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lanell
01-21-2009, 02:10 AM
are you female when you dream?
are you a crossdresser when you dream?
or when you dream what would you want?

ProjectLisaCD
01-21-2009, 02:51 AM
I would say that it vary a lot.

Sometimes I am male, at other times I am young and very female and sometimes young and very *******.

Mostly I dream just before I fall asleep so I have some conscious control over my dreams, that makes them so much more fun. :)

Cissy Chiana
01-21-2009, 06:34 AM
always a woman :)

Kate Simmons
01-21-2009, 07:42 AM
I morph as needed in my dreams.:)

Sakura Rini
01-21-2009, 08:07 AM
i can hardly remember my dreams, but the ones i do i have cross dress in few.

jessielee
01-21-2009, 09:13 AM
always female. have never had a crossdressing dream, except dressing boyishly while a girl. but that's always been accepted as ok.

JILLBILLY
01-21-2009, 09:39 AM
Ever since I was 3 or 4 (or my earliest memories) I have almost always been a female in my dreams, this is what caused most of my confusion and insecurities. To counter this I became overly Macho, to the point of being cartoonish. Still, I may have only had a dozen dreams in my life that the person I am in the dream is the person I see in the mirror. You just learn to live with it I geuss.

JoAnne Wheeler
01-21-2009, 09:45 AM
When I dream - I am still a Crossdresser
JoAnne Wheeler

LauraLee
01-21-2009, 10:20 AM
Hi Lanell, I am always female or full time cross dressed. I cannot remember not being.

StacyCD
01-21-2009, 10:54 AM
Most of my dreams are about things I would like to do while enfemme. I don't think I have ever had a dream of being GG unless it was part of the fantasy button transformation from male to female and back again.

FionaO
01-21-2009, 11:06 AM
If I go to bed in a Nightdress then I am either female or a crosdresser in my dreams. When I wear pyjamas I only dream as a female occasionally, however it may be that as I can often fly in my dreams, I am afraid of everyone looking up my skirt.
FionaO

Sheila
01-21-2009, 11:08 AM
What the heck is a female dream and how do you differentiate a female dream from a male dream.

For goodness sake can we at leat try to keeep this real :brolleyes:

Lorileah
01-21-2009, 11:20 AM
What the heck is a female dream and how do you differentiate a female dream from a male dream.

For goodness sake can we at leat try to keeep this real :brolleyes:
I think they are asking if when you dream you are a female, crossdresser or male. I don't think they are asking the gender of the dream per se. Just like some people dream of being a cowboy or that they can fly. I am sure this is very real for many people.

I am sure that in some dreams I have had a female persona but I don't remember looking to see what I was wearing at the time. Most of my dreams involve a maze of rooms that I navigate through which if we assume dreams can be read probably means I have to get my life together.

You know what they say "a dream is a wish your heart makes"so it would not surprize me to find a majority of the people here dream as a feminine personality.

Samantha43
01-21-2009, 11:21 AM
I don't ever remember being a female in any of my dreams. I have had some crossdressing dreams.

I had a dream (nightmare?) recently where I got runs in my stockings.....weird :brolleyes:

amyj
01-21-2009, 11:28 AM
I'm usually a crossdresser in my dreams, but there has been the occasional one where I'm female. Those usually occur, believe it or not, when I haven't dressed in quite a while. It brings me back, I guess.

NikkiBeth
01-21-2009, 12:43 PM
My dreams tend to have me crossdressing and
have a wife who is more accepting of Nikki.

Sam-antha
01-21-2009, 12:49 PM
I wish



But then I have a terrible memory for most things.

Carole Cross
01-21-2009, 01:06 PM
Most of the dreams that I remember I am a girl or woman. Some of the dreams are very exolicit while others are just about everday situations, sometimes a bit surreal as dreams can be.
The dreams about being a girl are becoming more frequent, possibly because I have decided on transitioning and the fact that I now go out en femme. :)

Patrice
01-21-2009, 02:24 PM
I remember very few of my dreams, of the ones I do remember i am female in the dreams Im actually in. Most of the dreams I remember Im not even in, not really sure if I should worry about that or not :straightface:

Ballerina
01-21-2009, 02:30 PM
For the most part, I'm generally my guy self, but I do get some fun crossdressing dreams from time to time. I haven't had a female dream in a while, but they do pop up at random times and sparingly.

Cheryl T
01-21-2009, 02:33 PM
For the last few years I would say in the majority of my dreams I am female.

MaryAnn40c
01-21-2009, 02:41 PM
I dream of being total female when I can get to sleep. I tend to daydream a fair amount too and then its of crossdressing.:eek:

jolanda_trav
01-21-2009, 03:28 PM
In most of the dreams which I can remember I'm a guy. But sometimes I have crossdressing dreams.

Nigella
01-21-2009, 03:30 PM
As I'm sure I dont change sex when I go to sleep, No I am not female when I dream.

tricia_uktv
01-21-2009, 03:54 PM
Sometimes, but certainly not always. When I doze I tend to be femail and that is nice but dreaming differs wildey

sometimes_miss
01-22-2009, 01:16 AM
are you female when you dream?


