Acceptance

[curlyalmond]

I'm new to this forum. I see that some of you have wifes or girl friends that are helpful to you in your endevors. I just wondering how many of you do have a relationship that is this way, and how did your spose or GG find out obout you CDing. I think may others would like to hear also. Thanks LOL - Curly xxx :p

[Ariel_TV]

Hi there ,

I told my g/f when we started dating because i didnt want to keep any secret from her . I knew she had a friend who was a crossdresser so i wasnt too scared of her reaction. She is very understanding and supportive of my cding. The fact that she is bisexual and also loves girl helps alot heheh.

[DonnaT]

Long story short, I told her in 1975.

Wanna hear the long version?

[Sigrid]

I have a very loving and supportive wife. I came out to her a few years ago, about 8-9 years into our marriage. I noticed she was upset and asked her what was wrong. She held out a sales reciept for some womens clothing and said "I found this in your pocket". I nearly died right there. I took a deep breath and then said something to the effect of "this is REALLY hard for me, but, I'm a crossdresser." She looked at me and said "that's it? I thought you were having an affair." She then reminded me that I had actually told her this before we were married after she noticed a pair of panties or something I had in my dresser drawer.

I told her that my dressing was a very private thing for me and wished to keep it out of our relationship, which we have until just very recently.

I "came out" to her again just a couple months ago and said that I wanted to further explore my feminine side. She has be been very supportive and has on many occasions bought me small gifts and now offers advice on dressing and makeup. I now feel very relaxed about dressing at home in front of her which has been a great relief to me.

~Sigrid

[Donna Delite]

My wife has known as long as we've been married, 25 yrs. She found out because she insisted she make me up and of course I agreed, and it took of from there.

[melissacd]

In wonderful Donna fashion...

Long story short - she knows and she no like it ! :cry: I am a sad sad girl :(

[GypsyKaren]

I told my wife in Febuary,and she has been great,just really great.
GypsyKaren

[Jenny Beth]

My wife and I have been together for nearly twenty four years. I told her about my curiosity for crossdressing a little over twenty years ago and it has been a part of our daily lives ever since.

[cindybarnes]

My wife had seen my Cindy side since before we were married, but it was just about 4 years ago I told her I wanted to get out with others, this was brought up after she saw and asked about some blonde girl pics she saw on my computer ... aka Cindy,,,,:)
Its been all good since then
cindy

[Wenda]

If the 'blonde girl on the computer' was anything like your avatar, I can see why she would be worried! wenda.

[chezie]

both my ex partners knew of my cding one loved it, one hated it but they loved me enough at the time to accept it. my new girlfreind knows and gives me tips on being a girl. she's great.

[Clare]

I semi-tried to reveal Christine to my wife in many ways and I'm sure she knew what i was trying to tell her, but she rejected any acceptance of CD'ing.

She has since left me (not for CD reasons though), so next SO will be told early on in the relationship.

Christine

[liz lesbow]

:) :) I told my wife of over 30 year a few weeks ago . Each day she accepts me more and more. We have been shopping several times. She bought me my first bra last week and I bought my second bra last night with her at my side. I found a 42b at Fredrick’s that I just could not pass up. We went to Macys last week and I got my first makeover excluding eye and lipstick but including foundation. It was wonderful. Now I dress in a nightgown or bra and panties every night. I feel so lucky to have her for my wife.

[Ashlyn]

Well my current and bestest GF/SO met me through a local CD site.So right away she accepted me for who and what I am.This well be the first GF/SO that knows about Ashlyn and it is so so liberating!!

[Billi49504]

My wife has known about my CD'ing since before we were married. That was over 20 years ago. We shop together for clothes and makeup. This morning we sorted out our lingerie drawers. She helps me with my makeup, and is fully exceptable.....Billi

[Stephanie]

I came out to my wife this April after being married for little over a year, although I had been on self-imposed hiatus from my crossdressing ever since we had started dating about five years ago because I wasn't sure if she would be accepting of it at the time. I finally decided, however, as I read more about it and gained some more confidence, that I wanted to share this information about myself with her and see what happens. Although we went through a rough few weeks and lots of (sometimes difficult) conversations, my patience, understanding, and reassurances eventually won my wife over and she is now almost as enthusiastic about my crossdressing as I am if not slightly moreso. I feel very lucky to have such a wonderful and supportive wife. Both my wife and I feel that it has added a new and wonderful dimension (not to mention sense of fun and adventure) to our lives.

[Cindy K]

My wife had seen my Cindy side since before we were married, but it was just about 4 years ago I told her I wanted to get out with others, this was brought up after she saw and asked about some blonde girl pics she saw on my computer ... aka Cindy,,,,:)
Its been all good since then
cindy


That’s amazing Cindy, even down to having the same names, your wife’s name isn’t Julie by any chance, cos that will really be a coincidence.

[kelly]

Hi girls,

Lots of wonderful stories of exeptance.
I told my partner(fiance) two weeks ago. I thought it only fair that she knew before we married. It took a lot of courage to stand a chance of losing someone so important!
At first it was all the expected questions, I gave her lots of information to read. It was such a relief when she said that she loved me and did not want to lose me!
Now, two weeks later (this weekend) she said that she would like to check out my collection of clothes and has even suggested that we may go shopping together, naturally I went weak at the knees!
I understand that this is a very slow journey, and, not to rush it but sit back and enjoy the ride knowing that I am very lucky to have such a partner.

Love Kelly xxx :)