Lol there's certainly a lot of curiosity :) I love men so it's a no brained for me :)
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Lol there's certainly a lot of curiosity :) I love men so it's a no brained for me :)
I've only been with another gurl so far. Truthfully, I do think
about dating both men and women as Theresa. Not one night
stands though. I'd like some no strings LTRs.
Theresa
As a true admirer of t-girls perhaps I might add my two cents worth. I had a five year long relationship with a lovely t-girl called Linda. It began as a friendship only, and after the first year or so developed into something more. I always saw Linda dressed, at her home, never saw her as a guy. She never stepped out of character, was never anything but feminine, and I always treated her like the amazing girl that she was. That involved treating her as any guy would a girlfriend, wive lover, bring her gifts of perfume, lingerie, stockings, wigs, shoes etc and commenting on what she was wearing, and how good she looked in it.
We saw each other on a weekly basis, and occasionally twice a week if very lucky. We care, loved and trusted one another, and the relationship only ended when I loved away with my career.
I will never forget the time I spent with Linda, and I think she felt the same.
well, this is a hard question for me. I'm Pansexual and really have no sexual preference. So I guess, I could go out on a date with a guy crossdress, or maybe even a girl if she's into it.
Sherri has some good advice.Quote:
Originally Posted by sherri
All of us love being treated like a lady, but being treated like a woman can be something else. Sex is easy to find. What I look for is a guy who really cares about me. Even if it is only for one night, I want to know that for that one night I am the most important woman in his life. That is not easy to find.
i will have to join that group
Men?? Yuck!!
Die hard lesbian
So you won't believe anyone who states they aren't interested? Thanks for calling me and several others liars.Quote:
Originally Posted by girlalex
Soooooo not atracted to guys
I had mentioned prior I had a date on New years. As Sara i was out dancing, had champane. did smoke even though i knew I shoudnt, and had a kiss at 12. As a m i dont drink. dont smoke. dont dance and I would have been in bed by 10 pm. very boring. I read so many responses in 29 pages from all of you. I see so many that say they are not at all interested but like being sexy and dressing sexy. All of you girls look so fabulous and sexy i see on here. You love to dress in straight skirts, spiked heels, looking so fabulous and then go to a club and when you get attention say thats not what you like. As said by Girlatex we do like the attention. I read by some that will jump at me saying its not true. Im sure there are some that it may be but you can also go out enfeme in a hoodie, jeans and tennis shoes. So it just seems to me we like the attention, and at times welcome it. As sara im so much more fun and so much more a person. OK now please dont all yell at me at once. As a side note going on a date of course does not have to be sexual. Just nice to be treated as a f.
Thanks Sara
i can't imagine dating another tg or a cd. two people who are probably too self involved, insecure, and narcissistic :p
I probably would but I'd prefer my man in tight Calvin Klein boxers than panties,I wear the panties :)
I'm in love with the boys! Like Barbara, they make me weak! :)
(My first post! It's taken a while!)
Yummy boys!!!! <3
I almost completely agree. I just know it's not true for everyone. But it very much is for me. But I've learned to sympathize with the GG's out there, a good man is hard to find.Quote:
Originally Posted by girlalex
I have to admit the thought have being the feminine half of an intimate relationship excites me... but I doubt I would ever have sex with a guy. I would however love to date a girl while en femme
Tough question that has more answers than the number of members in this forum. However as one of the Administrator had put it, it seems to all go back to men. Well, this is almost true but… it may stop at the sexual satisfaction of our woman side, and for some of us it might go beyond if that woman side of ours calls for romance or cuddling.
In my case, I do not have any interest in men but I am more interested in what they can offer to a girl. In that sense, I share totally the view of another member (Legz31) who said ” I cant imagine being in a relationship with a man. It is not so much the male gender that attracts me, but rather a male body part and what can be done with it as a girl”.
I find intriguing how CDressing ‘affects’ people in different ways and how it evolves with time. Years ago, when I watched sexual scenes I was finding myself attracted by the women (particularly if they were wearing black lingerie, stockings..) and I was fantasizing of having sex with them. With time, my role became more neutral and I began just to enjoy the beauty of the scenes. More recently, I found myself more and more fantasizing of being the woman in the scene, the male in the scene remains always faceless. If we say that we have a woman side, it is quite understandable that with time that woman side will claim its due and ask for retribution and satisfaction. That's why most of the responders (over 80 %) are showing, when dressed, a certain desire to be at the receiving end and satisfy their woman side.
I was asked out on a date by a guy, but never worked up the courage to say yes. I had butterflys and got very hot when he sent me the message. I wish I had said yes. I have always fantasized in bed that I am the woman....
very much thought about being with a man but have never acted
I agree. My last couple of dates have been with a guy who is 6-4, 225/235, good build, and it was practically a swooning experience when he first kissed me and held me in his arms.Quote:
Originally Posted by EmilyLynn28
Having dressed for decades I can with conviction state I am totally turned on by very good looking, strong men. The idea of being with a man and sharing such a intimate moment completes the total picture. I was once behind the most gorgeous man at the store and his very attractive wife instantly read the want in my eyes. I was in drab and she looked at me and smiled, grabbed her man and gave me a "sucks for you look". I think. had I been in heels and a sexy outfit she would not have been so playful. I don't think I will ever act on the desire, too in love with my SO. She is fully aware of my needs and we have fun role playing in the bedroom. Don't know if their is a man out there who can do better. It's fun to look though!
