Sometimes I wonder...

Ally,
Lasting relationships always need work, you are not unique in your situation but you are doing the right thing.
I wish you the best for continuing happiness. :)

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Originally Posted by CrossJess

you have put up a picture now of "how you were".... to me that speaks volumes that you can't and probably never will be fully on board with your bf being a crossdresser and notably wishing it was simpler is never a good feeling, if you feel like this now then you will probably never fully except him as a crossdressing man

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I'm sorry, but this is so not true. :p

It's natural for women to feel some anxiety when they first find out about the CDing. It is not, after all, a common behavior that is embraced in our society. There is always a period of adjustment as we learn about what this means for our partners and how our relationship will be affected.

A big mistake for most SOs is actually "pretending" that we're fully supportive from the beginning. This usually means that the SO is not yet fully in touch with her feelings.