So... Just how straight of a guy are you??

There have been lots of interesting responses to the original post, that's for sure. It got me to thinking about exactly what was being tested & measured, especially via penile response. One might say that what turns you on is an indicator of how you feel about your sexuality but I don't think it would include the fantasy vs. reality factor.

If I were to see a very attractive female, I may be very well turned on by her image. If, later I discovered that she had that little something extra, I'm sure that the attraction would diminish considerably. Then there are things that I may or may not think about that might be stimulating that I'd not take part in in reality. So I'm not sure if that would tell the whole story... of if anything could tell it.

I'd think that would be the same thing if one were to judge one's likelihood to cheat on his/her spouse/significant other by checking their reaction to heterosexual porn. A lot of people would react to watching various porn scenes of fantasies that they may have but that doesn't mean that they would actually take part in those same things even if they had the chance.

Me? Not much interest in anything or anyone other than the lady I've shared my life with for all of these years.

Lacy PJs

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Originally Posted by Lacyfem

I've pretty much dressed on and off my whole life and considered myself straight though a few encounters when quite young. Now being majorly into dressing and with wife not knowing and having had several affairs with men who loved me dressed and enjoying my fem side I am questioning straight, bi or gay. I no longer have sex with the wife and it's mostly by my choice so I'm lean towards the gay side but that side is only prevelant when I'm dressed. I do love to look at pretty women but mostly admiring how they are dressed, wondering what lingerie they have on, checking their makeup if done nicely and how their female persona comes through for me to emmulate. So I'm gay fem I guess though honestly I've beeing in bed with a man in which we were both unclothed. Ok... gay I guess!

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Lacyfem - this post is the sum of all married women to CD's nightmares!!! Please leave her so that she can have a relationship that she deserves with honesty and intimacy! So po'd !
Rant over My husband is bi, and I've indulged this side of him by giving him freedom to experiment when away on trips, and other play. Sometimes though this side of him can make me feel less than desirable to be honest. When those doubts surface, my fantasies concern trading him in for a more 'normal' male. But there is the little problem of loving him...

Wow, this thread has legs, and hopeful really shapely cute ones! Anyway I've always identified as bi because I loved having sex with men when I was much younger, much more than I did with women. When I was in my twenties that changed and I actually have not had sex with a man in about thirty years. But how else could I identify myself but as bi? Plus I really don't think that what people have between their legs is what makes them attractive. I mean I like genitals but I like the rest of people a great deal more.

I personally am attracted to femininity, the genitalia doesnt matter to me but the femininity does. Although i have never experimented with anyone other than a GG i would say im open.

I consider myself straight. At least 99%. I have had one same sex encounter when I wanted to find out if I was gay at 21. Went all the way. It seemed mechanical, was enjoyable, but just didn't do it for me. Haven't done it again. I do fantasize about it at times but I'm always a woman, never a man with a man. I am also not attracted to men in general. I don't check them out. I check out women all the time, desiring them or wanting to be them interchangeably. But, 2-3 times in my 50 years, I did meet the gaze of a man and was seriously attracted to him. That was mind-boggling. That's why I say 99% and not 100%.

To quote the wonderful Eddie Izzard... I'm a, "Lesbian trapped in a mans body!" :o

Sexually I am straight as an arrow , solely heterosexual with a great love & respect for the female body . Maybe that explains why I love to dress as a woman. How crazy are we to love the female body & want to dress en femme ? Peace, mel

I identify as pansexual. I'm attracted to all sorts of people and my preferences change over time.
I think I prefer other mtf crossdressers but there's a lot of other kinds of people I'm open to.

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Originally Posted by devida

I actually have not had sex with a man in about thirty years. But how else could I identify myself but as bi?

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I have been monogamous with my girl for (most of, sorry) 25 years. I recently got permission for a boytoy.

You like what you like. You promise what you promise. What you find hot and who you sleep with are different things.

<3

- MM

I'm so straight that I live 24/7 as a female( I've been doing that for about 10 years and have a steady BF.

Since I have started to embrace crossdressing more I have been finding out that things are changing for me, I am mostly attracted to women but also I am finding out I am attracted to other crossdressers.

I guess that I am attracted to beautiful CDers, but I think
it's because of how much they succeed at
looking feminine. I'm always wishing I could
be that sexy.
I've been married 42 years and can only fantasize
about sex with anyone else. My wife loves me for who
I am and I return that love.

