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One thing that I've tried and had it work for me is to turn my thumbs forward, this rotates my elbows in and a lot less of a gunslingers walk. Also if you look at the second link you'll notice the feet are closer together during the walk for a female than a male. I also hold my shoulders futher back and don't swing them, rather swing your arms.
What you have to do is imitate a female... follow your wife around the house reapeating every move she makes (don't let her see you though)... and you will get an idea how to move.
I've had some success pretending I have a string attached to the top of my head pulling me up...helps you sit properly and walk with your hips. The other thing that helps is to pretend your elbows are attached to your waist, it forces you to use your arms in a more femine way.
Attitude, Confidence and Practice. If you have the first two you will be amazed about what you can do. With a lot of the third you may even get close to passing, but I wouldn't bank on it. Good luck, get out there and strut your stuff!
I haven't video taped yet.. so I could be dead wrong here but I feel the best when going with the same idea as Katie.. I know I still need lots of practice though.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katie B
Hi Girls,
I've read and noticed that if you walk more with your palms facing a little forward, your elbows move closer to your waist and your arms will fall into a more feminine position.
That flash tool is incredible, it will really help me visualize what I'm trying to achieve...
-Gillian
Gillian beat me to it, in her post above - just keep your hands slightly palm forward, your elbows will tuck in naturally.. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Carol Seymour
Panhead
I can only tell you what worked for me.
Forget about trying to pass. I stayed cooped-up for two years waiting for the day I could go out while improving my passing skills - which never happened.
I am read by every single person I meet. Guess what? I am having the time of my life.
I have not been able to go out recently because of Boundaries" set by my
spouse - I cannot stand it, BUT the rest of you have told me that I need to
respect and agree to those "boundaries" - it may kill me, but I am trying to
As far as advice, watch and listen to GGs out in public - try to emmulate
them as much as possible - do not act scared - go out with dignity and
confidence - act relaxed
JoAnne Wheeler
Hey, it works!:) I've always had the focus on my elbows. Little things do make a big difference!Quote:
Originally Posted by Nicki B
[QUOTE=kelly1469;1661778]i have a massive urge 2 go out in public in fem! (just too nervous!!)
i really observe girls more now, how they dress, act, walk, etc - so i can hope to imitate![/QUOT
that make two of us,if we could just break the ice together am thinking of a nite out in london some time this summer l was gonna ask a close friend to come alone but am too nervous even on my own lets to this and have a girl nite out xx
It's really hard to stop thinking like a guy.. guys do things so much differently.. it's a mindset.. I tried to just relax and enjoy it, but it is really hard to shut the man mind off.. or even to curb it a little...
Everyone gave you great ideas.:thumbsup: I was thinking for your first venture out maybe find a tg/ cd group in your area..............can even be a few hrs away. That is usually in a more controlled situation with other ladies there for support. Just google it and check it out. Be not as stressfull for your first venture out and some have areas to change ect so you would not have to drive there dressed.
i also really desire to go out in public! i thought about it this halloween but chickened out...maybe next year! :)