I daydream about it and think about it but never tried it. Would love to especially for Valentines Day.
So what is a good way to go about it? Online sites seem scammy and I wouldn't even know where to head out to.
Did it for a month, never told him who I really was, then split when things got serious (i feel guilty about this)
I'd do it again this time I'll be completely honest.
If I'm dressed up I'm maybe going to notice males and how they look a little more ,but I'll always be into girls and no interest in guys.
The closest I come to this is my fantasy of being a young newly post-op girl and still living with my parents and going out on my first date with a guy who comes to pick me up and my dad being somewhat overprotective of his new daughter insists on meeting. A whole bunch of new firsts like having a car door opened for me, holding doors open, having hard time keeping up with him because i'm wearing heels, he holds my hand and ultimately my first kiss as a woman. Other fantasies have involved losing my femalw virginity and going to a wedding with a date. Basically all the girly things we fantasize about doing.
But I could never be with a guy just dressed because I still know I'm a guy too and that's a little gross to me.
This is a suggestion. I have no idea if you live in a populous area or not, but in the northeast most large cities have a Gay night club which caters at least once a month to Girls Night Out. I'm originally from western PA/northestern OH and have been to GNO in Pittsburgh, Akron, Youngstown and Cleveland. Large metro areas like NYC and LA have night clubs which cater sometimes exclusively to CD's. You can identify the gay clubs in your area by Googling and using the proper search questions, and then phone calls to the various clubs should enable you to find the ones which have GNO, and when they are held. Depending on the weather et cetera, these GNO usually attract anywhere from 10-12 to 25-30 CD's.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mrogredick
Caveat, in the big urban areas sometimes the CD/TV/CD friendly night clubs also attract more ******* prostitutes than CD's. Those Gurls, of course, are not as much interested in you and your identity issues as they are in your wallet.
Anyway, I'd suggest that you go to a GNO in drab, and chat up the CD's who are in attendance. I'm confident that if you are polite and friendly, and identify yourself as a closet CD'er who is interested (but not completely sold!) on dating men, you will get some good conversation and some advice and help. You also will probably make friends with some of the Sisters. You will also have a chance to observe the behavior of the Admirers, who usually outnumber the CD's at these events by a ration of two or three to one. Some Admirers are nice guys, and some are Asshats, in my experience probably in about the same ration as the males who go to bars serching for Gender Girls.
Also a Caveat: Many of the CD's who go to these GNO events are Lipstick Lesbians. I have no scientific data, but suspect that a lot of bi-CD's might have had their first non-traditional sexual experience in that format. Some like that and stick with it, some like it and go on to experiment with men, and some don't like it, chalk it up under the heading Life Experiences and never do it again .
You might find that many of the CD's who go to these GNO events rent rooms at a motel near the club so they have a safe place to dress and makeup, and don't have to risk getting a DUI when the club closes. I've done this myself in Akron, Youngstown and Pittsburgh. Nobody wants to get thrown into the drunk tank on Saturday nite wearing makeup and a dress! You can split the motel room cost with a friend, and she can be your insurance policy and confidence booster. There's a reason why gender women go to night clubs in packs of 2-3-4 or more. What goes on at these motels is between consenting adults, and nobody cares if a person wants to play with the other girls, crash on the bed alone, or entertain an Admirer.
I’ve thought about this a great deal in the past but have never really sat down and tried to express my feelings in detail. I guess I would have to say I’m a lesbian. I adore women and have no interest in men. While I can often really enjoy male camaraderie with some men, I still prefer the company of women.
However, I can really see the attraction in going out dressed on a date with a man. I would prefer a less casual and more formal outing like maybe a night at the ballet, dinner at a fine restaurant and then a stroll along a scenic waterfront with other couples. (Who said I wasn’t a romantic.) Ideally, he would be a real gentleman who is unambiguously very male. It also would help if her were much bigger than me. (That’s not very hard. I’m not really very big.) The contrast in dress, manner, sensibility and role orientation would really seem to enhance my feeling of being feminine. I admit that he would be serving not only as an escort but also as a kind of prop or supporting actor to compliment my own female presentation and performance. A cursory but affectionate kiss on the cheek would be OK to end the evening but without anything more. (I guess he would really have to be a good sport about it all.) I don’t think it would be necessary for me to have any sexual attraction to him or to any other men in order for that to be an enjoyable experience.
Otherwise, there doesn’t seem to be any room for a man in my fantasies. Often there’s not even a place for me as male. When I see a nude or semi-nude love scene or anything pornographic, I tend to think the whole picture would be better without “him” in it. I’m looking at her appearance of course. But, I also tend to focus on her role and what she is experiencing. If I were trying to place myself in the scene, I would be inclined to want to be having sex as the female. But, there would be no man involved. If there was another women, then that would work very well.
Im bi but still mostly only like girs. like very few menQuote:
Originally Posted by KateW