I met someone

About three weeks ago now I met a number of people at a Stitch brunch. Most of the people who turn up to these events are ladies and I managed to sit with a number of them. Opposite me was a woman who I?ve met before and to her right was a lady who was new to me. Although I can?t honestly say that she struck me immediately with her looks or conversation I was drawn to her and she to me.

She and I were the last to leave the caf? and we stood in the car park and had a quick chat and I was asked if I was a hugger? I said yes and we had a brief hug. I never take this sort of thing for granted as consent is a big thing here.
After that we agreed that perhaps we would have another cup of coffee or meet somewhere .To my surprise she sent me a message the following week to ask if we could meet at the same caf?.

What started out as a brunch of possibly two hours became 2 ? hours where we decided that perhaps we should go back to my house and continue talking. That brunch started at approximately 10:00 o?clock in the morning and finished around about five o?clock in the afternoon.

No firm plans were made but we did text each other during the week and on the Thursday before Good Friday I was asked if I would like to go to lunch at her house. This was to be another marathon event but neither of us expected it to last as long as it did. I arrived just before lunchtime 12:00 o?clock and I didn?t leave until 11 that night.

During our discussions I was to find out many things, some of which were to do with how she had travelled and the places she had seen. So many adventures; I in comparison must be quite boring. What I did find out as seems to be a common theme with a lot of women I have met they all seem to have been married at least twice.
What was perhaps an eye opener for me was the times where she had told me she had been to sex clubs with a husband or a partner I can?t really remember who, but that she had joined in with threesomes on a number of occasions.
I of course know that this happens but I have yet to have met anybody other than her who has actually admitted to one of these sessions. If that was not enough to rock my socks then she told me that she was a masseuse and that on many occasions she supplemented her income with happy endings.

I am not shocked or judgmental on any of the things that she told me rather it?s nice to know that she trusts me enough to tell me things that perhaps she wouldn?t tell other people.
I have been up front with her in our discussions in that I would like to meet somebody who is independent, has their own home and perhaps at some stage there might be friends with benefits.
Until then I?ll continue just to be a friend.

Sounds wonderful; best of luck!

Does she know you are a crossdresser?

Where is she? I would also like to meet her.
Just kidding but a great find.

Hi Philippa

That sounds very promising, if you are both attracted to each other I wish you the very best, this could be the beginning of something wonderful.

Amy x

Bluesman. Yes she does know I am trans.
Natalie. LOL It takes time to find that needle in the haystack. Please find your own.
Amy. I fell into the trap a few months back where I let my heart runaway with my head.
Slow steps this time.

Sounds promising Philipa! Hope that things continue so positively.

Philippa Jane, That is wonderful. I hope the relationship progresses as you wish.

Interesting, particularly such long and involved conversations.

Glad to hear it, Philippa! Always hoping for the best for you! <hugs>

So, u talked about sex but no electricity yet, Philipa?:o

Hi Sherry.
No spark as yet but tonight she has been dropping innuendos in her text messages.
I must confess this has me confused.
The attraction for me comes from her being so open and likeable also it does not hurt that she is easy on the eyes. Not stunning but then again I am no oil painting.

Ladies; today I invited her to dinner. A bit of a big deal for me as I have not had the urge to cook for someone in such a long time.
She had other commitments so it is not happening. I did however send her links to the recipes I have used just so that she can see what she is missing.
I might add that I am pretty darn good in the kitchen and I can't let the food go to waste.
I shall ask the neighbours. lol

This is so very wonderful. Please keep us updated on what seems like a beautiful friendship. Congrats

A little update for those who might be interested.
Keeping with my normal fun side I sent her a joke I found online.
To my surprise she actually thought I had hurt myself. I will post the joke in the appropriate section.
I wasn't really expecting to talk to her while she was driving for the next hour.
We did talk about relationships and we both believe in open and honest conversations. I did say I was confused by the innuendos which she apologised for and won't do anymore.

I did say earlier there was no spark (can that still happen at my age?) and we are both agreed we will only ever be friends. She was definite about wanting a MAN. Something I can no longer provide.
Ah well, I shall have to keep looking.

But maybe you can have a great girl friend to go out with.