I hope it is becoming obvious, thanks to some of the MisFits who have weighed in.
SOME folks want, need and desire a label of some sort. Having and using some set of letters arranged in some certain sequence [that even the EXPERTS don't agree on] allows people to fit in. And/OR for the drug companies to market some sort of magical pill to "cure" or combat the "illness". [This happens all the time in today's world. Most magazines now - with very few exceptions - are filled with drug ads] Other folks neither need or want a label of any kind. Or care what other people call them. There is no right or wrong when it comes to labels. Any man who has ever spent any time at all on a Dating Forum will realize that there are TONS of ladies who think it "cool" to be referred to as a "$lut". Doesn't mean they ARE one or want to be one. Other ladies actually LIKE the C word.
One thing we can ALL agree on. ALL CDers are Humans and we all have the right to dress as we want and or present as we want should we choose to leave our houses unconventionally attired. As long as we are not breaking any laws.
It's NOT possible to know what others are THINKING. It's NOT possible to know if one passed. Translated this means to wear what you want and present as you want and simply treat folks right. Nothing magical about it.
