When to tell her?

Personally I think it depends on how important it is to you. The longer you wait the harder it is. If it is a new relationship I think it would be much better to try and expose her to that lifestyle in some way shape or form. Mention a latest court ruling or some kind of news article and see what her response is. If she pops right out as anti-whatyouare right off the bat move on. If not, hang around a bit and decide a bit later.

If being with a partner that accepts you for what you are entirely then make sure that is considered very early in the relationship.

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Originally Posted by Bobbi Lynn

What if neither one of you smoke??

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I was speaking figuratively. To put it another way....

While basking in the afterglow of consummating a perfect enduring friendship.
"If it flies away it was never yours"...
"If it stays it was always meant to be so" ...

Either way, you will at least have been laid one more time.

I personally think you should get connected to the woman in a personal way before telling her. Sometime after you develop a friendship but before sleeping with them.

I have told several conservative women and some accepted and others ignored it. My wife is the only person that I didn't tell and she is the only one who totally flipped out