I am so jealous, you guys have such a wonderful, supportive and loving vibe here.

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10-16-2007, 03:12 PM
Lovely Rita

I am so jealous, you guys have such a wonderful, supportive and loving vibe here.

The great thing I see with regards to the Transmasculine forum.

When I read your threads and posts I can really enjoy the comraderie. You guys are the best with each other, and with the occassional MTF visitor.

I see so much loving support, and I also see the great rough housing that can only happen amongst true friends.

In my culture, when you are really close and tight friends you engage in playful insults, which shows the level of confidence you have in each others friendship which insecurity would never allow for.

You guys are so fortunate.

Thank you for letting me visit.
10-16-2007, 03:20 PM
nikki_t

I've noticed this too. :thumbup:
10-16-2007, 03:38 PM
SirTrey

Your name suits you, Rita....You really ARE lovely....:) Thanks for what you said, it is much appreciated. And you, too Nikki....We do have fun in here....Please come and join us often! :) <<<bowing>>> **Sir Trey**
10-16-2007, 04:02 PM
nikki_t

Quote:

Originally Posted by SirTrey

Your name suits you, Rita....You really ARE lovely....:) Thanks for what you said, it is much appreciated. And you, too Nikki....We do have fun in here....Please come and join us often! :) <<<bowing>>> **Sir Trey**

Scared. Don't want anyone to feel like I'm sticking my nose where it don't belong. :o
10-16-2007, 04:06 PM
SirTrey

We don't bite in here....well, Kieron IS a bulldog, but he's really just a cuddly little puppy at heart.....<<<ducking, I know he's going to throw something at Me>>> :) **Trey** (who is about to go and enter the witness protection program....LOL)
10-16-2007, 04:07 PM
Tamara Croft

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Originally Posted by nikki_t

Scared. Don't want anyone to feel like I'm sticking my nose where it don't belong. :o

The guys are great, welcoming and kewl to hang out with :D and they don't bite... well not hard... well I heard Kieron bites... uhuh... he does.... :eek:

:hiding:
10-16-2007, 04:11 PM
Lovely Rita

I agree the guys are great!!!!

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Originally Posted by Tamara Croft

The guys are great, welcoming and kewl to hang out with :D and they don't bite... well not hard... well I heard Kieron bites... uhuh... he does.... :eek:

:hiding:

One of the best times I have ever had was here in Transmasculine.

Warmest welcome I ever got.

Thanks Guys:thumbsup:
10-16-2007, 04:16 PM
SirTrey

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tamara Croft

The guys are great, welcoming and kewl to hang out with :D and they don't bite... well not hard... well I heard Kieron bites... uhuh... he does.... :eek:

:hiding:

I wouldn't know....he wouldn't DARE bite ME....LOL :tongueout

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One of the best times I have ever had was here in Transmasculine.

Warmest welcome I ever got.

Then by all means, come back anytime....:hugs:
10-16-2007, 04:18 PM
nikki_t

Quote:

Originally Posted by SirTrey

We don't bite in here....well, Kieron IS a bulldog, but he's really just a cuddly little puppy at heart.....<<<ducking, I know he's going to throw something at Me>>> :) **Trey** (who is about to go and enter the witness protection program....LOL)

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tamara Croft

The guys are great, welcoming and kewl to hang out with :D and they don't bite... well not hard... well I heard Kieron bites... uhuh... he does.... :eek:

:hiding:

Yeah, I'm kinda scared of Kieron... I have arms like wet noodles. :o
10-16-2007, 04:23 PM
SirTrey

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Originally Posted by nikki_t

Yeah, I'm kinda scared of Kieron... I have arms like wet noodles. :o

Nah, he just barks a lot.....sometimes a REAL lot....but he won't bite you, I promise!! :heehee:
10-16-2007, 04:28 PM
Tobie

Where's the fun in no biting? ;)

I admit, I love the atmosphere here too. Although my s/o is on the site as well, I don't really venture into the MtF because there's just so many ladies there, so many posts, it's overwhelming.
10-16-2007, 04:33 PM
SirTrey

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Originally Posted by TierganShaw

Where's the fun in no biting? ;)

I admit, I love the atmosphere here too. Although my s/o is on the site as well, I don't really venture into the MtF because there's just so many ladies there, so many posts, it's overwhelming.

