Are You Arm Candy???

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Originally Posted by carrie r

i'd much prefer to say, "i'd be proud to be by your side."

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well said!!
:D

It is funny. years ago when I had an SO, we actually had a discussion along these lines.

For us, It was not so much arm candy in the superficial sense (neither of us would be considered "attractive" by mainstream society's standards), it was more about how we felt about each other, and being linked at the arm was a way of showing we loved each other and were proud to have each other. Whether I was en drab (mostly) or dressed (trans settings), I was always honored to be on her arm.

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Originally Posted by Amy Hepker

But, if her male dresses as a female, then she doesn't have someone to show off, but rather someone to be embarrassed about.

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That pretty much tells why it's almost impossible to find the few women who might be interested in us; being the SO of a crossdresser would be something other women would make her feel ashamed of.

YES! Finally someone who sees what I do. I know guys are arm candy. Society is made to believe the lie that all crossdressers are gay. We are led to believe the lie that women are not visual creatures. Why do you think girls like to go to clubs, dancing and all. It isn't to dance. It's to show all those other girls what they have.....on their arm....