-
Hey erica!
What you say just goes right into me!It doesnt take a lot for me to get all emotional feeling!I know what you mean about situations preventing you from transitioning.I have an 8 year old son.No woman right now,but i am working on that.Yes,i am attracted to women.Well,i just dont know if i could put this on my family,and the people i care about in my daily life.I am more worried about their feelings than mine,in many ways.They all do know that i am emotional,and i have even gone so far as to express my beleif to them that my emotions are like a womans.But,i think they blow that off and never think that i also wish to be a woman.I just dont know what would happen!
I also know what you mean about this place.I would like to find myself together with everyone here,if just for a short while.I think it would be nice,just to spend some time with a bunch of people who feel the way we do.And to share our thoughts,and feelings.
You saying that you must function as a man most of the time makes me think to say that i would consider myself to really look nothing like a feminine person.To the world,i must just look like a regular guy.To me,its just funny to be such a normal looking man,but to be so feminine inside.
Well,its nice to have met you Erica!If you want to write something back to me,you can write to my e mail,or send a private message,or however you want!
Bye!Love to all!
Lacy
-
All of us are a combination of male and female. (Unless some of us were conceived by male or female only parents.)
In varying degrees, we run the range from being very male to being quite female.
And I also believe that most of us has had 1 or more past lives. Maybe even hundreds of them. The scientific research into the probability of past lives is proving to the affirmative that we have lived before.
We could have been female as many time as we have been male.
So lets celebrate both of our genders.
(We all know that the "celebate" practice of many religious types was really the results of a misscopy of the original text 1000's of years ago when someone accidently left out the "r". Right?)
-
Beautifully said Dina
I have had a lot of experience with Past life regression (PLR) both as client and fascilitator. Many time the first questions are "is it real"? "is it true"? and "does it fit with my religious beliefs"?
Please set those aside for a moment. I have always had the opinion that the first question should be "will it work for me"? I have seen it work well for many people and leave them with a pleasant, happy experience. I have never seen PLR create, or worsen a problem that someone has. PLR is often used along with psychotherapy with good results.
My personal experiences have been both as male and female, and usually with my current wife in the experience. I'll list a few of my favorites.
1. female, middle east pre-christian era. was sold as wife to a man from a waring tribe (current=wife), that marriage created peace in the area for generations. memories of this regression still give me a peaceful feeling
2. Male soldier 1st millenium (?battle of hastings) took a flaming arrow to the chest. This regression was done during a period in my current life that I was having severe angina after a heart attack. Doctors could not find a cause or cure for it. I replayed the PLR with my wife, she planted the suggestion that I remember to take a good shield with me. The angina stopped immediately and never returned. Dr. said, the heart healed itself.
3. female pre- civil war US prarie. I was washing dishes in a sod house when my husband (again current wife) brought glass windows home for me. incredible feelings of love from that life.
4. male revolutionary war era SE PA/NJ area. long after the war, best friend from war (current wife) our children were getting married. Happy, Proud of children. wonderful memories.
All of the memories I brought back from the PLRs remain with me. The still bring me great pleasure and are as real to me as the memory of typing these words.
I don't really care if they are real or not, the emotions and memories that I have make me feel good. If anyone else has tried it please let us know how you made out.
Shelly
-
Personally, I don't believe in reincarnation. I think some of us simply are more femme than others, recognizing that part of all of us which is as much femme as male. After all, the difference between male and female is XX vs XY. All males are part female as well. Some of us are just more sensitive to that.
As for the soul, I don't think the soul itself is either male or female. That's a biological thing. The soul is of something beyond or different from the biological.
There have been times I have felt that my soul is very, very old. Other times when I've felt it is a babe in the woods. Always I've felt it was beautiful.
I think we're just here to love each other and be the best person we can manage to be.