Okay....I will go so far as to say that Kieron might NIP every now and then...but he doesn't really BITE....I mean, no big chunks of flesh or anything (wait till he logs on and sees this....I will, by then, hopefully, have a new identity in the witness protection program...but, I digress....)...I pretty much stay here, too...It can be overwhelming and there is a lot to read....we are certainly not a BORING ship, that's for sure.....Aaaaarrrrgghhhh. :drink:
10-16-2007, 04:36 PM
Tamara Croft

I think he will kill us both... but it's ok... :bs: I don't care anymore :lol: I think I've lost the plot completely... going now... gone nuts... :Pullhair:
10-16-2007, 04:37 PM
nikki_t

Quote:

Originally Posted by TierganShaw

Where's the fun in no biting? ;)

I could make a comment about that but I won't. :heehee:

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Originally Posted by TierganShaw

I admit, I love the atmosphere here too. Although my s/o is on the site as well, I don't really venture into the MtF because there's just so many ladies there, so many posts, it's overwhelming.

I think it's because there's a smaller number of FTMs here which is why there's comraderie. The posts and diversity on MTFs is a little overwhelming and arguments can easily flare up (as I've discovered - thanks again Rita! Your "acceptance" poll/thread kept me happy for hours LOL).

Anyways, I did have a FTM question but I don't want to ask it in public so I don't know who to ask. The reason I don't want to ask in public is because it concerns our daughter and one of her friends.

Nikki
10-16-2007, 04:40 PM
Tamara Croft

Ask Captlex in PM and ask him to post it in the clubhouse for you Nikki ;) That way, it will be private and only answers from FTM's will be in the thread.
10-16-2007, 04:47 PM
nikki_t

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Originally Posted by Tamara Croft

Ask Captlex in PM and ask him to post it in the clubhouse for you Nikki ;) That way, it will be private and only answers from FTM's will be in the thread.

Thanks Tamara (LOL didn't even know what the clubhouse was till just now). SirTrey just PM'd me and offered so I'll give it to him so he can post it. :happy:

Thanks!!
10-16-2007, 05:47 PM
AmandaM

They're wonderful and have fun cuz they're guys. Not catty like MTF women! :devil:
10-16-2007, 06:04 PM
Tamara Croft

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Originally Posted by amandachick

They're wonderful and have fun cuz they're guys. Not catty like MTF women! :devil:

:lol: someone finally admits it :lol:

sorry

:hiding:
10-16-2007, 06:37 PM
Tristan

Treating others with respect isn't as hard as some people make it out to be.
10-16-2007, 07:28 PM
SirTrey

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Treating others with respect isn't as hard as some people make it out to be.

Tristan, you are ABSOLUTELY right....It's not.
10-16-2007, 07:35 PM
Tobie

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Originally Posted by Tamara Croft

:lol: someone finally admits it :lol:

sorry

:hiding:

I didn't want to be the one to say it. :tongueout

And now of course, I'm curious about where the fun is in not biting. :heehee:
10-16-2007, 07:52 PM
SirTrey

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And now of course, I'm curious about where the fun is in not biting.

Dude, trust Me, I'm all ABOUT the biting....I just said that Kieron doesn't bite....not too often....well, hmmm.....never mind....:)
10-16-2007, 09:02 PM
nikki_t

Just wanted to thank everyone in the clubhouse for looking at my stuff and the responses I got. :love:
10-16-2007, 09:49 PM
ZenFrost

Thank you! We're a lot like a big FtM family here. I consider the guys to be my brothers, in a somewhat convoluted, online kind of way. And as a family we end up to being here for each other and supporting each other, and we like to pass that on to the MtF and GG visitors (who aren't completely lost in a pink fog :winkp:).
10-16-2007, 10:07 PM
nikki_t

Another little question...

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Originally Posted by ZenFrost

Thank you! We're a lot like a big FtM family here. I consider the guys to be my brothers, in a somewhat convoluted, online kind of way. And as a family we end up to being here for each other and supporting each other, and we like to pass that on to the MtF and GG visitors (who aren't completely lost in a pink fog :winkp:).

