What if the shoe was on the other foot?

I would hope I'd be as gracious, understanding, and accepting as he was.

Hi M W, Aside from the mustache that pretty much describes some females that I have seen on some construction jobs.

It would be weird, for certain, but not problematic. After a brief period of time to process the thought, I like to think I really would not mind.

Now, if she wanted to surgically and permanently remove her boobs and trade girl parts for guys parts that would not work for me. i would not hate her or cause trouble for her, but a physical transition would not meet my needs in a relationship.

don't care I"d make her happy if I could c:

My girlfriend enjoys somewhat masculine styles anywho : o

I'd have to draw the line at sex with her dressed as a man. But I do not expect her to Make Love to me when I'm dressed as a woman either. So that seems fair to me.

I would not have a problem with it because what you wear or look like doesnt make the person its who you are on the inside

I would love and accept her irregardless of what she wanted to do. I am in a DADT relationship and would be the opposite of my wife. I would support her because as some have said it is what's on the inside that counts. Hairy legs and all!

Interesting, I think the whole idea would be rather exciting and educational at the same time. It would be great to share a moment like this, and then in the end discuss what each other felt and experienced. Who knows what we may find out about each other. I know what's underneath the clothes, we are who we are, regardless of how we appear when we're dressed....

While my wife is not the girliest girl there is.... I love her femininity. I love her style, her feminine general way of being. There are things which I am and do which are more feminine than her, but not many. I do enjoy those differences we do have, and in an odd way, appreciate the similarities. ( she likely doesn't) lol

If she came out and said that she had gender issues, even as I am now, I would find it difficult. That is just me being honest. I would not leave her for those, but would struggle just as she does.

What is good for the goose is good for the gander, and vice versa. I would support her completely as she has supported me. To me, that is what being married means.

Interesting question and I was good with it up to the "passionate love" point. That is a boundary I would not cross and it is the same boundary my wife will not cross with me (we set that straight from the beginning). As my wife wants "boy me" in the bedroom, I want "girl her" there as well. Regarding the clothing question, if I was not MtF CD and my wife wanted to dress "en boy" from time to time, go out, go shopping, wear a handlebar moustache, simulate 5 o'clock shadow . . . support her . . . you bet. Clothes, make-up, fake moustaches do not make the person . . . she would still be the woman I fell in love with regardless.

Hugs

Isha

Doesn't seem like a plausible "thought experiment" for reasons already mentioned by several astute gals. Cate Blanchett wearing a Tuxedo is HOT HOT HOT. Whereas, Brad Pitt in a mini-skirt is only "hot", for us few niche people.

One would have to be a GG viewing a MtF CD to have an authentic perspective.

I wouldn't accept it. Sorry, personal preference.

I'd love it. And I'd help her in every way I could. But the, my wife dresses like a lumberjack much of the time, so a nice suit would be a refreshing change.

I don't think I could deal with it, but then I wouldn't tell a wife and I don't see myself doing it much when in a relationship anyway.

On an intellectual level I would have no problem with it, but in the context of my relationship with my girlfriend, well... I'm attracted to very delicate, feminine girls, (it just so happens I want to be a delicate, feminine girl myself as well, hehe) so it might be an issue if it's something she wanted to do all the time. (although, again, I would jump at the chance to be a girl 100% of the time, everywhere if it were possible, so that's hypocritical of me)

I can't really help what I'm attracted to, though. Tomboys are a turnoff for me, so it probably wouldn't work...