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Melissa A.
01-30-2009, 08:03 AM
Hi, everybody

I am writing to remind us that that the struggle for trans inclusion and gender equality is far from over. Despite the progress made in the past decade, alot needs to be accomplished, still. Many of our sisters and brothers still live in fear for their safety, and their lives. Discrimination is still a fact. In housing, employment, and the simple, everyday use of public facilities, we still face an uphill battle, in many areas. Outside of the political arena, we are still viewed by many as freaks, jokes, and monsters. The popular culture still portrays many of us as something to be ridiculed. But there is good news. Over 108 cities and counties in the U.S. now have some sort of Gender expression equality ordinance....and the sky hasnt fallen, No child has been attacked by a pervert in a dress in a public restroom, claiming to be trans, and more and more people find out every day that we're their co-workers, neighbors, and relatives. This kind of everyday, grass-roots level education and exposure only helps. Every time you politely correct the guy behind the counter who calls you "sir", every time you take a friend aside who just told a cruel joke, every time you portray yourself as who you are-a valuable human being and citizen worthy of respect, you are helping others, everywhere. I believe this is our responsibilty, as we move forward with what we need to do to be ourselves.

At the political level, not everyone can be an activist. I understand. But everyone can write an email, or send 20 bucks to a trans support or legal group. there's a role for all of us. We can't rely on, or ride the coattails of the Gay lobby any more. We have seen it doesnt work. We are too easily discarded in the name of political expediency. I hold them no resentment, as a whole, but it's time we took responsibility for our own destiny.

This is a war with alot of battles. And every time one arises, I believe we, as the trans community, have a responsibilty to our sisters and brothers elewhere, wherever they may be. Nothing worthwile happens overnight, this is a play with many acts, especially as long as there is still no federal GENDA legislation, and we are still viewed as expendable. So the battle is now in Gainseville, Fla., where the hysterical are trying to foment more hysteria, and take away your brother's and sister's right to treated as human beings.

Please read:

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,478924,00.html


More info:

[email protected]

352-334-3119 fax

35334-5015 phone

200 E. University ave. P.O. box 490, station 19
Gainesville, Fla.
32601-0490

Mayor & Commission

Gainesville City Commission


Mayor Hanrahan


Commissioner Hawkins (At-large)


Commissioner Mastrodicasa (At-large)


Commissioner Henry (District I)


Commissioner Poe (District II)


Commissioner Donovan (District III)


Commissioner Lowe (District IV)

Do what you can, please.Write a letter. Make a phone call. send an letter to the local paper. I realise the story says that this is already coming up for refferendum, and maybe there's nothing those in charge can do. But it NEVER hurts to let the world know how we feel, as a united group. The trans folks there are us, and we are them. Let's be a community. Then move on to the next battle, wherever that may be. I don't live anywhere near Florida. But if we stand by and just watch, thinking, "the folks down there will take care of this" Then, as a whole, we have nothing. And dont be surprised the next time you scream for your rights, and there's no one there to listen, or help.

Thanks for listening to me. I may be a bit idealistic(and a little angry, sometimes, lol!), but we can make a difference, over time. We need eachother. Don't let yourself down.

Hugs,

Melissa:)

Stephanie Stephens
01-30-2009, 08:16 AM
No I do not think you are being to idealistic. We have a voice as individuals and as a group. There is no reason why we should not use that voice. Good topic Melissa

deja true
01-30-2009, 08:17 AM
Interesting that Fox News has a rather unbiased story about the Gainsville issue...

Anyway...Melissa's absolutely right. You don't have to out yourself in any way to help fight ignorant and bigotted actions like this.

That's why the goddess invented PayPal and

the National Center for Transgender Equality

http://www.nctequality.org/

Do something good!

:)

jillleanne
01-30-2009, 09:52 AM
I have spread this issue whereever possible with regards to Gainsville, Fl and I have already written my letter to the appropriate people. I sincerely hope people here will take up the pen or keyboard and do something real that can impact our plight for the better. You do not need be from Florida; this issue is being watched from states and provinces alike, by the very people that can make the changes necessary to advance proper social behavior.