LOL Pink fog!

I did have another question though that's been niggling me for ages and I didn't have the courage to ask in case I looked totally stupid, so here goes...

What's with all the pirate connotations around here??? :confused:
10-16-2007, 10:15 PM
Albtraum

SirTrey beat me to the punch, but I'll repeat it. Your name suits you to a T. A second opinion never hurts:happy:

I'm fairly new here myself, but WELCOME!

I never bite a lady (unless she indicates she likes it).:devil:
10-16-2007, 10:29 PM
ZenFrost

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Originally Posted by nikki_t

LOL Pink fog!

I did have another question though that's been niggling me for ages and I didn't have the courage to ask in case I looked totally stupid, so here goes...

What's with all the pirate connotations around here??? :confused:

That's a good question. I wasn't around when it started way back when, but basically we (the FtMs) are 'pirates,' and these boards are our pirate ship. CaptLex is the captain, and we all have various roles from cabin boy to librarian. The ship is named The Genderquest. I was recently promoted to the ship's Guru (spiritual leader).

The whole pirate thing is basically us just being silly. It can be tiring to be serious all the time, so the pirating brings fun to our side of the forum.

Sometime we throw pirate parties and have pirate threads (most recently http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...ad.php?t=68667) and everyone is welcome to participate. We go roll playing around the boards as pirates and have a jolly old time. And recently Tamara gave us piratey emoticons like this -> :skull:

Most of us happen to be really into pirates (and a certain pirate themed movie :winkp:) so this is the result.

Hmmm, speaking of pirates, we really should post our official ranks again. Hey Cap'n! That sounds like a job for our captain to post all our ranks in one place for all to see.
10-16-2007, 10:38 PM
nikki_t

Thanks for clearing that up!! I was getting really confused. Sounds like you guys know how to have fun. :D
10-17-2007, 12:13 AM
Syr_SwitchyGQ

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Originally Posted by nikki_t

Scared. Don't want anyone to feel like I'm sticking my nose where it don't belong. :o

Okay yeah... that's how I feel about all of the other sections besides Transmasculine and/or the Clubhouse. I do have a question I've been meaning to specifically ask of the MtF peoples, but it's a question of a video that my entire floor finds hysterical and I wondered if they thought it was funny too or offensive... idk... anyone know where/how I could post it so that I didn't raise anyone's blood pressure?
10-17-2007, 03:43 AM
Kieron Andrew

Quote:

Originally Posted by SirTrey

well, Kieron IS a bulldog, but he's really just a cuddly little puppy at heart.....<<<ducking, I know he's going to throw something at Me>>> :) **Trey** (who is about to go and enter the witness protection program....LOL)

You just wait til i come back.....giving me a reputation with the ladies!!:eek:

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Originally Posted by Tamara Croft

well I heard Kieron bites... uhuh... he does....

I never bite the ladies!!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by SirTrey

I wouldn't know....he wouldn't DARE bite ME....LOL

wanna bet!!!

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Originally Posted by nikki_t

Yeah, I'm kinda scared of Kieron... I have arms like wet noodles. :o

awww dont be scared of me im a big old puppy dog, and id never bite a beautiful kind lady :D

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Originally Posted by SirTrey

Nah, he just barks a lot.....sometimes a REAL lot....but he won't bite you, I promise!!

yup i bark when people piss me off lol

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Originally Posted by SirTrey

Okay....I will go so far as to say that Kieron might NIP every now and then...but he doesn't really BITE....I mean, no big chunks of flesh or anything (wait till he logs on and sees this....I will, by then, hopefully, have a new identity in the witness protection program...but, I digress....)...

ok ok can we quit with making people think i bite when i dont!! :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by Tamara Croft

I think he will kill us both... but it's ok... :bs: I don't care anymore :lol: I think I've lost the plot completely... going now... gone nuts... :Pullhair:

you are dead woman!

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Originally Posted by SirTrey

Dude, trust Me, I'm all ABOUT the biting....I just said that Kieron doesn't bite....not too often....well, hmmm.....never mind....:)

nope i only nibble when a lady wants me to....!!!!

