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You won't get any flames from me. I have tried to do as you say and have come to the conclusion that I probably wouldn't be as supportive as I should. I think it's the hairy legs and underarms that would be my biggest issue. :-)Quote:
Originally Posted by Melinda G
With that being said, I would attempt to be understanding and supportive. Who knows, I might even surprise myself and be more accepting than I think.
Take care.
>>> Originally Posted by Melinda G View Post
At the risk of being flamed, let me put it this way. Put yourself in the other persons place. Would you be attracted to a woman who dressed like a man? Would you stay with a woman who got a mans haircut, and let her leg and underarm hair grow out, and wore mens cloths?
Been there, did that - all to the good.
If they're OK with it, and I like them and we enjoy our time together...
Sure, I'm good with that.
[QUOTE]At the risk of being flamed, let me put it this way. Put yourself in the other persons place. Would you be attracted to a woman who dressed like a man? Would you stay with a woman who got a mans haircut, and let her leg and underarm hair grow out, and wore mens cloths?
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I could absolutely understand why someone might not be interested in a person wanting to dress as the opposite sex.
I totally understand your point.
The part that confuses me is why would you enter into a relationship where you were told up front about this behavior and had several months of experiencing it first hand if you did not want to be involved with it?
My opinion is sometimes the SO doesn't really know how they feel about until they get a chance to live with it for a while, and sometimes they change their mind sort of like the cd'er doesn't always know how far and to what extent they are interested in pursuing their cross dressing.
Everyone is just trying to cope with the situation as best as they can.
Maybe they hope the other person will change. Who knows!
Yes Deskirt , I was upfront with my wife long before marriage. She started out understanding but I cut all communications about the subject once she rejected my dressing.. I was in denial from that point try as I may the urges always appeared again and again..
I was always a mild dresser never to go beyond underdressing while with her for years ( 20) without her seeing but she knew because she knew me and scensed the relief of satisfying my urges.
Owell can't please em all I am who I am..