You saved 98% (a new personal best)/ We've Still Got A Long Way To Go, Baby
My local travels around SoCal for work sometimes put me in the vicinity of new boutiques, or at least ones that are new to me. Well I recently had some time to kill and found an upscale boutique to browse in. I knew quickly that I was in over my head given that many dresses on the 75% off rack were still over $300!!!
But then I found this other sale rack and the prices were ridiculously low. I found these gorgeous knit dresses and bought two different colors for $5 each, regular $278. They fit perfect but the style will be a bit of a challenge to wear because of a plunging neckline. It either needs a perfect slip underneath, perhaps with pretty details about a v-neck, or some sort of cami. It'll be fun to find what works.
I also picked up these cropped pants for $10. They are a rich tweed in super fine detail. These were originally $473 (like I'd pay that much in the first place). For what it's worth, you can tell the difference between a pant like this and one that might be found anywhere else for under $100, but not so much that I'd make it a habit to spend that kind of money full-price. Still, I'm glad to have it for all of $10.
When all was said and done, we are talking $20 for $993 worth of stuff, a savings of just over 98%!!!
We've (STILL) got a long way to go, baby
Nearly two years ago, I started what ended up being a quite spirited thread about an encounter with a SA in a women's boutique who would not let me use a fitting room in guy mode.
Fast forward to the present.
There is a little back-story that also should be shared. I happened into this very upscale boutique the other day. As usual, I had every intention of simply browsing, particularly because I was in guy mode. And early on, I figured browsing would be all that would be needed because of the super high prices (the example I used in the shopping thread was that these 75% off dresses were still over $300 on sale).
At this point, let me describe the scene a bit. The store is the epitome of rich and elegant. The lighting is low and the surroundings are opulent. Two SA's were working and I happened to be the only customer in the store and as such, one of them was kind of hovering over me. At first, I simply said I was browsing, not feeling any burning need for disclosure at that time. However, after perusing the 75% off racks and finding nothing, I found this other sale rack where things were marked down ridiculously. Like $5 for a dress, lots of pant styles for $10. Some skirts were $20 and I don't recall seeing anything for more than $60.
I then heard one of the SA's ask the hovering one "so is he shopping for his gf or wife???" to which she replied "he didn't say". This is where I came to the conclusion that buying a $5 dress without trying on was of no risk financially but this $49 one that I absolutely loved (regular price, over $1K...go figure!) was going to require a try-on. So I pulled a picture on my iPhone, actually my current avatar picture, and told the SA that I was sorry for being vague but that I was actually shopping for myself. Her face lit up, almost with a sigh of relief and she was truly amazed when I then showed her the picture.
Back at the super cheap rack, I picked out two dresses and asked if I could try them on REAL QUICK. She said OK but the look on her face turned to absolute unease. Clearly this was something brand new in her world.
When all was said and done, the dresses didn't fit. The one I loved so much came so very close. With a shaper underneath, it just might work. I put them back and bought two other dresses and a pair of cropped pants, spending a whopping $20 for everything!
As I was leaving, I thanked the hovering SA for taking that leap of faith with me and for allowing me to use the fitting room.
So unlike the original tale during the summer of 2010, this one had a better ending but still, there was an element of discomfort present on the part of the SA's that made me feel very uncomfortable as well. I don't get a sense they learned a whole lot from the experience. I may be wrong but if another TG individual were to happen into their store again in the near future (whether presenting as female or male), I think the discomfort on their part will remain, showing we still have a long way to go before true acceptance across the board is in our grasp.
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And now for some pictures...
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Originally Posted by
Sue
Dang Sara! Someday I am getting to your neck of the woods and take you shopping. You just have that knack with the boutiques. But I don't see how the SAs can't relax around you. You have a great way of engaging people so I can't see why it isn't a problem.
Thank you Sue, that is a very sweet thing to say :).
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Originally Posted by
Alice B
You always find these great shops and come out looking great. I've got to find time to come up and go shopping with you. It will hapen soon.
I'm waiting Alice!!!
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OK, picture time as requested. These are rather plain shots that like I said with the necklace, I hope justice is done. I tried to set these up in order of appearance from the tale above but it just didn't work out that way. First we have the dress that I'll wear either as a swim cover-up or a tunic top during the wintertime with leggings, boots and a long sweater. Next we have the camel skirt followed by the amazing strapless black dress. Then we have one of the $5 sweater dresses, I think the challenges with this one are clear. Finally, the tweed skirt which will become another fall-into-winter staple.
As for the pants that I bought on the first day, I'll post those in the picture section because I was actually wearing them on Friday and managed to get a picture.