Personally I don't feel feminine when naked. My behaviours and expressions when naked are pretty male functional like being cooler or getting un naked after the being naked.
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Personally I don't feel feminine when naked. My behaviours and expressions when naked are pretty male functional like being cooler or getting un naked after the being naked.
I struggled with wanting to be female for over 10 years, Britney. Then, I bought my first complete silicone suit. When I put it on and saw myself with a naked female body I was shocked out of my mind!:eek:
In fact, after that I completely lost all interest in hormones and surgeries! Now, I can appear to be female whenever I like!:battingeyelashes:
Imagine me without the bikini.:o
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I don't really feel necessarily feminine ever. I'm a guy in a skirt or drab. But, I would say that I actually feel more "naked" dressed in a skirt than I do in my birthday suit. If someone were to see me naked, they'd know very little about me. If they were to see me in a skirt, they'd know things that I'm even more guarded about revealing. But, that's just me.
docrobbysherry;
Haha Brilliant.
I don't think I could enjoy a silicone suit. I like all sorts of textures and that would just get in the way. I consider myself sensual ahead of any gender enquiry - any sort of barrier to touch is undesirable.
Out of interest though... did it smell of
Bea_
Great answer this. I feel the same - me in whatever. Wearing "girl's clothes" is learnt behaviour. Naked I'm just me naked too - although i'd prefer not to see it despite having no external person make a point of registering their distaste for it.
I would say they'd still know little about you, only a behaviour you indulge in. They'd draw plenty of their own conclusions though.
Since I've had 'man boobs' since I was a kid, and being a 'grower' not a show-er', so the genitals are almost invisible behind the pubic hair, well, yes, I feel feminine when I'm naked.
There are moments I do, especially after I shave my body. But there are elements that are obviously missing that I?d love to have. The other day, though, I caught a peek of my silhouette and noticed some nice feminine lines.
I feel I do, looking myself in the mirror. when I was younger more.
I can understand some of this. I'm a grower too. When i was about 8 my Mum was furious at me coming in late and filthy and more or less strip washed me in the kitchen in front of her best mate - my best mate's Mum. They passed comments on how tiny it was and made comparisons... that set me up for 30 years of not being able to piss in a urinal or publicly out of shame. I feel it was more immascualting though than giving of any femininity. I actually have a pretty good length when it's active so not too bothered and the peeing situation has improved in latter years.Quote:
Originally Posted by sometimes_miss
Also, depsite having a jet black streak of hair down my spine at birth, puberty wasn't particularly generous in giving me hair and i dont have much on my legs and arms and a grand total of 2 on my chest (I'm 42..). I don't have much facial hair either. I'm short and have a small head and low forehead. Most of these things I attribute to being a foetul smoker and no longer find particularly immasculating nor feminine. I just feel a bit not average...
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Oh god yes. Shaved limbs against each other or clad in anything sheer. Divine. But then I live for sensations. Covid has taught me of the wondeful sensation of a cleanly shaved face moving inside a medical mask. The lick of a freshly shaved top lip is another good one. I can't decide if for myself that is simply hedonism.Quote:
Originally Posted by CrossKimmy
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Is that to say you feel feminine or that you feel you look feminine? Must the mirror be there to reinforce the feeling of femininity?Quote:
Originally Posted by Rayleen
Not really. I certainly do not see anything feminine in my reflection.
A little bit, yes. My hips are about 8 inches wider than my waist and about the same as my chest so even buck naked in boy mode I can still feel quite content (I was a never going to win a prize for most manly man anyway)
I sure don't feel feminine when naked and looking into a mirror, unless the planets suddenly de-aligned, antimatter suddenly became dominant in the universe and women suddenly left the toilet seat lifted.
I'm envious of your curvy body Angela! I don't have any hips to speak of, so not a very feminine body type unfortunately.
docrobbysherry your a Pure beautiful woman! As far as I go even naked being bearded and heavy I still love the ****ty female side I always feel in me! I love her.