Kimberley
01-30-2009, 05:31 PM
This is definitely a single battle being waged against bigotry.

We also have a much larger battle that affects us more deeply than any single ordinance; that is the DSM-V. We cannot afford to let our objections to the process or the people to fall by the wayside. The ambiguity of the DSM and the definitions placing GID as a Sexual Disorder has been used over and over again against us. Narrow interpretations of law and twisted definitions of GID are what are preventing us from acquiring TRUE Human Rights equality which leads to equality in healthcare, legal, social, among others. This IS the larger battle; the one that can lead to improvements enshrined in law and Human Rights Legislation.

Please, keep your eye on the small ball as well as the larger picture. Small battles make for small gains. The big fight has yet to be even closely decided and much of that depends on people within the APA who WILL discriminate against us, most notably, Dr.Ray Blanchard, Dr. Ken Zucker and all their cheerleaders.

:hugs:
Kimberley

Karen564
01-30-2009, 06:15 PM
Hi, everybody

I am writing to remind us that that the struggle for trans inclusion and gender equality is far from over. Despite the progress made in the past decade, alot needs to be accomplished, still. Many of our sisters and brothers still live in fear for their safety, and their lives. Discrimination is still a fact. In housing, employment, and the simple, everyday use of public facilities, we still face an uphill battle, in many areas. Outside of the political arena, we are still viewed by many as freaks, jokes, and monsters. The popular culture still portrays many of us as something to be ridiculed. But there is good news. Over 108 cities and counties in the U.S. now have some sort of Gender expression equality ordinance....and the sky hasnt fallen, No child has been attacked by a pervert in a dress in a public restroom, claiming to be trans, and more and more people find out every day that we're their co-workers, neighbors, and relatives. This kind of everyday, grass-roots level education and exposure only helps. Every time you politely correct the guy behind the counter who calls you "sir", every time you take a friend aside who just told a cruel joke, every time you portray yourself as who you are-a valuable human being and citizen worthy of respect, you are helping others, everywhere. I believe this is our responsibilty, as we move forward with what we need to do to be ourselves.

At the political level, not everyone can be an activist. I understand. But everyone can write an email, or send 20 bucks to a trans support or legal group. there's a role for all of us. We can't rely on, or ride the coattails of the Gay lobby any more. We have seen it doesnt work. We are too easily discarded in the name of political expediency. I hold them no resentment, as a whole, but it's time we took responsibility for our own destiny.

This is a war with alot of battles. And every time one arises, I believe we, as the trans community, have a responsibilty to our sisters and brothers elewhere, wherever they may be. Nothing worthwile happens overnight, this is a play with many acts, especially as long as there is still no federal GENDA legislation, and we are still viewed as expendable. So the battle is now in Gainseville, Fla., where the hysterical are trying to foment more hysteria, and take away your brother's and sister's right to treated as human beings.

Do what you can, please.Write a letter. Make a phone call. send an letter to the local paper. I realise the story says that this is already coming up for refferendum, and maybe there's nothing those in charge can do. But it NEVER hurts to let the world know how we feel, as a united group. The trans folks there are us, and we are them. Let's be a community. Then move on to the next battle, wherever that may be. I don't live anywhere near Florida. But if we stand by and just watch, thinking, "the folks down there will take care of this" Then, as a whole, we have nothing. And dont be surprised the next time you scream for your rights, and there's no one there to listen, or help.

Thanks for listening to me. I may be a bit idealistic(and a little angry, sometimes, lol!), but we can make a difference, over time. We need eachother. Don't let yourself down.

Hugs,

Melissa:)

I Agree wholeheartedly with you there, I believe we have been lost in a cloud of the whole gay activist thing, even though there has been great strides because of them & others, but I believe it should be handled differently and separately all together, even though we all want the same rights for everyone to be fair, but there should be no tolerance for denying ones true gender for an individual afflicted with GID.
I believe the only reason we have rode on their shirt-tails is because they are a vastly larger group, where as we are much smaller one.
But the handicap fought for their rights to be treated fairly and won, so why cant we too.

Karen