I just wanted to take a minute to formally apologize for potentially offering bad advice to a GG. I was just suggesting to try something a little different and spice up a love life. I do not condone SM in any kind of painful way but moreso in just a fun very light way (certainly not forceful). I also do not in any way shape or form condone a lifestyle of "sharing" and all that with multiple people. I believe the sanctity of marriage is precious. I just wanted to offer a little spice, not crazy out there stuff. Anyways, I just thought I would formally apologize since I have obviously offended some people and that was not my intent. So please forgive me. :doh: I wish OP best of luck and would hate to tarnish friendships I have made here with others.