Nadia-Maria
12-30-2008, 08:55 AM
Trying to challenge the "statu quo", without not to push my SO too far !
<< I take every opportunity to bring CDing into the conversation, mostly with humour. In a course of one year, from a "don't ask don't tell" position the progresses have been significative. For instance I have already all rights to wear a pantyhose during wintertime. At the moment I may even wear a skirt in front of her, provided I will find a good reason to do it (for instance "It's too warm keeping trousers over my pantyhose, and with a skirt it's more comfortable and not so warm ; and THIS skirt looks just like a scottish kilt ").
However I'm cautious and after half an hour I just remove the skirt. I guess I will be able to keep the skirt for longer and longer in the near future. She gets more and more accustomed to bear me wearing a skirt. >>
I wrote the above just 2 days ago, replying in another thread.
And it happened today the following : my SO came home before noon a little earlier than expected so that she found me still wearing the skirt. As soon as she saw me, I did as if I wanted to get rid of the skirt, but she said in a nice smile :
"Baaahh... you can keep it ... ! Why do you wear it ?"
- I find more comfortable wearing a skirt over a pantyhose; the air flow helps me to keep more easily the right body temperature, than I would wearing trousers", I replied.
So I was very happy to be allowed to keep the skirt in front of her, and then both of us went preparing the meal together. She was in trousers, and me in skirt !
Of course, I had all rights to wear the skirt till the end of the day, however I decided to remove the skirt after only half an hour, and found a good reason to do it ("to have to go outside for a few minutes").
Bottom line:
1. She had made a pleasure to me, only by love for me. :love:
2. I removed the skirt soon after, for the sake of love too. :love:
Each time my SO accepts willingly a baby step from me, I try not to push her too far. I want to be the first to remove the skirt, before she becomes bored of it and would request me to do it. Also because I will to show her I have some control about my CDing, and am concerned enough about respecting her feelings as well.
Now, looking forward doing the next baby step ...!! :devil:
<< I take every opportunity to bring CDing into the conversation, mostly with humour. In a course of one year, from a "don't ask don't tell" position the progresses have been significative. For instance I have already all rights to wear a pantyhose during wintertime. At the moment I may even wear a skirt in front of her, provided I will find a good reason to do it (for instance "It's too warm keeping trousers over my pantyhose, and with a skirt it's more comfortable and not so warm ; and THIS skirt looks just like a scottish kilt ").
However I'm cautious and after half an hour I just remove the skirt. I guess I will be able to keep the skirt for longer and longer in the near future. She gets more and more accustomed to bear me wearing a skirt. >>
I wrote the above just 2 days ago, replying in another thread.
And it happened today the following : my SO came home before noon a little earlier than expected so that she found me still wearing the skirt. As soon as she saw me, I did as if I wanted to get rid of the skirt, but she said in a nice smile :
"Baaahh... you can keep it ... ! Why do you wear it ?"
- I find more comfortable wearing a skirt over a pantyhose; the air flow helps me to keep more easily the right body temperature, than I would wearing trousers", I replied.
So I was very happy to be allowed to keep the skirt in front of her, and then both of us went preparing the meal together. She was in trousers, and me in skirt !
Of course, I had all rights to wear the skirt till the end of the day, however I decided to remove the skirt after only half an hour, and found a good reason to do it ("to have to go outside for a few minutes").
Bottom line:
1. She had made a pleasure to me, only by love for me. :love:
2. I removed the skirt soon after, for the sake of love too. :love:
Each time my SO accepts willingly a baby step from me, I try not to push her too far. I want to be the first to remove the skirt, before she becomes bored of it and would request me to do it. Also because I will to show her I have some control about my CDing, and am concerned enough about respecting her feelings as well.
Now, looking forward doing the next baby step ...!! :devil: