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KarenS
12-18-2008, 10:21 AM
I have been noticing more lately that my wife kids and jokes with our friends and myself about my feminine traits. She has kidded among friends about my B cups on several occasions and has made joking references to my figure and legs a couple of times. She has even talked about dressing in VERY brief passing remarks - never any detail. I actually enjoy and encourage her public kidding - it has never been hurtful or embarassing. I feel like she is providing some kind of acknowledgment and acceptance of my feminine side.

Have others experienced this?

Teri Jean
12-20-2008, 01:03 PM
KarenS,
This is simular with my wife and my earlier bouts with CDing but since she passed I have her sister who gives me a zinger now and then. It is playful so there is no harm. Have fun, Keli

StacyCD
12-20-2008, 01:13 PM
Some of us wish our SOs would be comfortable enough to joke/kid us about our femme persona. Be sure to remind her how special she is!

Susan Loves Life
12-20-2008, 02:04 PM
My wife does the same things, she even gets mad at family and friends when they don't use the correct pronouns (she) or my correct name (Susan).

God bless her, I love her so much! :love:

Susan.
12-20-2008, 02:35 PM
I don't want my wife to joke about my femnine side to friends and relatives. I guess my breasts are not off limit because they are noticeable to all, but I have been teased all my life. I can't stand it when guys try to touch me in a joking manner, not that it has happened too much since junior high, but it does happen. With me it is ok to joke as long as she is nice about it. She has said a few hurtful things, but probably not any worse than what I've said to her.

Naray
12-20-2008, 02:40 PM
Sometimes my girlfriend makes a joke when it comes in time, and it's funny.

JoAnne Wheeler
12-29-2008, 03:58 PM
Not yet - my spouse is too paranoid that I will be found out and make her look bad ! ? !

Love,

JoAnne Wheeler

Karren H
12-29-2008, 04:28 PM
Not yet - my spouse is too paranoid that I will be found out and make her look bad ! ? !

Love,

JoAnne Wheeler

That's how mine is in public too.. In private she's always commenting on me being too fem..

Yesterday when I was trying on a shirt to go out she said "If it looks like a dress on your there's no way your going out in public in it!!". Lol. So I picked a tight sweater what showed off my breasts.. She didn't say a word!! :)

Carin
12-29-2008, 07:08 PM
I feel like she is providing some kind of acknowledgment and acceptance of my feminine side.

I think she might be adjusting the knob on her comfort zone. Make sure that you acknowledge her efforts.