To all of you who gave me advise, many thanks, i haven
t found the solution yet, but got a bit closer, thanks again
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To all of you who gave me advise, many thanks, i haven
t found the solution yet, but got a bit closer, thanks again
Beam im a member of this forum and have been for 2 years I joined after reading over my partners shoulder for 6 months as he has been a member here for a while... I was interested in what he did and how he interacted here.... although I knew about his CDing way before we got into a relationship which is kool....Quote:
Originally Posted by beam47
I always believe that communication is utmost imperative so you all know what page you are on and how comfortable you are with each other with regards to your CDing... frrom what I have read re what you have posted shes supportive.... your question is on how can you discuss this with her with out upsetting...her....
my best piece of advice is to start your conversation on that you would like to broach the subject of your dressing and have a discussion with her, and that you dont want to upset her but not sure how she would take this discussion....
she could say ok... then proceed....but if you find she is unwilling perhaps my other piece of advice...will help
my other piece of advice... if shes very unsure of all this,.. there is in the forum a Place called the FAB (females at birth) just for the female partners of crossdressers dealing with all sorts and levels of things that one goes through with a cross dresser,... it also helps them to get their heads round a lot of things that perhaps they cant discuss with anyone else....trying to understand yourself.
Try and perhaps suggest she either over your shoulder read, or get her to join up and then contact one of the Moderators being either Sandra, ReineD, DI, AlexisGG. they all have in their signatures on their profiles about joining the FAB forum ...
also tell her shes NOT alone in this.... we are here to help all.... good luck
Irene shesadvl yup thats me:battingeyelashes: