please share your opinion

[lanell]

What do you really want to achieve as a female or shall I say what extreames would you go if you were in the right situation no wife, no kid,just what you want please hare your thoughts

[erickka]

I probably would dress a lot more often than I do now, but I don't have any desire to be a 24/7/365 girl.

[Leanne2]

I'm somewhere between a cd and a ts. When I was on HRT for 3 months it was wonderful. It's called the pink fog. If I was alone in this world I would probably go back on HRT and think about going 24/7. I'm too old for SRS. I'd just live as a non-sexual woman. It felt so right before. Leanne

[immike]

What do you really want to achieve as a female or shall I say what extreames would you go if you were in the right situation no wife, no kid,just what you want please hare your thoughts
I just love to dress in female wardrobe,it feels incredible.I just like to dress in privacy of
my own home,no wife,no kids--I love to dress up as the cocktail waitress-tuxedo shorts,
off-black pantyhose,white shirt/bowtie/cimmberbund,and black high heels

[Sakura Rini]

i dont want to really achieve anything while being a female

[New Jen]

I'm very part time on CDing, will often go years without and could probably stop alltogether with some effort and focus, so this isn't a huge issue with me.

[Josephine 1941]

Hi Lanell, well what do you want as a man???? what we do has nothing to do with what cloths we wear. I love dressing in MY cloths and my GG love me as a women. I see you are in Largo Fl. I am in Venice on the west coast. I am talking to others in this area an hope to get some of us together just for talk, a laught or two. Hope you are near to join us. I am not into org. groups just a small bunch.. JO :brolleyes:

[TGMarla]

I don't really know. If it weren't for family and extended relationships, I might well have transitioned years ago. As it is, I achieved a comfort zone where I can comfortably remain male while still embracing my feminine side.

[jill s]

I would love for the sound track in my head to go away. I think that would mean living as a women, since that will never happen I dress to quiet things down some. So for me CDing is a way to stay sane.

[Stephanie Stephens]

What was the question? Oh right. I think I would consider ffs, yes that would be nice. But only to the point that I could switch back and forth. And I would definitely get rid of the beard.

[JoAnne Wheeler]

IF I did not have a Spouse and a Job, I would dress 24/7 - if I just had a job, I would underdress and partially dress as much as I thought I could get away with - Why do I feel this way? - I don't know and no longer really care - I do believe that deep within our makeup, there is a DESIRE/URGE within us Crossdressers that DEMANDS that we dress - I do not think that we can fight it - it is just the way we are
JoAnne Wheeler

[Ashley Lyn]

I like it the way I am... Being male, and being a CD..!! Nothing better than having the 'best of both worlds', especially with an approving SO!:)
Being totally 'passable' would be a thrill, but.... I'm OK with it!

I was single for 6 years (between marriages 1998-2004), and tho' I shaved more often, and dressed a lot more, I still enjoyed the male part of me..:battingeyelashes:

[Jenniferpl]

Without family to think about and if I were shorter (6'3" is hard to pass), I would have explored transitioning years ago while in my twentys. I have always thought about being being a woman since 6 or 7 years old.

I kinds of like the way things are though, half and half. Best of both worlds

[Carole Cross]

I do not have a wife or kids and no GF, so I have decided to go all the way and transition, its just the waiting that's so frustrating and having to live as a man. I will feel much happier and dress more when I am given the OK to start and when I have told my parents and my sister.

[Lorileah]

I agree with many of my sisters here.

Best case scenario, I am independently wealthy and I would just dress according to my mood. If I was outrageously wealthy most the girls here could visit my private island and enjoy a week of being the girl of their dreams but alas I can't even afford to pay attention.

I have thought a lot about this recently and I have decided that I would continue what I do, I under dress (and outer dress with stuff I can get away with) during the day and when I get home, a skirt, top and shoes as needed. Once in awhile hit the town (finances permitting). I am too old to transition and no offense to the TS's who can finally afford it but the time has passed for me. So I'll just live like I do now.

[Cheryl T]

In that situation, if I had the financial means I would most likely transition. I am certain that I would be living mostly as a woman at the very least.

[MaryAnn40c]

I would live full time as a women,start HRT and have SRS. There is no question about what I would do.

[tricia_uktv]

I go out dressed openly every weekend but ... I still don't know!

[Jolene]

I dress around home and wear what I can out and about. Not much chance of passing in my world here. If I could somehow live in a female body for a while I feel I would not go back.

[suchacutie]

I would evenly divide my life between him and me. I like the major differences between us and enjoy both sides of that life. I might go as far as to set up two different residences, one for him and one for me! That kind of arrangement would allow me easily to separate our lives, needing to duplicate those few things we hold in common, but then it would be clear what was in common and I could focus on whether they should be common!

I like the life I have now, and like it a lot. I wouldn't want to lose what I have, but if I were to have to be totally alone (the premise of the thread), this is how I think I'd handle it.

Tina

[Karren H]

No ties at all? Probably start with some plastic surgeory and a tummy tuck and breast enhancement and a larger butt... Might even dress 24/7 find a new job...

[Kimberly Marie Kelly]

Would, if I was financially independent would go 24/7 and would consider transitioning with SRS. :battingeyelashes:

[Rachel Morley]

Single? ... no wife, no kids, no responsibilities other than myself and my job? ... humm :thinking: ... I would probably be (almost) full time. I don't think I'd be accepted as a CDer at work so I'd maybe keep that part of my life separate. Possibly hormones too ... it would depend, and if I could afford it, facial feminization as well.