This a somewhat difficult question. I absolute love women, always have, and always will. When it comes to men, I don't find any of them attractive. However, and this is what I mean when I said difficult, I find what's between their legs attractive. I don't look at any faces or bodies, and get turned on or want to please any of them. But when I see what's being packed, it's a different story. That's probably why I love transsexual porn, which I find the absolute best of both worlds. So if you had to pigeonhole it, I'd guess I'd have to say I'm bi, although I could never date a man, even if I was living fulltime as how I feel inside. Now someone else like me would be perfect.

LOL I'm not! I am a Freak! I have to say that after a lot of thought I would have to say that I am a Straight Guy and a BiSexual Woman, depending on which role I am in, though sexually I prefer to be in the female role. Now I do have to put out a disclaimer, and that is that although I have found I love to suck **** and be well, Taken... I am in a monogamous relationship with a woman that I Love so I will gladly forgo the former because I have a wonderful relationship, as for the latter... Well lets just say that my wife finds it a turn on to put me in my place ;-) so we both get the best of both worlds!

I've reached a point in my dressing where I'm comfortable with who I am. I am attracted to women, not men. But I am also very attracted to crossdressers who are fully dressed up. Where that puts me in the spectrum of straight, who knows.

Well... I don't like this question lol. I don't like labeling myself because I don't know if any of them really fit me. Bi would be the closest, but I am not sexually attracted to men at all. I can appreciate if a man is handsome in a suit or something, but that's more of a respect factor than a "oh, I'd sure like to sleep with that guy." I'm completely attracted to the female form. I looooove boobies :P. I have had a few same sex encounters, mostly due to curiosity and confusion (before I found this forum and found that there were more people like me, my CDing threw me through a loop, it seemed like a "gay" thing to do so I wondered if I was gay... Youthful ignorance). Said encounters were primarily oral, but I did bottom once. It was okay, I didn't dislike it necessarily, but I wasn't in love with it or anything. Bottoming felt good, but many a straight male like their prostates stimulated so... Though I do have to admit, I've never been with a guy dressed and that has always been a fantasy of mine, but I don't think I'll act on it. I'd rather spend my time looking for a GF than same sex one night stand.

Tough this one. I love all things female. I do know that my first choice would to be in a long term "lesbian" relationship. However there are "those times" when the feminizing is so complete one longs for the "total pictue" to be realised. Tough this one...

I'm right there with Beverly also

I don't consider myself gay. Not at all. BUT, I don't know what I would call myself. To me, straight does not exist. Gay does not exist. No person can safely say they would only be attracted to one's sex. I believe you fall in love with the person instead of what they identify as. Whether that person is a man or woman should not matter. If the feelings float in your heart for them, then go for it.

I will put it this way. I have not seen a man that I have found attractive. I have seen plenty of women I find attractive. I have also seen some women with something extra that I found attractive too. I guess I am a little out of the ordinary.

-I have never looked at or thought of a guy in an erotic way.
-I wished I was born a woman, but I enjoy being a man too.
-I look at women on the street all the time. Sometimes I want a woman so much it hurts. I have also realized that maybe this happens because I am also jealous of them, of how provocative and sexy they can be in public. I wish I could walk around wearing a semi-transparent spandex, but only if I had a woman's curves. If I did it now, as a guy, I would feel ridiculous.

Confusing? Yes.
Frustrating? No. I don't care what I "kind" am. I am all the above.

Similar to what others have shared, I am attracted to women, and when I look at a guy, I do not have any sexual attraction. But when I am dressed and imagining myself being a women, I am turned on by sexual thoughts of being with a guy, but it is all centered around the sexual pleasure - I do not even picture the rest of their body! I equally fantasize about being with a women when I am dressed.

I have no desire for a man, love the ladys. But like so many others I do enjoy the attractive transgender person.

Pretty damn straight. No interest in men whatsoever! But like you I like to see what other guys look like dressed up. It's a comparison thing and I also like to get ideas of what I might want to wear.

Being completely honest, I'd say I'm bisexual but homoromantic. I like the physical appearance of females and things, but I'm really only romantically attracted to males.

i would say i am bi ,but more like the female form and dont care about what there genitals are .like the male body to look at and be sexual with,but the though of kissing a male doesnt do much