on this site my response would be something like, "So?" I have little fear of being outed.

[Jenniferpl]

I am not worried.

[CD Susan]

I am not worried about this at all. There are exactly four people in my life that don't know I crossdress. My ex-wife outed me to my entire family 13 years ago during the divorce so all of them know. My neighbors certainly know as I am out side dressed every day when I walk to the mail box. I am retired so I do not have any co-workers to be concerned about. I go out dressed up quite often so it is only a matter of time until I meet up with one of those four people that don't know. Actually I am looking forward to it. I suspect they know anyway as I do not try to hide my pierced ears with fem earrings, long finger nails and plucked eye brows. I don't think there are very many people that are not cd'ers or admirers themselves that come to sites such as this one. The chance of someone getting outed on this site is so small that it is not worth worrying about.

[lauraabdl]

No worries these days, I feel very comfortable on this site, thats why I finally posted my avatar.
Laura:heehee: