This was a first.

I got home from work yesterday to find a dress on my side of the bed. I asked my wife if she bought me a dress. She told me she's planning on wearing it for Christmas Day but I could use it for now and if she decides to wear it she will take it. I just gave her a "what are you talking about"?
She told me she's not sure if she wants to wear that dress but in the mean time I use it and asked me if there was a problem if we share it. I guess that's using my situation to her advantage, if she decides not to wear it I can't accuse her of wasting money because I'm getting use out of it. I hope she abusses me more. That's a first for me. Does anyone here wife use our situation to there advantage that you can think of.

Sounds like a great scenario Maria, I would definitely encourage your lovely wife to buy a couple more dresses so she has a better selection. You are so fortunate to have a wife that supports and encourages your Crossdressing.

Seems like a fine situation to be in, Maria. The only things my wife and I share are jewelry and some beauty products. She?s way smaller than me.

My wife and I could probably do that except any dress would be long on her and short on me, so not ideal. But no worries as the likelihood of that happening is extremely close to zero. Imagining that actually happening here blows my mind.

Maria, I can see why you gave your wife that look. Like WTH! I guess use to your advantage , and maybe give your wife that out on spending too much.

Maria, enjoy the dress because her love for you is such that she truly wants you to enjoy it.

Yes. As I've said before she sees my cross dressing as a feature, not a bug. I'm pretty sure that she had more fun and met more people at Atlanta Comfort than I did.

It makes a world of difference when there is something in it for both of us.

My wife hates my dressing but puts up with it. With that bring said - She has allowed me to buy several things with the premise that we share it. Some things we are same size. I always love seeing her in "my" clothes.

She hasn't borrowed or stolen any of my clothes for a while, but a couple times when I complained about her wasting money on something she reminded me how many dresses, skirts, tops, etc I have, and I shut up. So yeah, she's getting something out of this too! :)

Well, we are similar in that we wear the same size in tops, dresses and shoes.
We began buying things we both like and we share them all. It's especially helpful in that I LOVE shoes and that gives me about 60 pair to choose from. She wears some of the tops more than I and I wear the dresses more so it really benefits both of us. It also reduces the wardrobe in the closet and saves space. She also borrows my stockings and pantyhose, but that is infrequent.

My wife and I wear the same size. In fact, she has a dress that is exactly like mine. You are fortunate that you a married to an accepting woman. My wife and I are in a "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" for decades. The best that has happened is an instance when she was clearing out tons of nightgowns from the back of her side of the walk-in closet that no longer fit her (Sigh) and told me to take anything I wanted. She knew there was one that would fit me because I had no idea about women's sizes when we were first married. There was, and it does fit and I do wear it, a white midi-length peignoir I bought her in 1971. There are two summery dresses that are empire waists that she has not worn in years that I know would fit. If she decides to expunge those from her side of the closet, please shift them to my side.

No. Because we are very different in sizes. But I am the girl she brings clothes shopping. She trusts my opinion more than any of her girl friends.

My wife has not purchased any dresses for me. But we were together when I bought this strapless heavy gown for a quinceanera, (party for a 15th birthday girl celebrating a transition into womanhood).

It was a great heavy dress that took up huge space in my closet. Many layers and very difficult to keep up without large breasts to lock it in. I was able to sell it.

I have given my wife hose when she runs out and needs a pair.

Hi Maria :hugs:,, Life is Tuff Sometimes,

the ultimate wife who accepts you and shares with you.you are so lucky to have her cherish her .good luck in your life

Don't ask questions, enjoy the fact that she is being supportive without out saying so out loud. You are very lucky