Peace and Love
Missy :Peace::hugs:
No, I do not feel feminine when I am naked. I need the boobs, butt and hair to begin to feel "feminine".
I feel old and tubby when I'm completely naked. a definite apple shape
Absolutely not. Facial hair, 240 lbs of muscles (and fat), a descent sized protrusion and hefty jewels. Not feminine at all. Actually, not even feeling feminine when dressed
Only in my imagination, but then, I have a very vivid and active imagination ? LOL
Yes I do. I?m small for a male, 5ft 6 135-140, 28-29 waist. I exercise daily so I?m toned. But it’s better if I turn sideways to avoid looking at the male accoutrements.
That's a fair description of a female form although I wouldn't necessarily call it feminine... what are your feminine feelings - imagine you are blind...Quote:
Originally Posted by Angela1954
PS good on you for looking after youreslf. Being "toned" isn't without effort and I appreciate your self respect and I know you be loving thise endorphins.
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This is my favourite answer so far!! Where else would femininity come from??Quote:
Originally Posted by ShelbyDawn
You is OK.
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Ha - is that a measure of beauty or femininity?Quote:
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Ha - is that a measure of beauty or femininity?Quote:
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Do you associate feminity with an idealised female form? Is femininity stored in pads and silicone or is it something else we're feeling in these inanimate items?Quote:
Originally Posted by Krisi
Is feminity not innate?
I imagine I never feel feminine, however that feels, at any time. I do, though, feel great whenever I am in a skirt or dress.
Yes. I fill 32A VS bras without forms. 25 inch waist, two inches above my belly button. 34 inch hips. I like eating chocolate!
My hair is long and I shave off my body hair. I am quite comfortable going outside wearing a crop top and short shorts.
Marion
My best answer would be "Not at all." I have all the overtly male attributes of an over-weight, middle aged man.
I do not know how to feel any other way whether naked or clothed.
My boobs are always getting in the way, I'm usually naturally tucked and I am pretty hair free everywhere.
I like to keep myself clean and smelling nice and my long fingernails alone affirms my desire.
Sure, there was a time I could work out and look butch but I felt dirty and I was miserable.
So I do my best not to be that way....
I hear that - love being in a skirt. Never tried a dress but always imagined its somewhat similar to a kimono. I have no idea if I'm feminine either.Quote:
Originally Posted by Georgina
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Love being shaved - except for a landing strip. I reckon I'd be a 40A/AA withhout forms depending on whether i was in a period of fitness obsession or not. You sound blessed or make an incredible effort.Quote:
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You don't havs to look butch to work out. I couldn't give up those joy-joy feelings of imtense exercise. High rep, low weight. You can have the body of a triathlete.Quote:
Originally Posted by candykowal
Acknowledging the less understood things I enjoy has casued me to stop chewing my hands and look after them. I am blessed with really good skin and have always been selective about what prodcuts I use. Interesting that my SO has always complemented me on how soft I am but gets a bit squeamish if I shave my legs. Though we've only interacted that way a few times.
No I don't. It just serves as a dismal reminder of the fact that I was born xy instead of xx.
Hi Rayleen, your post-script is almost haunting for me. I have often thought, "am I just fabricating an alternate reality out of desire, influenced by so many others on this journey." I just feel so much more "at home" when I'm "being" a woman. I started off as just an ordinary crossdresser two halloweens ago. I continue to be amazed, bewildered and a little frightened (haha) by the speed in which my evolution is taking place. Today, if life circumstances were different, I would seriously consider transitioning.
Warmly... Beverly
Hi Beverly , Thanks for your comment Beverly Philips. things change, but can't get the past back
Chin up Elizabeth G. It's one of the easier malformations to address. Just add a dress.
There are many women I expect aren't happy with the vessel they were gifted.
No, I don't feel very feminine when naked. I don't feel very masculine either.
