Yes, this happens too. But most times, a simple clarification between what is fantasy vs. the reality is sufficient. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by whowhatwhen
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Yes, this happens too. But most times, a simple clarification between what is fantasy vs. the reality is sufficient. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by whowhatwhen
More than anything, folks need to remember that sexuality is a spectrum from completely heterosexual to completely homosexual and an infinite range of shades in between. Gender identity, and how we choose to express it, works the same way. Unfortunately, though, many think in terms of a Zero Sum Game. In other words, in order for ME to be OK, it means that YOU cannot be.
Sad...
I totally agree with you flatlander - in my opinion, sexuality has a sliding scale. I describe myself as bi, but at the same time, I wouldn't want to settle down and have a relationship with a guy - I just enjoy sexual encounters with men and women.... leaning way more towards women. Sex is great - sometimes I want it with a girl when I am a guy and sometimes when I am a girl too - sometimes AS a girl - WITH a girl - sometimes as a girl with a guy.
It's no wonder I'm confused! ... Life's too short - if you don't hurt anyone - have FUN - but always - ALWAYS - be SAFE! xxx
I'm straight. Although, if the opportunity presented itself, I'm not sure I'd turn him down. When I'm dressed en femme, I think it would be very fun. But, it wouldn't be an emotional attachment, only sexual.
Paulette----Love Women, both when Dressed in Drag as well as Drab!
BUT, Gotta say. When I'm dressed as a Female, I totally give in to the Girly, full FEMININE Personna. TOTALLY Love being a Girl and can see me giving into letting my Girly Self resting my head on a strong shoulder and being treated in a Girly Fashion.
Interestingly, the "trend" for the majority of answers in any given thread entirely depends on the way the original question was asked. :p
I just want to post or log here, a recent thread that was closed after just one day because really in essence it is a duplicate of this thread, but still the overwhelming majority of answers are "straight" because the question asked was "straight or gay".
Here's a link to the thread (for reference only since it is closed, and only to add to the data in this thread), and a tally of the answers:
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...traight./page2
Total posts: 39
Opening and closing posts: 2
Non answers/general comments/people posting twice: 8
Straight: 25 (86%)
Gay: 2 (7%)
Bi: 2 (7%)
You're not alone, I'm -very- bi, although I'm mostly a crossdresser for sexual reasons. lol
Im bi but lean toward men. Ive had sex with men when dressed and enjoyed it a lot. I also enjoy women but it always seems more complicated. Soooo no!! Youre not alone in this bunch.
Same here! The reason I even started dressing so long ago was that I knew I was bi, but when I would think of being with a man, I wanted to be his woman.
Definitely bi. Actually, pan, if you don't mind buzzwords. Definitely prefer the male form, but happily married to a GG all the same.