how many crossdressers in here would feel comfortable dating a crossdresser of the opposite sex????
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how many crossdressers in here would feel comfortable dating a crossdresser of the opposite sex????
You mean me in my dress and my (currently non-existant) gg girlfriend all manly and handsome? Are you describing a utopian paradise or asking a question here? :p
Yes, I would like that :o
i do date a lady that is pre-op TS and i am a guy that is pre-op TS
This is a question I have pondered for years !
It seems wholly logical that a hetero male Cd would date a hetero female Cd.
Then the "Bi" issue creeps in, or even the "Bi-curious".
Apart from the logic, I've never reached a conclusion.
To answer the question, I would.
yes I would like date a male crossdresser male
shouldnt that be tri-sexual bud.....lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Lex
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Originally Posted by scott55410
so u mean: me dressed as a guy with a techical boy dressed as a girl? (have i said it right,?) :S:S:S ¿?¿?¿
if the answer is YEES!. i say: yes dear i´ll love to´.... i think that if my bf were a CD (im single) then he wouldnt told me to wear skirts...he´ll know why i dress as a guy, how i feel and that kind of things i cannot explain because i speak spanish (XD), cos he´d be like me but the oppositte
(my braain huuurrttss)
:happy:
Well, I'm usually attracted to bio-men or transmen, but I do find some MtF crossdressers pretty hot when dressed . . . like this one:Quote:
Originally Posted by scott55410
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Anything is possible . . . :happy:
i was just was woundering cause im a mtf cd and i find attractive ftm cd's......probibly not even close to the only one and there is a way common interest and exceptance there that i find would be very positive
Id like to know one, we could have a blastQuote:
Originally Posted by karolina
I would love it, that means I would be understood:)
Yes I have more than once I really am a lesbian trapped in a male's body. When I dated Laura who goes by Larry we thought we were the story line for a Life Time made for TVs movie. We wanted to call it The Sissy and the Tomboy a light hearted tale of heavy heartedove.
Yes I would.
Hugs
Yes. l would. Would like to meet a ftm cd in my area.
Hi everyone, Im just waiting for some FtM ask me for a date
or want to get to know me, OH WHERE OH WHERE CAN YOU BE??:hugs: :love:
As Ericka, I would just love to hang out with F T M CD's, go on a date or just talk or whatever. I think all guys are charming, especially when they accept me as my femme self. I've posted a Personal to that effect. C'mon guys where are you? Do I have to perform a reverse "caveman" thing and drag you out to the movies? Not talking about anything serious (unless we click) for now but getting to know a nice F T M guy would be great. Ericka:happy:
I really like girly girls. I think it is the Dom in me :D
Okay, I think this thread is starting to veer off track. It sounds like there's plenty of people who think this kind of situation can work, and that's great, but this isn't the personals or meeting section of the forum. And, realistically, people on this site are from all over the world, so I imagine hooking up would be difficult. I think it would be more realistic to check your local listings.Quote:
Originally Posted by Han
I have actually had the chance to date a f 2 m cd. But it was way to soon for me. Now I would jump at the chance again.
Way back when I would've said"nah,it'll never work".Mainly because I like and/or lust for twomen/ggs in a lesbian sort of way and I currently don't have a desire to be with a gguy.I wonder if ftm or female cd'z would have some of the sensitivity/softness I crave?Or would he be or become ultra masculine & macho to the point of me feeling dominated or emotionally neglected instead of cherished .Well I guess it depends on the person.I think I could give it a try.
Tomboys and Sissies!! That would make a GREAT Society, don't you think! I am a Male Crossdresser married to a Tomboy - who HATES to wear Skirts or Dresses! It's the Male's turn to be the Pretty Femmy Ones!!!
Patti
This would be the best. Just think of the advice the two of us could share and how it would drive anyone seeing us in public crazy trying to figure it out. I would love to have such a relationship.
Only if the F2M doesn't pass well enough. o_OQuote:
Originally Posted by scott55410
e.g. I'd date a "tomboy", but dating a "guy" would be kind of weird.
Jennifer,Quote:
Originally Posted by JenniferMint
Do you mean because of public perception (don't want people thinking you're gay), or because it just wouldn't attract you? If I was with an MtF CD who passed well enough that others thought I was with a GG, I wouldn't care if it looked "weird" - as long as I know what the deal is. :D
It probably wouldn't attract me, especially if the F2M has had testosterone shots and/or surgery.Quote:
Originally Posted by CaptLex
I'm reminded of a topic where a guy (shadowman) was dating a girl named Leslie who turned out to be an F2M CD who called himself Lester - http://tgguide.com/message/index.php?showtopic=687 - Lester was nothing like Leslie; in fact, shadowman didn't even recognize Lester when a mutual friend pointed him out to him. That relationship didn't turn out so well since Leslie got more into crossdressing, and Lester was just totally male, and shadowman only likes girls.
Although I've been known to make rare exception for guys---I actually have a boyfriend right now---but this is the exception, not the rule. Speaking of public perception, when I'm out in public with my boyfriend, I hold his hand all the time if I'm en femme, but not if I'm in drab because neither of us is comfortable with being seen as "gay".
mms just a stupid question
a male CD is a MTF CD? or not? i mean a male CD is a man who likes dressin like a woman....isnt he?
and BTW u know any crossdressin site like this one but in spanish, u know i´d really like to know my opossite ( a girly guy, but one that reaaally pass as a girl,and helps me to pass as a guy :P)
mm i think im asking for too many things lol
well have a nice day ppl,! byes
I would. If the attraction is there, I don't discriminate. He can be part time or full time. I only draw the line at facial hair. I can't stand facial hair. I don't mind top surgery or "T" and he can be as hairy as he wishes everywhere else, but his face must be clean shaven.
