Ex GF/SO has threatened to out me

my current wife actually threatened to do this to me. We were really fighting at the time. Nothing came out of it really.

I had to tell my mom in case she would tell her first though. (had to tell my mom b/c she had already suspected it and I lied to her on multiple occassions...)

It was really bad in the moment but it ended up giving me the courage to tell those close to me. I agree with former posts don't tell your work if you're worried about losing your job. You'd be surprised what people will believe about pics of you or what a jilted ex would do. I bet if you denied it when she outed you most people would believe you were just messing around or halloween or some such thing.

Do what you can to get away from this toxic relationship, you have nothing to gain by remaining close to her. In the unlikely event she 'outs' you just roll with the punches, you will survive and become a stronger person.
There is nothing wrong with being a crossdresser. There is nothing wrong with being a fat crossdresser--unless you wear a lot of spandex.

It's been a difficult week for sure. I've questioned myself about my crossdressing. I've trully felt hurt. But through the encouragement of all you ladies here, and a few friends locally I've been able to cope and find hope in the future.


I decided to attend out local Gay Pride festivities, and after parties. I had a great time. As far as my ex, I think I'm just going to let her make a move. If she does, I guess i'll just deal with it. Professionally, I own my own business, so it's touchy. I'm inclined to tell my uncle. I'll cross that bridge when i get there...

Well you have been given some good advice. Block the IM's, don't call her, fill in all thoses mail "addies", tell people that she's into s&m ect,ect,.The best advice is to ignore her.Did you ever think that she is too shallow and immature for you? Get on with your life and forget that she existed. She can't come to grips with losing you is what it's really all about. You hurt her little insecure feelings. Be strong and show her that you are a stronger person than she will ever be!

Jeanna


“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”

Monica I'd let go of this girl all together she is no good for you. As for coming out do it when you like. Don't let her push you into it.And you are a good looking girl Monica. just take care this girl sounds like she's a little off in the head Hun.:hugs:
Angie