I would need to change a few things to feel feminine naked.
On that thought, if I'm wearing one of my wigs and have my makeup done then I do feel somewhat feminine naked. Somewhat. But at least more feminine than masculine for sure.
One of the most frustrating things is seeing myself totally naked and wanting to touch my boobs, etc. But, can't feel my hand!:sad:Quote:
Originally Posted by Britney42
Silicone has no smell, Britney!:thumbsup:
I do, especially if I focus on the area from hips to just below my breasts. My waist is the most feminine part of my body! I also just enjoy being naked :)
No....not one bit
No, I don't feel feminine either 😩 . Maybe a little when I manage to get everywhere nice and smooth and I can see my small natural (maybe AA) boobs, but generally, I just look like a naked middle-aged guy.
Gilley,
We have something in common. Your profile shoes, I have the same pair in black, aren't they the most comfortable and easy to walk in!
Davina
I feel a little feminine when i shave my armpits and legs but most of tge time no. I am just an older guy wishing he was a young gal. I feel my best when in a skirt or dress. The more made up, the better I feel. I can't say I quite understand why it makes all the difference but I like to start my day dressed up and having a cup of coffee. Then off to the shower and guy mode takes over for the day.
The short answer...... YES.....That's the the source of my lifelong issues
I was born male.....male thoughts, male actions,male facial structure, male gait, male voice, heterosexual, etc. However, because of long feminine eyelashes, feminine hands, *no reason to tuck*, feminine hips, and gynecomastia 48C manboobs, I constantly felt like I looked like a female TRYING to be male. Not to mention the daily bullying I went through because of having bigger breasts than 90% of the girls in my school. Or god-forbid showers in Gym class!
I am male, WANT to be male, no desire to *pass* or turn female full time ...... just a desire to be comfortable in my skin, hence my love of crossdressing. As soon as I get home, I can take down my hair, take off my compression shirt, slip into something more comfortable and all the daily stress is gone. No more hiding/loathing my breasts, no fear of my lack of *package*, etc.
What is feminine? I am me when I am naked. I am me when drab and I am most certainly me when wearing female clothing. If feminine for a CD is the pink fog, then it has long since past. I make no attempt to act differently when dressed these days. It is simply part of who I am.
hello Britney,
I do feel feminine, but never look in the mirror!
Luv J
If I'm undressing having been enfemme and hence tucked, as I described in another recent post, the boys have learned over the years were their place is and hence I can maintain a smooth frontage without having to rely on knickers to hold things in place. Like Jacques, as long as I don't look in the mirror being sans my gentleman's bits does give me a feeling of femininity.
Hi Britney :hugs:, There is nothing Feminine about a Naked 78 year old man, >Orchid**0:daydreaming:)**
Maybe painted nails?
No way if i did why would i want to crossdress! :heehee:
No Way! never crossed my mind.
Nope. That would require more imagination than even I can muster.
I feel feminine all the time — when I think about it, which isn’t that often. I have a natural B cup and wide hips for a male, so I look pretty feminine even without clothing.
Not even when I close my eyes.
No! Just naked and cold, usually.
Not at all, I simply feel like a man. The whole point of wearing women's clothes is to feel feminine and girly.
Panties make me feel feminine because they are made for and worn by women. Bras do the same, and everything else that is defined as women's clothes.
I am, by coincidence, a 78 y/o old man, Blue! My avatar pic was taken a week ago!:devil:Quote:
Originally Posted by BLUE ORCHID
I was talking to a very close friend here about this and as with all questions you have to decide how to interpret the question. If I look in the mirror at my naked male self I don't feel feminine in the least even with my shaved body. But with a wig , makeup, painted finger and toe nails, and an extra good tuck then with the right pose when I look in the mirror I can feel very feminine. It is one of Danielle's little obsessions to be challenged to create as female illusion as possible in my boudoir photos.