My son thinks he's a cd but doesn't know

[divagirl]

On some days my son thinks he's a cd but doesn't know. Some days he likes it other days he doesn't. Wat do u girls think.

[DonnaT]

If there are days he likes it, he probably is CD. Being a CD means you like dressing in the attire of the opposite gender.

A lot of CDs have days they don't like it because they haven't truely accepted their whole self.

[crispy]

Is this a serious question ??

if you can't provide any more details than that ........ :rolleyes:

[Ibuki_Warpetal]

How old is your son?

[divagirl]

well my son is 12. But some days even when he's wearing his mothers cloths he doesn't find the sensation u girls do. right know he's wearing a thong, bra, pantyhose, heels,a black dress, and her lip stick.

[Ibuki_Warpetal]

well my son is 12. But some days even when he's wearing his mothers cloths he doesn't find the sensation u girls do. right know he's wearing a thong, bra, pantyhose, heels, and a black dress.
He's too young to understand it the way we do.

Right now he (and you) need to worry more about his arithmatic than his "desires" or possible sensations he could have.

If he is having some gender identity crisis by all means look into it, but this is not like some hobby you pick up one day and try to decide whether it's right for you.

[crispy]

... sounds like you really discourage him :rolleyes:

is this like 'crossdressing by proxy'?

[orchard]

your the dad?
congrats, whatever your son is, it sounds like you are a loving parent, with your investigating, joining and posting on this forum.
I think, that if your son likes to dress as a female, it is likely that he is a crossdresser. Myself, and many others, started doing this at a young age, and it has festered or bloomed depending on the person. What I have learned, at 26, is that no matter how much I want it to, it won't go away. Sooooo, wait, see, accept, and love is my advice.
It may just be a stage, but loving and accepting this child is the best gift you could ever give to him,
yea, thats it.

Crispy, stop being such a shark.

orchard

[divagirl]

thank u all. but if i couls get more opionions i would really apreciate it.

[divagirl]

The only thing is sometimes what makes him dress in hiss mothers cloths is when he goes on this site. Like when u talks about bras or panties. but other times he just wants to. Know what do u all think.

[Ibuki_Warpetal]

The only thing is sometimes what makes him dress in hiss mothers cloths is when he goes on this site. Like when u talks about bras or panties. but other times he just wants to. Know what do u all think.
I think we require more data. I don't know the kid, nor does anyone else here.
You know him better than we do.

Ask him.

If he doesn't know, explain to him everything you know and can find out about gender.

You might also want to have "the talk".

[crispy]

how long is this serious :rolleyes: discussion going to carry on ?

come on divagirl, it's time you 'came out'. ;)

[Ashley Allison]

IMHO, I think at the age he is at, it's best to leave well enough alone. If he wants to dress don't discourage him. While introducing him to tons of material on gender and crossdressing may seem like a good idea, I don't think many 12 year olds are capable of comprehending such complexities. Talking to him would be good since it's always good for a parent to have a open line of communication to a child. However, like others have said before in this thread, he's too young to know what he is. Just let him know that you will accept him no matter what he does.

[crispy]

IMHO, I think at the age he is at, it's best to leave well enough alone. If he wants to dress don't discourage him. While introducing him to tons of material on gender and crossdressing may seem like a good idea, I don't think many 12 year olds are capable of comprehending such complexities. Talking to him would be good since it's always good for a parent to have a open line of communication to a child. However, like others have said before in this thread, he's too young to know what he is. Just let him know that you will accept him no matter what he does.
.......... SIGH ................ :rolleyes:

[Rachel Ann]

Just please don't project your feelings on to him (her?). This isn't about you. S/he is bound to be confused for a long time, and will need others to talk to. I hope that s/he isn't just trying to emulate or please you.

[Sharon]

The real pity of this is that the original poster is just so much BS, and the forum members here open their hearts and waste their emotions and advice on someone who so clearly doesn't warrent or deserve it.

Go away Diva :mad:

[Annabel Girlie]

I agree with you Sharon

Whay would 'Divagirl' raise the issues in the way s/he did?

Hmmmmmmmmm

Annabel

[Tamara Croft]

The only thing is sometimes what makes him dress in hiss mothers cloths is when he goes on this site. Like when u talks about bras or panties. but other times he just wants to. Know what do u all think.
What kind of parent lets a 12 YEAR OLD BOY on this site and lets him read about other members wearing bras and panties??? Is this some kind of sick joke?? BECAUSE IT'S NOT BLOODY FUNNY..... What do I think?? I think you're sick.... :mad: :mad:

[sophieuk]

Hi all, hope every one is ok. Ive been using mind work and contaol for years in my act ( no, im not dreen brown) So, seeing how some one writes etc, i can tell alot.
From the posts this DIVA person has placed, we know its " the dad ??" Now, with the use of miss spelling is ok, but look at the threads etc, clothes are always spelt wrong. Also, a father would not talk about " BRAS and Panties" which his son??? wears. Ok, i cross dress and have a son of eight my self. If he wanted to wear clothes of the female type, fine, who am i to judge, but i will help him to see the it is best to wear the clothes of the right sex. Not come here and talk about under wear. Summing up, this person, and i am bloody good at this, is aged 25 -40, male, single, no son. Does not hold a full time job. Likes the odd pint. This person is getting some kick out of coming here and talking about things that are not really going on. Stange how with suss him out and there have been no posts. Looking at this persons profile, no location ( so as not to be traced) no great detail at all. Best not to post any more replys to this person. Then again, i could be wrong and this person IS THE 12 SON ??? The posts are imature, that from a child of a person who gets kicks this way. Love sophieuk :)

[Ibuki_Warpetal]

Way I see it people don't come here without reason so we should make them feel welcome whatever the case.

And after I get comfortable with you then I can be themegabitch. :D :D

[Rachel_740]

The only thing is sometimes what makes him dress in hiss mothers cloths is when he goes on this site. Like when u talks about bras or panties. but other times he just wants to. Know what do u all think.


Divagirl,

Bearing in mind this is an over 18's site, your son should NOT be here. It sounds to me from what you've put above that he is experimenting while reading ADULT postings, and he is not really a crossdresser, just curious about what other people do.

Do you also invite him to read porn mags, watch porn films, take him to the local strip joint, the local gay nightclub etc, giving him an all round ADULT education whilst still only a child?

Anne

[racquel]

As Tristen often remind's us.
Don't feed the troll's!!!!!!!!! :thumbsdn:

[Rachel Ann]

The real pity of this is that the original poster is just so much BS, and the forum members here open their hearts and waste their emotions and advice on someone who so clearly doesn't warrent or deserve it.
Sometimes, I can be SO effing gullible around stuff like this. :o For a while. I'm a disgrace to cynics everywhere.

[Kimberly]

well my son is 12. But some days even when he's wearing his mothers cloths he doesn't find the sensation u girls do. right know he's wearing a thong, bra, pantyhose, heels,a black dress, and her lip stick.
I'd be concerned if he were wearing a thong!!

I don't even have a thong, and I'm 18!! jeezus...

How many 12 yo GGs wear thongs, do you think? I'm just slightly disturbed by this. Am I the only one?

Ammendment: whoops... :troll:

[Tamara Croft]

Quite right :troll: EOFD!!!