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Originally Posted by nikki_t

What's with all the pirate connotations around here??? :confused:

Blame Captlex for that one! but hey if it brings us together so be it!, as Trans people we spend a good deal of time thinking or talking about gender issues, this is our way of still hanging out and having something to say that may not be about trans issues thus giving our brains a break from all that thinking
10-17-2007, 07:03 AM
Tristan

Quote:

Originally Posted by nikki_t

I did have another question though that's been niggling me for ages and I didn't have the courage to ask in case I looked totally stupid, so here goes...

What's with all the pirate connotations around here??? :confused:

It's our guy way of bonding. I know the pirate stuff may seem a bit silly (it's really suppose to be a bit silly), but I think it's been what has brought us together as a group. The group that laughs together, stays together? I don't know.
10-17-2007, 07:07 AM
Lovely Rita

Absolutely right Tristan

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tristan

Treating others with respect isn't as hard as some people make it out to be.

On this side of the universe I see the great friendship and respect to be exemplery, hope I spelled that right.

We have a lot to learn from you guys. No place is perfect but you GUYS really do have a great vibe.:thumbsup:

I salute you GUYS for maintaining an atmosphere of respect and mutual consideration.
10-17-2007, 07:09 AM
Lovely Rita

You would have been in trouble on the other side

:thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by Kieron Andrew

You just wait til i come back.....giving me a reputation with the ladies!!:eek:

I never bite the ladies!!!

wanna bet!!!

awww dont be scared of me im a big old puppy dog, and id never bite a beautiful kind lady :D

yup i bark when people piss me off lol

ok ok can we quit with making people think i bite when i dont!! :rolleyes:

you are dead woman!

nope i only nibble when a lady wants me to....!!!!

Blame Captlex for that one! but hey if it brings us together so be it!, as Trans people we spend a good deal of time thinking or talking about gender issues, this is our way of still hanging out and having something to say that may not be about trans issues thus giving our brains a break from all that thinking

This would have just been too too many quotes for one post:D Over here I bet you could put your feet on the coffee table and leave your clothes thown around right?:thumbsup:
10-17-2007, 07:31 AM
Nicki B

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kieron Andrew

I never bite the ladies!!!
...awww dont be scared of me im a big old puppy dog, and id never bite a beautiful kind lady :D

...you are dead woman!

You can hide behind me if you need to, Tam - I guarantee you'll be safe there.. :roflmao:

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Originally Posted by ZenFrost

Hey Cap'n! That sounds like a job for our captain to post all our ranks in one place for all to see.

Put me down for cook, nurse, gunner or sword sharpener - I'm pretty good in armouries too, I've signed for an awful lot of ~~assault rifles~~ muskets in my time..

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Originally Posted by Lovely Rita

Warmest welcome I ever got.

Thanks Guys:thumbsup:

There's no reason all transfolk can't be like that, is there? We just have to concentrate on the similarities, not the differences... :hugs:
10-17-2007, 07:39 AM
Kieron Andrew

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lovely Rita

This would have just been too many quotes for one post:D Over here I bet you could put your feet on the coffee table and leave your clothes thown around right?:thumbsup:

yup.....
and even hot coffee mugs down on wooden tables leaving coffee rings :heehee:
10-17-2007, 07:44 AM
Marla S

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Originally Posted by Kieron Andrew

yup.....
and even hot coffee mugs down on wooden tables leaving coffee rings :heehee:

:eek:
Please
:p
10-17-2007, 07:47 AM
Kieron Andrew

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Originally Posted by Marla S

:eek:
Please
:p

polish? whats that then? cleanings for the wenches!!!:D:heehee:
10-17-2007, 08:49 AM
Nicki B

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Originally Posted by Kieron Andrew

cleanings for the wenches!!!:D:heehee:

*Puts hands on hips and stares at Kieron..* :gg:
10-17-2007, 08:51 AM
Kieron Andrew

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Originally Posted by Nicki B

*Puts hands on hips and stares at Kieron..*

oops! :bs: :angel: :hiding:
10-17-2007, 08:54 AM
Lovely Rita

How about the toilet seat?

