Ok here goes

[Raven92366]

I am very new to being "out" about any of this. I have kept my bisexuality quiet and only acted on it when around my gay friends. I was straight around my hetrosexual friends. I kept both worlds apart. Neither knew that I liked to pretend to be a girl to the point of dressing like one. So at the moment I am very nervous as I just came out to a whole lot of people and so far they have all been supportive to my face so I think I got lucky. Now however I am here exploring the desire to dress like and act like a girl.

[Sophie_C]

I am very new to being "out" about any of this. I have kept my bisexuality quiet and only acted on it when around my gay friends. I was straight around my hetrosexual friends. I kept both worlds apart. Neither knew that I liked to pretend to be a girl to the point of dressing like one. So at the moment I am very nervous as I just came out to a whole lot of people and so far they have all been supportive to my face so I think I got lucky. Now however I am here exploring the desire to dress like and act like a girl.

Well, it sounds like you surround yourself with good people.

I do want to say, though, that homosexuality is FAR more accepted than crossdressing these days, since every girl has a gay friend, and the bearded lady (transamerica) stereotype is ever-present.

[Raven92366]

LOL tis true. I have noticed that, and though I have the full support of the people close to me, it is still dangerous for me to come totally out do to my job. that is ok though I figure I will make friends here that I can talk to about stuff and maybe even I will get back into designing clothing and make it more then a hobby, then no job to lose;) LOL

[Raven92366]

Ok so I have been reading the forums, and I have ALOT of questions being new so to speak to doing this on a more grand level then ever before. My wife is very accepting and even highly turned on by this, her being bi-sexual also probably helps. She wants to make me into her girlfriend on occasion. Sorry for the tangent, now back to my first question. I am bi-sexual aslo something my wife accepts, however my question is how do I combine both CD and being bisexual to the point where I do not lose the illusion of being a girl while messing around with another guy? Is this possible is it diffacult? LOL sorry so full of questions I am probably gonna annoy some people.

[Sherry-Stephanie]

Not sure exactly what you asking/looking for....or if your asking the questions already that your posing ....

Your bi your wife is bi....both know about the other...

You and she have friends from the gay community...

Your wife is accepting (of your bisexuality and cross dressing) even to the point of making you one of her girlfriends (as a CD'er)...

You want to be able to keep the illusion of being female while engaged with a male....OK so your crossdress and go from there...eventually however at some point there will be a "telling giveaway" that you are not a female....gay guys generally aren't into CD'ers because that not the illusion they're looking for....but gay or bi guys who want to make it like they're into females but are actually bi (more so) will look for the CD'er...and from my experience there's a LOT of them out there....especially if you can be really "hOT" as a female....by the time they get down to the "chock full of nuts" they could care less at that point....not to mention they already know it's there....


OK so what's really is the question...

What you may find out is that being bi and a CD'er will bring you int contact with more guys who want to appear to be "hetrosexual" and engaging with a female as opposed to meeting gay guys who are interested in a "female"....

I think you'll be aple and oranges here...apple for the bi/gay guyss and oranges for those who like to meet CD'ers....

Bottom line is just go forth and be whatever you are and see where each step take you....

My question is this...will or will not your wife have any involment in your bi activities????? If so, try and meet a couple who are into this and you and your wife can be girlfriends have your wife pair off with the female and you with the guy...see where that goes for the "experience"....bottom line is this though...the fantasy is always far better than the reality....

Good luck....

Stephanie....