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Jesus. Thank you so much. I read that before I went to bed and let it soak in being the volume of information that it is and then read it again when I woke up. I can't thank you enough for putting that much time and effort into doing me this solid. Wow, I'm impressed. Awesome Debbie. I definitely get the whole violence thing because I was beat up a lot in elementary school for numerous reasons I just lost that sensing instinct in my teens. I'll watch for that. Anyway, thank you.
Some very good advice I have nothing to add.LOL
James Dean was the king of cool IMO so a fine male to pattern yourself after.
Good luck I'm sure you will do fine!
When in drab mode I tend or have been told that I'm very chivalrous I don’t mean the hot poker up you bum kind but as you mentioned opening doors car doors included and I always stand when a lady leaves the table and hold her chair when she sits down. I'm old school I guess. Just my 2 cents. ;)
Hugs,
Jane
I'd keep it old school as well. It's just the gentlemanly thing to do. Plus it makes the girl feel really good about herself.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jane-C
I'd agree! Although, I'm gonna sip the "die young" part and just "live fast" ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Tracii G
For sure we want you around here for along time Ha ha.
Lol thanks Tracii. I'd hope I'm not annoying enough to wish death upon ha!Quote:
Originally Posted by Tracii G
I'm chivalrous in male mode (although I just call it "polite") and one disturbing thing I've found when I'm in female mode is how few men are actually that way! Still, it feels very good on the rare occasions when a gentleman holds a door for me!Quote:
Originally Posted by the_shark
Still, Adam, don't let that discorage you. Being gentlemanly adds tremendously to your presentation!
Eryn is right being a gentelman will only add to your charm.Some guys can't grasp the whole idea but you can be the classy guy that gets it!
Thanks Eyrn and Tracii. I fully intend on being the classy guy. I'll keep chivalry alive and well. Not only do the girls like it, but it makes me feel more manly as well. so win win!
Debbiet;What branch of the service where you in????Quote:
Men will go into the military, take hazardous duty where death is high probability, because they believe, and are told, that if they survive, they will have their choice of women. Often, before a key battle, the front-line troops were fixed up with girls who were willing to have sex with the soldiers - so that they would believe this lie. Most of those who survived were just sent to one battle after another, eventually being wounded severely or ending up with shell-shock, battle fatigue, or Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome
If you did not do what you where ordered to do, you either got a big Boot up your rear, or a firing squad.
Rader
In the military you do what you are told end of the story, battle fatigue everybody seemed to get it to some degree.365 and a wake up is all we had to look forward to.
Before a key battle they brought women in? I sure never saw that.No hanky panky allowed before a mission.
For me it was head to the ammo bunker and get my tools of the trade lay it out and prep mentally for the mission.
Well, my male siberian husky farts and occasionally belches. But my female does neither.
Not saying that anyone here is a dog, but it might be a start. :)
Here's a good website for you. The Art Of Manliness:
http://artofmanliness.com/
Even a Nancy boy like me can learn a few tips there.
Lol, thanks Helen :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Helen CD
Thanks for the site nancy boy ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by LilSissyStevie
Ha ha you are too funny shark.Quote:
Originally Posted by the_shark
Lol, thanks Tracii. Eh, must be a guy thing... ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Tracii G
Mr smartie pants sounds like to me.
Hi Adam! I love how polite you are, and how you express your sincere appreciation and gratefulness for all of the fantastic advice that has been offered to you in this thread! But stop doing that!!! Do not say thanks over and over again! Say it once, be done with it, then grunt in acknowledgement of anything else that follows!
Lol! Haha, well, I figure I can be polite on the Internet but, if you say so than- haha *grunts* ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Anne2345
Shark; It is refreshing to see a new member with manners. Your feed back is interesting to others as toQuote:
Originally Posted by the_shark
see what you are thinking from all the information out there. I say you are rite on the mark, go man go.
Rader
Great! Yeah, I like people to know they're really doing me a solid. It's good it's appreciated.Quote:
Originally Posted by RADER
Learn to be indifferent about things that is a guy trait too.LOL
If someone says "hey man did you see that" say "yeah I saw it" then go on with the conversation.LOL
Lol, I see what you're getting at haha...Quote:
Originally Posted by Tracii G