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Originally Posted by Kieron Andrew

yup.....
and even hot coffee mugs down on wooden tables leaving coffee rings :heehee:

Can you leave it up just for fun? The toilet seat:D

Also how about the socks on the floor?

tell me more, tell me more.
10-17-2007, 08:55 AM
Marla S

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Originally Posted by Kieron Andrew

oops! :bs: :angel: :hiding:

Do you have a bulldozer ? I would need one before the *wench* :slap: :lol: can apply the polish.:heehee:
10-17-2007, 08:55 AM
SirTrey

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SirTrey beat me to the punch, but I'll repeat it. Your name suits you to a T. A second opinion never hurts

Hey!! Could it be that Sir Trey has a competitor bidding for His position as board "charmer"?? ROFL Nah, I guess not, I got there FIRST....:tongueout
10-17-2007, 08:58 AM
Kieron Andrew

Quote:

Originally Posted by SirTrey

Hey!! Could it be that Sir Trey has a competitor bidding for His position as board "charmer"?? ROFL Nah, I guess not, I got there FIRST....:tongueout

hey i was here first!! bog off, im the board charmer, Lex has even called me that before! :tongueout
10-17-2007, 09:03 AM
Lovely Rita

There is room enough for both of you bad boys

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Originally Posted by SirTrey

Hey!! Could it be that Sir Trey has a competitor bidding for His position as board "charmer"?? ROFL Nah, I guess not, I got there FIRST....:tongueout

For us, you can never have too many charmers:D
10-17-2007, 09:05 AM
SirTrey

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hey i was here first!! bog off, im the board charmer, Lex has even called me that before!

Well, who am I to argue with The Captain? :) <<<sigh>>> Okay, you can have that title, if you wish, BUT, remember, dude....It's pretty hard to find a man with the moxie of a Pirate and the gentlemanly ways of a Knight....so I MAY be working behind the scenes (and in My cabin) to secure My own position with both the fair maidens AND the crew....Sir Trey is a LOVER....And he doesn't discriminate....LOL :love: <<Lovely flowers all around>>> :tongueout
10-17-2007, 09:08 AM
Kieron Andrew

Quote:

Originally Posted by SirTrey

BUT, remember, dude....It's pretty hard to find a man with the moxie of a Pirate and the gentlemanly ways of a Knight....

uhhhummm!! i AM gentlemanly! and my bulldog ways make me a perfect pirate!
10-17-2007, 09:11 AM
SirTrey

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For us, you can never have too many charmers

Let you in on a little secret, Rita....You only need ONE on this ship....Moi! :hugs: <<<kissing your hand>>>
10-17-2007, 09:13 AM
Lovely Rita

It never fails

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Originally Posted by SirTrey

Well, who am I to argue with The Captain? :) <<<sigh>>> Okay, you can have that title, if you wish, BUT, remember, dude....It's pretty hard to find a man with the moxie of a Pirate and the gentlemanly ways of a Knight....so I MAY be working behind the scenes (and in My cabin) to secure My own position with both the fair maidens AND the crew....Sir Trey is a LOVER....And he doesn't discriminate....LOL :love: <<Lovely flowers all around>>> :tongueout

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kieron Andrew

uhhhummm!! i AM gentlemanly! and my bulldog ways make me a perfect pirate!

When the rutkus starts the maiden is always forgotton.
10-17-2007, 09:15 AM
Kieron Andrew

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Originally Posted by Lovely Rita

When the rutkus starts the maiden is always forgotton.

nuhh uhh! i never forget! :love:
10-17-2007, 09:17 AM
SirTrey

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uhhhummm!! i AM gentlemanly! and my bulldog ways make me a perfect pirate!

Ah, I concede that you are quite the Pirate in the salty sea dog sort of way...but I am still the Weapon's Master, therefore, I posess strength AND a quiet charm that DOES, in fact, yield Me much activity in My cabin....Let's agree that we are BOTH charming in our own way....and....you only want half the prospects anyway....you're straight. LOL Sir Trey is a lover of ALL.....:Peace:

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