Sometimes I'm male, sometimes I'm female. But I'm always 'me'; I don't dream I'm someone else. When female, it doesn't always hit me right away that I'm not who I usually am.

Phyliss
01-22-2009, 04:24 AM
Vaguely remembering the dream from last night,... no, I was not a female but, there was this really nice looking S.A. and....I didn't know I could move like that, but then it was only a dream

NikkiSimpson
01-22-2009, 05:29 AM
My best dreams are as a girl, usually a soft pretty bride with all eyes upon me as I slowly walk down the aisle. or being held & seduced by my new lover as I tempt him with my soft alluring lingerie. Ohh you mean when I'm asleep. same actually.

Angie G
01-22-2009, 05:37 AM
In any dream Ive had it been of crossdressing I've never had a dream that I was a female.:hugs:
Angie

prene
01-22-2009, 05:48 AM
I have not come completely out of the closet. . . .

My last scary dream is I am cross-dressing and while going through the airport security the metal alarm goes off (My Corset and under wire bra) and because I have large b-forms I am treated like I am going to hi-jack the airplane.

50% good 50% scary

My good dream I have awaken up complete as a female with the body(Tall, curvy, very busty and no facial hair) I give myself when I CDress (better legs though).

carolinewalker_2000
01-22-2009, 05:51 AM
It varies. Mostly I am crossdressed but in an accepting situation. Other times I dream I am a GG. Only rarely do I get nightmares of finding myself in a threatening environment.

Mary Morgan
01-22-2009, 06:27 AM
I am always dressed as a woman in my dreams, and always aware of the fact that no one seems to notice, or care, or react one way or another. Then I wake up and reality smacks me in the head.

Claire Cook
01-22-2009, 06:36 AM
Sometimes I have cross-dressing dreams, sometimes not, but rarely do I have a "female" dream. I guess itd epends on our personal gender identification and feelings.

Anna the Dub
01-22-2009, 07:09 AM
I don't really remember all that many dreams but I can say that I have never been female in a dream, but I have never been male either, I am looking out through my eyes, so I am just me. I do not be aware of my gender, I do be just me.

Schatten Lupus
01-22-2009, 12:18 PM
Sometimes. Some dreams I am male, and others female. And in some dreams, I have saw myself transforming into a female.

fancy nancy
01-22-2009, 12:49 PM
I usually remember parts ofmy dreams .Nearly 90 percentof the time I am a lady in a dress living the life that I would like to live in real life.I sleep in nighties all the time ;this may influence my dreams also.

Karen564
01-22-2009, 02:02 PM
are you female when you dream?
are you a crossdresser when you dream?
or when you dream what would you want?

So you want me to kiss & tell ? , well I've gotta keep some secrets..LoL

But that is a good question, but honestly, most of the times I don't really know, because it's like I'm seeing things just as you see things with your own eyes, but I never see what I'm wearing, and all the dreams never really make much sense anyways.
But I did have a dream the other morning that was a bit different, because I saw myself in a room, but like from someone else's eyes, but then back to my own eyes, anyways, I was sitting on a toilet in a huge bathroom, I think?, and as I'm sitting there, I hear women's voices, then the door opens (oh oh, yikes, Caught.!!) and I see my Mom, Sister, My Sister In-Law, Her Mom, and someone else, anyways, Grand Central Station tour going on as I'm sitting there. OMG...
So as they come in, that's when I see myself from their eyes, and see I'm wearing an elegant long black skirt down to my ankles, a beautiful white dressy blouse, Black high heel pumps, long nails, etc. then they all walk past me in single file but don't notice me sitting there to go into another door, All I can hear them chatting away, then they come back out the door and start leaving the way they came, except one of the women stops & stands at the open door and just stares at me for a while, then my Mom grabs her arm and says to her that I need some privacy.. then my Mom gives me a dirty look before she closes the door.. The End..

Just another strange dream that made absolutely no sense what so ever...:idontknow:

Karren H
01-22-2009, 02:30 PM
When I dream I'm me... Independent on the clothing I wear...

Alice B
01-22-2009, 02:44 PM
For me it has to do with the content of the dream. If it is sensual or sexual then I am often cross dressed or a female and the dream often deals with fantasy that I have most likely suppressed If other then that I am totally male.

FlygrlChristy
01-22-2009, 05:48 PM
This is an interesting thread, I dream that I am living my life as a female, no matter what I'm wearing, every night, my life is complete, and then I wake up and am jolted into the reality that I'm still a guy. As somebody suggested in another thread there seems to be a lot of white noise going on between my ears at night, the conflict between the brain gender, and physical gender, and sometimes the only way I can solve it is to buy a new pair of shoes.:daydreaming:

Christy

BillieJoe
01-22-2009, 08:16 PM
I don't ever recall being a boy or a man when I dream. I've always been either a girl or woman.