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Julie
06-16-2005, 02:33 PM
I like to post positives. We hear enough negatives as it is so I try to keep my posts as positive as I can. While this one will start out sounding negative it really was a huge positive.

After I left Escapades last night I stopped at a Mexican all nighter to pick up some burritos. I walked in there and was, of course, the only dressed individual there. But I've been there dozens of times and have had talks with the owners, who are curious about my dressing. As I'm standing in line to order I hear some hoots and hollers coming from a table of girls. I look over and kind of shrug my shoulders and wave. After I pick up my order one waves me over.

So I walk over to their table and we start talking. Then behind me I hear some guy say, "You make me sick." I turn around and sitting at the table is a guy who looks like Biff from 'Back To The Future'. Now I'm all of 5'7" and 150 pounds and this guy has to be pushing 6'2" and 200+. So I say, "What did you say?" Then he repeats it.

Maybe it was a 'Back To The Future' scene where Marty McFly is called 'chicken' by Biff. Well I just tore into this guy. "You f***ing pinhead! You have no idea what living a life like this is like! You wouldn't last a f***ing minute living this kind of life! You know what makes me sick? Pinheads like you who have no f***ing idea what the f*** they are talking about!" And on and on. I was pissed!

So one of the owners comes over and gently breaks it up and escorts me to the door. When I get outside there's a squad pulling up. The cop asks me why I parked like I did (in front of the door) and I told him I was just running in to get some burritos and leaving. He said okay and I pulled away. I'm sure he saw I was in no mood to be messed with. I know my rights and was not afraid of any cop who wants to hassle me and I think he sensed this.

Yes, we are going to run into that occasional bonehead but if you saw the look on this guy's face you would have known I drove home a point. Score one for our team!

Kaye_martin
06-16-2005, 02:39 PM
Well done Julie, to heck with em all!

kaye_martin

ChristineRenee
06-16-2005, 02:43 PM
Bravo Julie....well done indeed!;)

Stephenie
06-16-2005, 02:51 PM
Glad it turned out well, Clowns like that need a keeper with them. Bet he was sure suprised at your reaction. Probably was thinking how he was going to explain how he got his a** whipped. Sometimes the frustration all comes out at once and this time it seems that it came out at the right person. Buy something nice for your self. And next time be more lady like and don't use words like pinhead.

CharleneCD
06-16-2005, 02:51 PM
Julie, I have yet to run into this kind of situation, but I hope I show the same kind of courage you did.

Stormgirl
06-16-2005, 03:01 PM
That got me boiling,I don't advocate violence and it doesn't solve anything but I hate d*ckhead jerks like that.Good for you for standing your ground. If I was there,I would've humilated him by just using words. Now let me buy you a drink and we can share burritos :p

pantylover1
06-16-2005, 03:05 PM
Way to go Julie ! were all proud of ya

Bernice P:)

Wendy me
06-16-2005, 05:34 PM
good for you standing your ground bullies back down most of the time..............

MistyCD
06-16-2005, 06:05 PM
Bottom of the ninth inning and its Julie 1, pinheads 0 !!!

You hit a home run girl !!!

Luv Misty

Jenny Beth
06-16-2005, 07:06 PM
Wow Julie, awesome! I hope the creep got the message but I doubt he had enough brains to even know what you were talking about.

jo_ann
06-16-2005, 07:21 PM
my favorite is when a guy gets all proud that he managed to "read you" and has to tell everyone else around so that they too know (This chick is a dude!).. congratulations, you guessed correctly.. here's your prize (holds up middle finger)

Sharon
06-16-2005, 07:21 PM
Another positive is that you may actually have caused the pinhead to think a little bit about what you said, Julie. We can always wish, anyway. :)

Priscilla1018
06-16-2005, 08:18 PM
Hi Julie,

You are one kick ass broad,Bravo. :Power:

Sweet Jeanette
06-16-2005, 09:26 PM
:thumbsup: I think you showed great restraint!--I would not have. I am 5'7" too, and at 180 lbs. and older, but tough, -(Ex-NAVY), --after putting my "very prettily hosed knee) into his face & nose, I would have showed him what spiked heels can do, and then made him kiss my pretty, red-painted toes!!!---In front of HIS friends!!!---And when his friends got up from the table & rushed me, the knife would have come out!---Its amazing how a stilletto spike fits a earhole so well!------What a weapon!!! :D --Oh yes, I would have gone to jail too, but, ---WTF!----You CANNOT drum ANY sense into these "Rockheads"!---I met MANY of them in the Navy.---To me, the best thing to do is, "Bust Ass"!---They understand and remember PAIN, more than ANY words, it seems.---In the Navy, and when I worked the oilfields in Texas, I was in more barfights and brawls than I can remember. I have the face to prove it!--I never go out, but only at night, and make no attempt at makeup, except for a base, because my face bears the marks of all those past frays.----But that is my own fault. ---I am just this way. I think you showed GREAT RESTRAINT!---Maybe you put your point across, in your way. I hope so.

Ibuki_Warpetal
06-16-2005, 10:17 PM
if you saw the look on this guy's face

? (http://jx3.net/jstone/judi/another%20stupid%20W%20face.jpg)

In my heyday I would have done that but I'm not aggressive enough to even raise my voice :/

JoannaDees
06-16-2005, 11:09 PM
Yikes! I wonder what I'd do ... I'm sure it will happen some day.

I do believe it was dangerous to confront him. Bullies usually back down, but some are going to get violent.

Getting psychological with them can work well. Mess with their minds, get it working overtime on them ... if it actually works that is, lol. That can get violent results too though.

I'm glad it worked out fairly peacefully Julie.