Making time

I feel like it's getting worse. I wrote about this before but I'm noticing with age its getting worse. Im always asking my wife dates and times of events or trying to listen to her conversations to see whats going on so I could make sure I fit in my dressing. I feel I'm always asking my wife "what time do we have to be there", "what time are they coming over. I feel I'm always asking questions and my mind doesn't stop working having this almost imagineary calendar in my head trying to fit in as much dressing time as I can.
Am I alone on this one or is anyone else's minds working overtime to figure there dress time?

I ask a few questions but I really watch the calendar (we use a shared calendar for all appointments). I know much of my wifes routines and how long she will be gone from the house. And, watching the calendar and asking a few questions now and then seems to be sufficient. My wife knows I dress and knows about my overflowing two panty drawers but not how extensive my wardrobe is. She doesn't support me except to do the laundry. She doesn't want to understand. So for me watching the calendar is a must.

The dressing part of it is no longer as much of an issue, but I have to keep a daily planner, because I am ADHD. Otherwise I'd miss all my appointments and never get anything done!

I do remember well watching for every spare hour for the chance to get dressed.

Not in terms of dressing. It's always the same 6 days a week, the 7th is when it's too much effort to dress. I dress a couple of hours in the am and a few hours after dinner. But keeping track of time is more difficult. I'm daily checking calendar on phone to see what we need to do that day. It's just part of life. At least no issues knowing the day of the week.

Since my wife retired there is no quality time. I do get to sleep en femme: nightgown over a full slip, bra and panty, However, forget the heels and hosiery with dress. It's a rare occasion that she stay overnight at our daughter's home to watch our grandchild. My wife is a late riser so I do get to bang away on the keyboard for several hours every morning in my night attire.

I live alone, and I am semi-retired, so my time is basically my own. The only thing I plan ahead are those occassions I go out.

Before retiring, it was more difficult. After, as long as grandkids aren?t around, which is seldom, I dress femme 80% of the time at home. I?m a bearded dude with no interest in looking ?like? a woman even though I enjoy the feminine aesthetic.

I'm 82 Maria and I can varify it don't get better with age!:doh:

Why don't u have a real calendar or daily planner? You'll be so happy not to have to remember anything ever again!:)

Except writing everything down and looking at your planner!:doh:

My wife with pretty much total short term memory loss rents about 70% of the space in my brain. So I just dress all the time so I don?t have to remember to make the time. LOL
Hugs Rochal

Hi Maria :hugs:, Trust me, It gets Worse !!!

I?d be lost without my phone calendar. For me it?s the other way around - my wife is the one asking me about plans as I can?t get her to use her own for some reason. Dressing for me is pretty much every evening so not usually a time problem there.

I do the same thing, but sometimes people drop by unexpectedly. I usually just own it, but the other day a neighbor dropped by asking about replacing the fence between our properties. I stayed in the background and let my wife handle it because I was wearing some horrible green lipstick that I had just gotten. I was more concerned about the green lipstick than about the green dress I was wearing. Maybe next time.