[Mollyanne]

I agree with many of my sisters here.

Best case scenario, I am independently wealthy and I would just dress according to my mood. If I was outrageously wealthy most the girls here could visit my private island and enjoy a week of being the girl of their dreams but alas I can't even afford to pay attention.

I have thought a lot about this recently and I have decided that I would continue what I do, I under dress (and outer dress with stuff I can get away with) during the day and when I get home, a skirt, top and shoes as needed. Once in awhile hit the town (finances permitting). I am too old to transition and no offense to the TS's who can finally afford it but the time has passed for me. So I'll just live like I do now.

Hey, how come you read my mind, its my mind!!!! The only thing that I would change would be to transition fully!!!!!
If I never had gotten married, had children, had no other obligations and HAD MONEY, BECOMING A GIRL WOULD BE PRIORITY!!!! But I can't, the time has passed for me(age, no money, did I say age?????)

Mollyanne

[sometimes_miss]

Well, I'm divorced, no wife, no girlfriend, no kids, very few friends, only two geographically close relatives, but neither are close relationship wise, so for all intents and purposes I'm alone. That said, I do pretty much as I want. I dress up often, completely, at home. And while when I was younger I thought I would be better off as a girl, being attracted to them as well meant that becoming a transexual wasn't going to work either. Add to that my huge body that could never be mistaken for a GG of any kind, and I'm sort of stuck with what I am. A guy who dresses as a girl. My Ideal situation would of course involve wealth, enough to live two separate lives; one, publicly as my male self, and another, in private, as Lexi. Very similar to what I have now, but I would be able to afford 'private' female companionship while I was dressed, maybe someone to help me with make up and such, maybe cuddle on the couch while watching a movie or something; I think the loneliness is the worst thing about living like this. At least I could pay women to pretend to accept me that way. I'm sure there are plenty of struggling actresses that would be glad to play the part. And while I have no desire to have sex with a man while I'm dressed as a girl, I would like to have sex with a woman whether I'm dressed or not, and there are professional women out there for that too. But, I do play the lottery, and where there is life, there is hope.

[beenherelongtime]

see Phyliss' post, she brings up some of these questions.

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

Ditto what Karen said, I would get the breast augmentation, tummy tuck and probably dress full time. I also would get Lasik for my eyesight and have a little bit of facial feminization.

[docrobbysherry]

I'm simply an old CD. I'm not a woman. Inside or out.:sad:

That being said, I don't see many CDs of ANY age, taking it to the exteme that I do!:D

Check out the avatar and sig. pics!:eek:

And, I AIN'T DONE YET!:devil:

[Vieja]

My only aim is to feel good when I dress. I think it would be wonderful if I could go out more but then my wife would find out and I don't want to hurt her. Now that I have retired chances to dress and go out are few and far between at this point almost non existent. It would take a lot of time and effort to put on a decent face and dress and the opportunity just isn't there.

Vieja

[Tamera]

Being married I have boundaries that I can't cross.

Being single, there would be no boundaries. Only ones I would make for myself.
Hugs,
Tamera

[Samantha43]

No wife? No kids?......I'd be bored as hell!

I would probably dress more often because I would have more free time. I would never transition, I like being a man.

I have a mans shape and no amount of surgery would make me more feminine. I'd look like a linebacker with boobs...:eek:

I wouldn't trade my family for anything!!!

[Marias]

I think I would go right into girl mode. I really would like to sorround myself with being a woman full time. I think that people a relatively accepting these days and would understand if you explained that this was how you were deciding to live. Aside from the fact that I would be starting a new life, leaving the old one would be tough and filled with old "friends" passing new judgements. Just having the opportunity to decide things as a female would be so uplifing. I would also consider a male partner that was open and interested in my new life.

[RachelDenise]

An interesting question. If there was open season for Rachel, I would push my boundries and comfort zone. I would be out more, meeting more peoiple as Rachel and experiencing femme events. Physically I lean to implants and think about growing out my hair. The issue waould then be what would my life be like. Work would have to go with those changes so I guess I'd have to have hit the lottery. So, the answer gets more complicated the more femme I go.

[Angie G]

I think I would go 24/7 and if I was 40 years younger would think of SRS.:hugs:
Angie

[amyj]

The first time I really explored my fem side came after my wife and I separated, and I pushed the envelope as much I felt comfortable. What I found out was I'm not that far on the female side of the gender scale. I still enjoy driving my truck, watching football, exercising and cooking on a barbecue pit. And my wife is a great woman, one who is getting better every day. I have a passion for dressing as a girl, but too much of anything can be a bad thing for me, I guess.

[Mollyanne]

In my case I would just want to become the female that dwells deep within me and screams to come out!!!! If I didn't have wife, children and other personal responsibilities I would do the HRT, SRS and whole"nine yards".

Mollyanne

[Sharon B.]

I don't have a wife or any kids living with me, been divorced for over sixteen years but I do have many friends in guy mode that don't know about the other side of me.
I do have some hobbies that I enjoy in guy mode.
If anything would happen where I lost those hobbies and had enough money to move elsewhere, I would start living full time as a woman. Until that happens I will continue to live my life as two separate people,

[misspatty]

Hmmm....I would probably start out with breast enhancement but would keep them small enough to be in male mode sometimes. I think that I'd end up 50/50 time dressed and not. Go out as much as possible. There are just some things that I'd not want to give up about my life.

Patty