Feeling...ugly.

Why are women so obsessed with being skinny? Why are we? There are plenty....and I do mean plenty of women that are considered a "plus size" that are absolutely stunning. Personally, I like a woman who has the figure a woman was meant to have. Call me crazy, but I don't find skinny hot. At alll. A woman was meant to be herself. She was made beautiful at birth and nothing is going to change that. Let's do a little test.

On the bottom, Kate Moss. On the top....Laura Wells. You probably know Kate...but why....why don't you know Laura, who has made a career after being who she is? I don't know. Personally, Laura seems at least ten times more of a woman than Kate. She has everything.....Kate....doesn't. To me, that's the problem with most women these days. Be yourself. You're hot already. Don't let someone else tell you how to be hot...such as being skinny.

Jessica, good question!

I really wish women would not be so hard on themselves when it comes to their weight. Health is one thing but it is such a shame how so many women tie their weight to their self worth. It is something I really hope it is something we as a society can move beyond, there is such a tremendous cost to this obsession to be skinny. Women come in all shapes, sizes, heights, colors etc. and is just another variation in nature, a woman who is big should no more be ashamed than a woman who is dark skinned or is tall.

I have always been attracted to big women; an attraction to big women really is not uncommon among men, even though there is still a deal of shame around it (being in the "fat closet" as I have heard it referred i0t.)