DADT, (don't ask, don't tell). What does that REALLY MEAN!?
To many here it seems to mean, " sneak, hide, and lie". So, why not just call it, SHL", instead?:straightface:
To me and my disapproving university attending, adult daughter who lives with me, it means this:
I felt I had to tell her or I would get caught. Sneaking around became so stressful it was ruining the enjoyment of dressing after she moved in full time at age 18.:doh:
Now, I tell her in advance when I will dress and where in the house and/or grounds I will be dressed and filming. We discuss where she will be so she won't see me.:daydreaming:
She doesn't like it. But, as our therapist explained, "CD's can't give this up when they r as involved as your dad is. So, if it bothers u that much u can move out or come to a compromise that works for u both." And, it has. She doesn't ever have to see me dressed and my dressing is exciting, relaxing, and stress free again!:)
What does DADT mean to u? Why don't u call it SHL if u won't/can't discuss it with your SO to work out a compromise?:sad: