cross dressing and passing are not the same thing. If you enjoy cross dressing then do that. Set your bar in advance of the process. Passing is a fantasy for most of us. Don't set your bar at "passable."
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cross dressing and passing are not the same thing. If you enjoy cross dressing then do that. Set your bar in advance of the process. Passing is a fantasy for most of us. Don't set your bar at "passable."
Hey Jessica, I do feel similar the same way you do. Heck I've thought of changing my name from Launa to BFT....
That means Big F_ _ cking Tranny if you didn't get it....:) I have always tried my best to look as passable as I can and although I've been told I can look pretty good, theres no mistaking I'm a man.
Do I want to go out in public more? You're darn right I do.
Am I going to go out in public more often? Yes I will be.
Will some people laugh, point and say shit? Yes they will.
I look at the whole senario that I'm stuck with and I've decided I will try to do the things I want in life without being too selfish. If thats possible being a CD....
I will always try to look my best, "not obnoxious or scary" and educate anybody that wants to talk to me. Thats about all I will be able to do in my lifetime. Views with society are not going to change too much in my life but maybe I can make a small difference to the next generations below me to help them along in their journey through this same thing....