PDA

View Full Version : I'm still crying [but its a good thing]



Sammy777
01-11-2009, 05:52 AM
I did it!!!!!!!!!

I came out to my sister.

She totally LOVES it.
I'm still shackying & crrying over it.
I am bringing most of my clothes up to her n she wants to see it all.
I know she she is OK but I am still uneasy.

PennyH
01-11-2009, 05:58 AM
Well done Samantha, brave girl. Lets hope things start getting better and she can help you with things from now on.:thumbsup:

Persephone
01-11-2009, 06:13 AM
Congratulations Samantha! It sounds like a very wonderful and very emotional moment!

Shelly Preston
01-11-2009, 06:21 AM
It's always going to be a little nerve racking experience when introducing your femme side to anyone

I am sure you will be fine it will just take a little time

Jenniferpl
01-11-2009, 06:22 AM
you go girl.

Sammy777
01-11-2009, 07:47 AM
I'll post back later with details, [she can't wait to do "her first make over"] I'm soooo nervous but relieved but still nervous to be showing myself for the first time to some one.

I can't thank this site and everyone here enough for helping me come to this very important stage in my life.

I'm still crying over it, probably the best "good" cry I have ever had.

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

RachelDenise
01-11-2009, 07:50 AM
Congratulations Samantha. It's a big step and you've passed it. Just getting up the courage to tell someone is so difficult. It's rewarding that your sister is cool with everything.

Sammy777
01-11-2009, 08:07 AM
I want to thank everyone here.

But esp Karren for her "unique" outlook on life & Kim [TX] for putting up with my shit, lol.

Angie G
01-11-2009, 09:46 AM
That's great Samantha give you sister a big hug from me for being a oving sister.:hugs:
Angie

suzy
01-11-2009, 09:51 AM
Outstanding positive move Samatha!!! I'm so proud of ou for being so courageous! Have fun and enjoy the good cry!!!:hugs:

Andrea's Lynne
01-11-2009, 10:49 AM
Wonderful news, sweetie! I'm sure your relationship with your sister is already strong .. and will continue to grow!

Ðarissa
01-11-2009, 01:58 PM
Hey that's an awesome story SamanthaM. :hugs:

I don't have a sister and I don't think I'll be tellin' me two brothers any time soon. :doh: ;)

JoAnne Wheeler
01-11-2009, 03:43 PM
I am so pleased that things turned out so great for you
JoAnne Wheeler

Jess_cd32
01-12-2009, 02:45 AM
Glad to hear it went so well Samantha:thumbsup:

Princess29
01-12-2009, 03:33 AM
congratulations

Stefanie_Adams
01-12-2009, 01:10 PM
You go girl, wish I had someone to accept and help me. I am happy for you. maybe the crying was tears of joy, I don't know.
Hugs
Stefanie

Brandiwvr
01-12-2009, 02:34 PM
you go girl. my sis nows but would rather be left on the sideline, if she could atleast cheer for the home team.

beenherelongtime
01-12-2009, 03:17 PM
congratulations, wish my sister had been as understanding

Patty
01-12-2009, 09:27 PM
congrads, thats great news

MsSamanthaErica
01-12-2009, 09:31 PM
Congrats to another Samantha -- great job. I'm so happy for you!!

~Samantha

DaphneGrey
03-13-2009, 05:11 AM
Thats great news sam it must be wonderful for you! I wish you and her the best.

tricia_uktv
03-13-2009, 05:49 AM
YAY. Family will always be your best friends though sometimes it takes a while for them to understand. Go girl go!

Sammy777
03-14-2009, 02:45 AM
Hi, again, lol

Yes it has been a great thing.

I'm happy that people here are still reading this, even thoug I'm a bit surprised with it being like two months old.

So I guess an update is a long bit over due.

These past two months have been like a whirlwind.
I went to see her the same week I told her. She said to me that she could not wait to see me or errrr her.lol
We spent that weekend shopping for everything, clothes shoes make-up and before I knew it I was for the first time dressed in front of anybody.

That same weekend was also my first time out in public.

It was all so strange, she kept asking me if I was doing OK and if I nervous about going out for the first time and all I could say was Im good.
Her helping me with everything and knowing she was going to be by my side just made everything OK. I had no worries, it didn't feel good, it felt comfortable, like I was going out like any other night.
I was dressed, makeup, the whole nine and it just felt "Right".
It was and still is an describable feeling of just being.
I wish I could do justice to what I felt but I can't beyond the it was calm it was right and OK feeling.

Since then we have gone out several times and I have come out to a lot of people whom all of which have been nothing but great and supportive.

To many of them I am one of the girls now. :D


*Thanks Kelly for making me update this for everyone else to see*

Slip Affinity
03-14-2009, 03:15 AM
It sounds like you made one giant leap and it all turned out to be good. I wish I had your nerve. Congrats and best wishes to you.

kellycan27
03-14-2009, 03:26 AM
You rock !!!!!!

Areyan
03-14-2009, 04:50 AM
I'm so happy for you to find acceptance with a loved one! Enjoy this wonderful new beginning with your sister. :D

:love:

Akira

kristinacd55
03-14-2009, 09:14 AM
Good for you Samantha! Sounds like you've had an awesome couple of months. :)

Di
03-14-2009, 09:21 AM
Happy for you:hugs:

Sammy777
03-14-2009, 12:02 PM
You rock !!!!!!

Yes I do.
When I'm playing one of my Kramers that is, lol http://www.shredguitars.com/images/smilies/guitarplay1.gifhttp://fc60.deviantart.com/fs7/i/2005/246/a/1/Headbanger_smilie_by_elsenator.gif


Thank You everybody else for your replies. :D

paulaN
03-14-2009, 07:28 PM
No stopping you now. Sounds like your sister always wanted a sister. Go girl Go. yaaaa!!!!!

linnea
03-14-2009, 08:28 PM
congratulations and good luck for the future of your relationship with your sister