Small victory for me

I was getting out of the shower and starting to put on my bra, stockings, panties and heels and my SO walks in. Back story, she is very accepting of my "light" crossdressing but she avoids the bedroom after I shower until tonight. She has not seen me in just a bra and panties until utonight. She did not bat an eye when she me in my bra and stockings. It's my embarrassment I am over coming. Now I can wash my girl clothes and hang them in the bathroom to dry and not worry about my embarrassment. Slow and steady. Seen a dress I want and working on getting it to wear

That was a good victory tonight, nice you have such an accepting SO it makes life so much easier

i am lucky my gf is great. She has no problem wih my dressing

It sounds like she popped in on purpose, perhaps to accomplish the exact thing that happened. Sounds like more than a "small" victory to me.

That sounds great. Enjoy your wife's acceptance.

Just remember, if you want to change the boundaries of your dressing the best thing to do is to talk about what you want with her.

I think how you look matters. The better you look the better your chances of acceptance.

Marion

Every step as you move toward the full acceptance of your SO is a big deal. Next step might be to show her that dress you are talking about, get her opinion...moving slowly, incrementally.

Sounds like a big victory too me. Better give her some nice attention in return. A common theme seems to be that we crossdressers think about ourselves far too much. Easy to forget that.

Sandi

Maybe it was a small victory or not. I think she was just confirming her suspicions. I do concur you need to be open and discuss your direction and establish boundaries. As the GG's will tell you, don't do the drip..drip...drip.

Welcome to the forum and do enjoy your stay.

Welcome to the forum. Small victories and pacing is the trick. Openness will assist in avoiding problems as you also progress in your dressing. Never take for granted the support and acceptance of a significant other. Always Enjoy!

Yes, Welcome to the forum!
Won't you introduce yourself to us and tell us a little about yourself in a new thread, please.
It's always nice to meet a new member.

OK, you put on a bra but was there anything in it? Breast forms?

And you were wearing heels but no outer garments?

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Originally Posted by Jenni6521

Never take for granted the support and acceptance of a significant other.

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This is absolutely correct