If you had the choice would you rather NOT be a CD'er?
When I first joined this forum I was embracing my CDing and have an accepting SO.
The fact is we are what we are and it won't go away.
I only see a very small amount of members who have SO's that really are okay with it. I see lots of horror stories. Then there is the intolerance from society as a whole.
So if you really had a choice would you take it or leave it?
If you had the choice would you rather NOT be a CD'er?
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Originally Posted by
Marleena
So if you really had a choice would you take it or leave it?
All I have to do is go back into my life and see how many times I tried to stop. How many times I threw away the clothes and promised myself I would never go back. Those were the times that I made the choice... the tough choice... to be normal... to fit in... to stop. I was not happy with my behavior and I believed those who told me it was a sin... it was wrong... it was immoral behavior. I wanted to be normal... and be a... GOOD PERSON.
So I read about those rules... those teaching that were preached to me so long ago and I came to the conclusion... they were taken out of context... and twisted the meaning of the original text to fit an agenda.
But please... don't take my word for it. I'm not telling or preaching anything to you. Read for yourself... and come to your own conclusions. Take responsibility for your own actions... and if you feel inclined... share your story... share what you have learned. But please... leave me in peace. I'm not here to argue with your beliefs.
Today... I also look at it as a gift. It's the way the creator made me. I've accepted this is who I am and am much happier for it. The secret has lost its power. After all... they are only clothes. And anyone should have the right to wear them without prejudice or judgement.