Couldn't agree with you more Regina. ErickaQuote:
Originally Posted by ReginaK
I had a GG girlfriend once who sometimes talked about going out with us both CD, but we never did it. I guess she could've passed, she was well over 6' tall. But we certainly would've had people looking at us. :)
I'm mostly attracted to feminine girls, but I guess because of my feminine side I tend to attract more masculine girls. Oh well. :)
I don't think I'd be interested in an intimate relationship with a FTM, but when I was reading Les Feinberg's "Trangender Warriors" (an excellent history of transgenderism) I felt that I, as a MTF CD, had more in common with the FTM (pre-op) transsexuals than with the MTF (pre-op) transsexuals. Although I want to be seen as more feminine, and the FTM TSs want to be seen as more masculine, we both basically feel like feminine men. Whereas many MTF TSs tend to think of themselves as masculine women who want to lose those masculine traits. It's not uncommon for MTF CD & TS to have quite different attitudes & philosophies with regard to their transgender activities.
Anyway, that's about my quota for simplistic generalizations in one post. :D
Robin
Good point, Robin. I know feeling like a feminine man is true in my case, and I've heard a lot of the guys in my support group say the same thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Robin Leigh
Nothing wrong with that Captlex. The whole world seems to put so much emphasis on outward appearance. The majority of mankind misses the point. The person inside is the one that counts regardless of outward appearance. I wouldn't care if a lot of the folks on this forum were really alien life forms in disguise. They pour out their hearts here because others are willing to listen. That having been said, I want to tell you that you are a great man (and Captain) in my book, appearances and feelings notwithstanding. Love, Ericka Kay
Good point, Ericka. Unfortunately, it's the outside that people usually respond to - for better or worse.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ericka Richards
Thanks, Ericka - you're a sweetheart! :love:Quote:
Originally Posted by Ericka Richards
I think that I would give that a try also . complete role reversal !
Got to agree. Never did it, but should be worth to try. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by LadyHeather
Thanks, Cap'n! Glad you weren't offended by my generalizing. :) It's always nice to have one's pet theories confirmed.Quote:
Originally Posted by CaptLex
I used to know someone who was FTM & working towards some type of transition for almost a decade, but she ended up having a baby. I haven't seen her for years. Last time, she seemed like a happy mother in a good relationship. That baby would be a teenager by now. I never told her about Robin. We were only casual acquaintances, but I always felt a strange kind of kinship for her.
After writing this, I'll probably bump into her in the next few weeks. :)
Robin
PS. Love your latest avatar! Oh, and in case you haven't seen it before: http://newsdesigner.com/blog/images/pirate.jpg :)
WOW! Great question!! I have often thought about dating another mtf CD'er, but never thought about dating a ftm DC'er...
This puzzles me because I am straight as an arrow.....at least I think I am....never been with a man no have I ever wanted to...
BUT I am drawn to dating a mtf CD'er....does that count as a male??? dunno???
And, in that vein, I don't find it appealing at all to be with a ftm CD'er...mostly because it woiuld be too much like I was with a male and I am only attracted to females...
Oh my head....this is insane... where am I? This is confusing to me...:(
Somebody help me identify!!!! Please don't tell me I need a shrink!!!:(
sigh.....
LOL - I love it! :heehee:Quote:
Originally Posted by Robin Leigh
I know the feeling, Suzy . . . I used to think I could never be attracted to certain people, but I've learned to never say never. I've also learned not to try and identify people by what they look like biologically (that is, what's between their legs). Now I just go with whatever I'm attracted to and don't worry about the labels. It's a lot more freeing that way. Don't give yourself a headache. :pQuote:
Originally Posted by suzy
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Originally Posted by Robin Leigh
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Haha, got to have one of those! "Talk like a pirate Day" is coming! 19th september, wasn't it? :happy:
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I'll let the guys speak for themselves, my experience is that FTMs are just as diverse as MTFs. Some are happy being feminine men, but some are fairly masculine, others are butcher than a Tom of Finland pin-up, and some sadly are outright misogynists.Quote:
Originally Posted by Robin Leigh
I would. I also think it would be a great time to go out on dates with both dressed. Do the total roll change.
I've heard that too, Marlena. Fortunately, I haven't run into any yet - or at least they haven't been vocal about it around me. I wouldn't stand for that. :thumbsdn:Quote:
Originally Posted by Marlena Dahlstrom
I believe dating a f2m would be great for both parties. Each one could help the other with clothes and manerizams. this would be a dream come true.
Carol Jones
Im in east Tx. maybe we can meet sometime when I in your area:hugs:Quote:
Originally Posted by karolina
shes looking for an FTM as this is the FTM section i believe!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by susie lynn
i'm a mtf cd. i would love it. the problem is small towns are a yakity bunch.if i went to the city it would be perfect.
I've always been attracted to tomboys, always have.
So I'd be Ok with it, in fact I think it would be a paradise of sort!
I don't even know what my answer would be, just because thinking about all the possibilities and where they lead is SO confusing. LOL I'm way too blonde for this thread ;)
I'm dating two mtf crossdressers, i'm a ftm crossdresser. the three of us are bi. I would love to take my girls out for a night on the town, with me in a suit, tie, fadora, dressed to the nines and them looking drop dead gorgus in dresses and heels. to pull some thing like that off for one night of cd elagence with out any one questioning what we where would be wonderful.
But the reality is "bitch, you look better in that dress then I do" and "who's paints are these again" ~laughs~
It's wonderful. I love being able to sit back and watch my girls enjoy each other. the only way i could think of make watching thfem better would be to have a pecker of my own and popcorn. ~smiles~
I think it would be a blast to have a relationship with a GG CDer. No judgements, on either side. Just as a tomboy GG is sexy to me, I would hope my soft and girlie side would be the same to the other.